What to do when your sister is dating a loser?
You know what?? THAT IS SO GREAT THAT YOU LOVE YOUR SISTER AND WORRY ABOUT HER,, DON'T YOU STOP CARING, AND WATCHING OVER HER, IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER, AND CARE, DO NOT MAKE IT AN ISSUE BETWEEN YOU AND HER, EVEN IF YOU DISAGREE WITH HER CHOICE.. JUST BE A BROTHER, LOVE HER, SUPPORT HER, AND WATCH OVER HER,, SHE WILL NEED YOU IF THIS GUY IS A JERK.. JUST LET HER LEARN, AND DO ONOT BE MAD BECAUSE SHE IS IN LOVE, AND CAN NOT SEE WHAT THE GUY IS ABOUT,, BE THERE TO CATCH HER, WHEN SHE FALLS, WHEN SHE IS SAD, OR SCARED, OR IN PAIN .. BE A REAL BROTHER AND LOVE HER NOMATTER WHAT HER CHOICE,, AND IN TIME, IN THE YEARS TO COME, YOU WILL STILL BE HER BROTHER, AND HER YOUR SISTER,, IT IS NOT YOUR JOB TO MAKE HER DECISOINS, BUT IT IS YOUR JOB TO BE A BROTHER, AND BE THERE FOR HER AND ACCEPT HER, LET HER LEARN HER OWN LESSONS, JUST AS YOUR FAMILY, LETS YOU LEARN YOURS,, OK I HOPE YOU UNDERSTAND, LOVE HER UNCONDITIONALLY.. IF THIS GUY IS A LOSER, SHE WILL NEED SOME HEALING, AND LOVE AND REASSURANCE, NOT CRITICISM, AND ABOVE ALL DEAR BROTHER,, DO NOT ABANDONE YOUR SISTER, IF YOU LOVE HER GOOD LUCK I MIGHT BE AN ANGEL, AND I MIGHT BE WATCHING YOU
How do i break up my sister from her loser boyfriend?
You can't do that your sister has to let the relationship go. But I do have some tricks up my sleeve you can try. Try and find a friend that he doesn't know or hasn't met in the family she has to be pretty have her hit on him exchange numbers and even go out once your sister realizes he cheated she'll dump him. Bring proof to the table and don't tell your sister you set this whole thing up until she completly moves on with her life and finds someone better.
My sister is such a loser?
She is sixteen and stays home all day sleeping and all night eating and on myspace. On weekends she sneaks out the house and doesn't come back until the next day to sleep all day. My mom doesn't set any boundaries at all! She does whatever she wants all the time. My mom doesn't tell her anything at all because she doesn't want to deal with her horrible attitude. She just thinks that maybe one day she will learn her own lesson. Do you think my moms method of raising her is really going to work? Its frustrating to watch. When she was in school she failed almost every single class, and kept sending my parents to court for truancy. Right now she is not even going to school.
My sister was dating a loser...?
we thought she wised up and dumped him.. But, she still talks to him, went out to eat with his parents. This guy is going nowhere, and is doing nothing with his life. I've never liked him. He's a drunk, druggie who treats her like crap. It is totally not like her to even talk to someone like this. She thinks she can save him.. yeah right. Do I just wait it out and see what happens? I love my sister and I know she can find something better out there. Do I talk to her or will I just push her away?? Help, thanks.
My sister needs to dump her loser boyfriend. Help!!?
I love my sister to death and it makes me angry to see her boyfriend using her like this. He takes her money, beats on her, he's tried to flirt with me twice while they were together, he spit on me, he doesn't take care of his kids, he tells her she's ugly, and the list goes on and on. She'll steal from me and go give him MY money. She let him use my car before and he wouldn't give it back until after I threatened to call the police. His family talks about her and laughs to her face. And did I mention, he's been living with a women for about seven years. My sister has two kids from him and every since she got with him, she become so depressed. He's really beaten down her spirit. She really changed since she met him. She lost so much weight and she doesn't even fix herself up. A really nice guy at her job really liked her, but she just blew him off. I know it's not my business, but if you really love someone, you would try to help them.
HELP!!! My sister wants to marry a loser.?
My younger sister 23 wants to marry a guy who has,no job,no goals,no interest in college,lives off his parents,and still gets treated like a child just sleeps and NEVER leaves the house.Never wants to eat take out,bars,movies.Nothing.She's employed and college educated.HELP!!!
My younger sister thinks I'm a loser?
She's 13, I'm 16. She has a ton of friends and is always texting/on the phone with them, going out and inviting them over. She even has a boyfriend. I have friends at school, but I hardly ever hang out with them outside of there. It's not that I don't want to, I'm just never invited anywhere. I have never had a boyfriend, or even held hands with a boy. I'm not ugly or fat or anything, I'm just a little quiet around new people. My sister is always calling me a "goody goody" and I know she tells her friends the same thing. But the thing is, if I had the opportunity, I wouldn't be this way. I'm totally open to going to parties and stuff, I've just never been invited to one because I don't hang out with that crowd. I'm not really sure what I'm asking here, just wondering if anyone has advice or is in the same boat.
What should I do if I don't like my sister's boyfriend? How do I continue to be close with my sister if I can’t stand spending time with him?
You should grow up, act like an adult and support your sisters decision, whether you agree with it or not.What's the alternative? If you can't act in a mature and respectful manner towards this person, you are jeopardizing any relationship with your sister. If you're happy for that to happen, then off you go.But what if, say for instance, this person turns out to be abusive or manipulative and you've cut ties with your sister because you're not prepared to put the effort in to be around someone that you don't like?Where does your sister turn to if she needs help, where does she go if she has no safety network? How does she ask for help if/when the time comes and she knows you weren't even prepared to fake it for her? And no doubt all she will hear from you is ‘I told you so’Whether you like this person or not, whether you approve of them or not, its your sister's choice. It is her decision. At the end of the day it really has nothing to do with you, if she is an adult it's her choice only.You don't have to like it, but you should be supporting her. One day she may need help because of something this person has done, you could be 100% correct in what it is you're thinking or feeling. But you will never convince her of that because she clearly likes this person and until that changes, well, you're the one that needs to think about what kind of person you are going to be during this.The world is full of people that you are not going to like, how are you going to deal with them?