How to stop my uncontrollable negative thoughts?
ok well even if people really are completely oblivious to whats going on inside my mind (which thank you for trying to convince me otherwise but i am completely convinced they can sorry) but even if they can't it is still unbearable to me to deal with because i hate insulting people for no reason, even if its just in my head, and i can't stand some of the horrible disgusting thoughts that cross my mind
I CAN'T CONTROL MY NEGATIVE THOUGHTS!!!?
I really need help !!!! I can't stop thinking about bad things that will happen or bad things about people. My mind is so negative and messed up but my heart is good. I'm actually a good person but I can't stop thinking about these bad things. Thinking bad about people is my main problem. This has caused me to not talk to people at school, judge people I don't know (I don't say it out loud), and not have any friends because my mind believes that I'm better than them. I know this sound crazy and stupid but I'm really serious. I want to be a good outgoing person but I can't stop thinking like this. Please help !!!
Ok im reposting it, srry. Cant control bad thoughts Christians only?
Guys. If u r atheist please dont answer. im not mad at God. I just dont want these bad thoughts. God have blessed me so much and i DO love Him i think. And sometimes i fall short but im trying real hard. If ur atheist, please just put "atheist answer" and respect my religion. Ok. So i have all these mean or innapropiate thoughts about God. AND I DONT FEEL THAT WAY! i cant control them and certain things trigger them. i cant control them. i feel so horrible. i think i might have OCD. But idk, never tested i think. i feel like a failure. And also, im now suicidal cuz i feel so bad. im destructive to myself and i cry all the time. is this Blasphemy of the Holy Spirit? i dont mean it, im sorry, im not deliberatly thinking this. Will God forgive me? im only 13. i cant stand it. my parents say its just my hormones, i dont want to live with my self. PLEASE HELP! I dont mean them!
How can I control and stop bad thoughts like lust?
How do you conclude lust is a bad feeling?Isn’t greed worse than lust? And isn’t selfishness worse than greed? And what about jealousy?Its all how you see it.Don't feel offended if I consider you a regular, normal human being. Until you hit puberty, being devoid of those lusty feelings you are bound to feel confused when these thoughts hit you once you cross puberty. Sex is a physical need and if you need confirmation go check out Maslow's hierarchy of needs. It might be better if you accept these feelings as a part of yours. And they are not as bad as you think they are. You can indulge in sexual fantasies and masturbate to relieve this tension. Whether you choose to have sex with another individual is purely your choice.If you still think that these thoughts are bad, then you can always concentrate on the other better things in life. There is lots to do and once you become engrossed is something you like there is a low chance that these thoughts come to you.Hope this helps!
How can I stop bad thoughts from coming into my mind whenever I see an attractive woman wearing short revealing clothes?
Firstly, Get professional help as your feelings are going beyond strong physical attraction and your need to try and hurt somebody is NOT NORMAL. You need to seek psychiatric help, pronto, as many have already mentioned.Secondly, I think you should do the "attractive woman", the favor of considering her as an actual human being. Try to think about that, the next time you happen to look upon a woman in revealing clothes. Try to imagine the life that she is leading as a living person, not just as a piece of meat you could fuck. Try imagining her family, her parents, her siblings, her friends, her loved ones, her childhood, her career, her waking life! See if this helps in your immediate situation.I understand that your problem could be entirely psychological, but forgive me for more worried about the woman that you could possibly hurt. Hope you get help and get better!
How do I stop evil thoughts?
Our Brain has two Parts. Right and Left. The Right Part of the brain is the Creative and Imaginative Part and half the time its asleep for most of the people. The Left Part of the Brain is the one which is responsible for generating evil and Negative thoughts. So Whenever any negative thought comes to your mind, just start Thinking about something good. Maybe what you want to do in life, your dream job, maybe your dream wife in this case and suddenly the right part of your brain wakes up clearing all the negative vibes and thoughts present in you and giving you a direction to work in.Specifically in this case i have another advice which works for me mostly. Whenever you get any such thought just start thinking about your mother, maybe your sister or any woman whom you admire and respect. Automatically your brain will stop producing such thoughts.
How can i stop negative thoughts?
Firstly, you need to tell yourself that these negative thoughts are wrong! You need to reject all the negative thoughts you are experiencing as false! Tell yourself that you are wrong, its not true, you're being paranoid and the like. Tell yourself this over and over if you have to until those thoughts stop. Secondly, replace those negative thoughts with positive thoughts. Its not just enough to tell yourself those thoughts are wrong you've got to correct them with positive thoughts. The positive thoughts are right and true the negative ones are not. Turn those negative thoughts into positive thoughts and tell yourself those positive thoughts over and over until you believe they are true. Thirdly, understand your negative thoughts are habit and you want to break that habit by replacing those negative thoughts with positive ones. Habits are automatic behaviours so telling yourself negative things is automatic. To stop this you must manually or constantly tell yourself positive things until the positive thoughts become automatic.