How Do I Make These Shorts Look Less Undresed/slutty

Why would a guy turn down an opportunity for a meaningless hookup? We were practically already undressed and he was ready but when it came down to it he responded with “My dick likes you but not really”?

It’s a common prejudice against heterosexual men that we want to have sex with all women all the time, and thus that there’s something mysterious, weird, or perhaps even wrong with him if he says no.This prejudice is incorrect.It’s true that men are, compared to women, more likely to say yes to a offer of casual sex. There’s many reasons for that, among them safety-concerns, less slut-shaming of men, and cultural values that tend to admire men who have sex with many women.But being more likely to accept is not even remotely the same thing as always wanting sex, or as wanting it with all women.It’s perfectly normal for a man to say no, and he might do so for all the same reasons that a woman might say not. (except for fear of pregnancy)Examples include:He might not be in the mood for sex on this particular day.He might not find you sexually attractive.He might not feel that he knows you as well as he wants to know you prior to having sex with you.He might prefer only to have sex with women that he’s in love with, and he’s not in love with you.He might not want to have sex until he’s married.He might worry about the risk of STDs, or about the risk of unwanted parenthood.He might, for some reason or other, not feel safe.He might have another partner, be sexually monogamous and want to honor the monogamy-agreement he has with his partner.It’s no mystery at all really.Men sometimes say “no” to offers of sex for most of the same reasons women sometimes say “no” to offers of sex.

Do crossdressers make better husbands?

As the wife of a crossdresser I can assure you that they really do make the best husbands.Now my husband was not a crossdresser when we got married and it was my fault that he became one and we both followed this white rabbit down the hole together. He really enjoys it and I love him so much and enjoy all our time together no matter how he dresses.Top reasons crossdressers make better husbands:Men who crossdress are most certainly straight as gay men are not interested in dating a man in female clothing and underwear.Because they are more in touch with their femanine side they make better and more attentive lovers as well as calmer more caring partners all round.Because they like to look good in female clothing, they take better care of their bodies and are generally smoother, better trimmed less or no body hair, cleaner, smell much nicer and take better care of all clothing and fabrics in general.Because they can wash their own lingerie and underwear, you can trust them to wash yours as well and know it will be done properly and returned to the draws in pristine condition.A man wearing a bra and panties under his work clothes is far less likely to be willing to get undressed with the slutty sexetary in the photocopy room at work for fear she just laughs her head off at him and tells everyone what she found under his clothes. Not that I worry about my hubby ever being that kind of man anyway.A couple who plays together, stays together and if you can both enjoy the experience together then its just one more thing helping to hold your marriage together.Others may have a different opinion to myself but both my husband and myself believe that clothing is clothing and no fabric or fibre ever made, grown or stollen from an animal is gender specific.If the material the clothing is made from is not gender specific then how can you call it female clothing? The same material in the clothing could have just as easily been turned into a rope, bed sheet, bath towl or door mat.Its time the whole world woke up and let people wear clothing they like and not put gender labels on the world we live in.