How can I reach her?
Search her on other networking sites, may be linkedin. She could be on Orkut also.If you know her e-mail id that would be all, I guess.If you know her facebook user-id, mail her:
Should I be the bigger person n reach out AGAIN???
Pretty much I'm tired of always being the one that reach out to mend so called friendship . This one girl n I didn't get along at first but I was the one that went up to her to work it out n been cool since. We stop talking n January n I reached out n July to work it out. Here it is nov n we not talk again. I feel like I shouldn't have to keep reaching out
If a friend cuts you out of her life, would you ever reach out to her again?
I'm writing this anonymously, because I am one of those who cut my friends off. Also writing because I hope this will save someone's friendship.First, a thank you to those who first questioned the why: why your friend would cut you off. I would be happy to call you friend.If your friend cut you off with malice, I'd agree its best severed. Otherwise, I hope this will reach someone who needs it.You see, many of these answers come from the perspective of "Me, me, me." and "who's to blame". I want to say, "It was never about you." and "There's no one to blame."I cut my friends off 2 years ago, because I didn't know what I know now, that I have depression. Depression comes in various forms, and most commonly, a downward spiral of an internal dialogue that repeats "No one cares about me." I was so tired of myself, my friends and my country, thus I literally escaped to another country.Now that I'm better mentally, some days I wish some things:1) to have a meal with some of those friends. I miss those friends. I don't ask to reconnect again, because I feel guilty for it. But I had two who tried to reconnect with me within those two years, and I am grateful for that.2) to have friends who understood mental illnesses. I came from a multicultural, multilingual, modern country, and not one around me knew how to help me. It's nobody's fault, we were just ignorant human beings.What I'm saying is that, maybe it isn't about you or about your friend. Something has happened, and you'd want to understand what the real cause is. If your friendship is worth it, then it has always been about the two of you.Someone here said "True friends don't cut one another out of their lives". Maybe true friendship is more about not being afraid to be soured by life's lemonades.
Why do dogs back up when you reach for them?
they are afraid that you might hurt them, hold your hand out and let them sniff it first, then you can pet them
Should I reach out to my old best friend? I really miss her.
That would depend upon why she is your “old” best friend.If you broke off your friendship for a valid reason, then it’s probably not a good idea. (Boyfriend/husband stealing is a no-no!)If she is your “old” best friend, just because you drifted apart due to distance and time? Then it’s fine to try and reconnect to her. But you can’t be mad at her, if she doesn’t want to reconnect, you did, after all, “forget” about her.But honestly… true friendships last the test of time. No matter how far apart you live. No matter how long since the last time you talk… with a true friend, the moment you contact each other, you literally pick up like no time has passed. My best friend and I are like that. We disappeared from each other’s life for about 10 years, and when we reconnected, it was like that 10 years never happened.