Guys, why do you stay friends with an ex?
Guys what are some reasons as to why you stay friends or "hang-out" with an ex? My ex dumped me a year ago yet last week he called me and asked me to go see a movie with him. Then he took me homw, and when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to see me every once in awhile. By the way, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. So what does he REALLY want?
My best friend asked me out on a date?
while you are going out nothing will be weird. you'll already be friends so you will just start doing romantic things after you break up it might be a little weird for a while, just give both of you a chance to cool off, after that im sure you can be friends again i dated my best guy friend we broke up because it wasnt working and we are still reallly tight dont listen to the people you say you'll hate each other. they have no idea. im still friends will all my ex's that i was friends with before
Is it O.K. to ask a guy to remain friends even after you stated that you only see him as a friend?
It’s okay to ask, certainly, if that’s what you want. I would suggest that you not do it only as a way of trying to let him down more gently.If he decides he either isn’t interested in this or that it would be too difficult for him, please try to be understanding of that, and be respectful of it - as far as he is respectful of your desire not to have a romantic relationship.Where it might get a little thorny is here: maybe you still want him to be a friend, and maybe he still wants you to be a friend - but you don’t want the same kind of friendship. That’s a thing, too. If it’s not mutually satisfying for both of you, it’s just. Not. Going. To. Last.
How can I stay friends with a guy after he turned me down?
It’s a risk that everyone faces when they have feelings for a friend. Do they tell the friend and hope that the friend feels the same way about them, or, sit on their feelings and get frustrated?It was courageous of you to take the first option.I’m wondering though if he feels awkward, or if you are just reading into it because you feel awkward for telling him.You found the courage to tell him how you felt about him, so, why not have the courage to ask if it has changed your friendship?Perhaps you might have to let the friendship go. At least an honest discussion will tell you how to move forward.
Stay friends after being rejected?
About 6 months ago, I invited my brothers roomate/friend to a football game. Prior to this, I knew him threw my brother, and when I would come a visit, he was very flirty. And acted interested. Tickling and touching, I guess in my naivity, I thought that he might have liked me so I asked him to"hang out". After the game I expressed interest and through online messaging in so many words said that I liked him. He said he wanted to "remain friends". So months have passed and he is still being very flirty. Which I have come to believe are games. So my heart wants to be friends with him, because he is so much fun to be around, but I know that he has been dating, and may have a girlfriend. And he has been rubbing that in my face when he calls. Please help me, I need some sound advice on what should be done. I really like him still, but I think he may just be using me for an ego boast. Should I discontinue the friendship, and stay away?
He likes me but wants to stay friends?
k my guy friend likes me and i like him but he doesnt want to go any further than friends because he doesnt want us to date and then break up and not talk anymore. but it hurts me coz hes made me like him and now i have to just deal with being just friends and not being with him and knowing he likes me....but he'll probly end up dating someone else ...and i dont no wat to do because he still flirts with me and treats me like he likes me but he just wants to stay friends...so what do i do??
Still want to stay friends with a guy I rejected?
Ok I know some people say after you reject a guy you can never be friends with him again but I think that's bull ****. Anyway onto my dilemma, so I have a good guy friend we have two classes together and are in the school show so we see each other everyday after school too. He asked me out and I think he's funny and nice and he's not unattractive I just could never see us dating. So i said no. It's been a few days and he's kind if avoiding me but if I talk to him he will talk with me just very mutal. Let me get one thing straight I was not rude when I rejected him I simply told him I didn't see it and I'm very sorry but no. I want to stay friends but am afraid of when I talk to him or try to be funny and have fun conversations like we use to I might lead him on and I don't want to lead him on because i dont want him to ask me again and i have to reject him again.I just want to be friends
How do I stay friends with him after giving him a bj?
Okay so there's this guy that I have been crushing on since forever but we aren't that close. A few weeks ago we were talking (usually he's never interested in talking to me because he's really good looking and I'm just average) and he jokingly asked me for a blowie. We were talking about sex and stuff and he said he would make out AND have sex with me. I asked him to come over to help me with assignments and he said okay, but it didn't work out because my parents were home. A few days ago, he asked me for a bj again. He said he was really horny and I was really reluctant to do it because he is clearly using me, but I couldn't say no. After about an hour talking, I said okay and he came over and I blew him. After that I texted him saying "are you home safely?" and all he said was "Yeah thanks for that. Made my night". He blocked me on whatsapp because I kinda asked him a lot of questions about that night. I actually want to blow him again AND stay friends. How do I tell him without being too easy? :/
Why does he want to stay friends?
Let's take in account every aspectInterest matters :- He is not interested in you. Probably he prefers girls of some particular genre.Mature(adult) : He is mature enough to realise that friendship is always more wonderful than relationship.Protective of your friendship: He doesn't want to screw things up between you two.Value for the relation you share: He wants you as a life long friend and not just a couple of months girlfriend.Love: He probably loves someone else.Career oriented: He may not want to screw his career goals. (No distraction I mean)Not a despo: Let's say he is not a pervert either.Believe me he is a genuine person.Already knows he has no future with you, which means he has a vision.A family person.