How to stop being depressed over a girl?
Been there, done that. Time is the ultimate healer. I did not believe anyone when they told me this, but you will get over it. Think about this way, eventually you will meet the right person but before you do, yow will go through a bunch of wrong people. So when it doesn't work out, your just eliminating the wrong choice and getting closer to the right one. Its like a numbers game, for example you have 10 doors to choose from and behind one of them is the grand price. Behind all the other doors you can get some good stuff too but its not the grand prize. You get as many chances as you need, so even if you open the wrong door, you still may enjoy the prize or it may be a total piece of crap; but ether way you are that much closer to opening the right door next time. You will find your sole mate one day. I had a very bad break up, this girl broke my hart by cheating on me & I thought my life was over, I was so depressed and did not think that I would ever love or find anyone else to love me. But over time I got over her, met several other girls and eventually got married. I have been married for 11 years now.
How to stop being "depressed"?
You definitely sound like you might have a lot on your mind. I would recommend by starting with some therapy. Seek a professional to help you sort out the thoughts and feelings you may have from your past experiences. Or even start with the school counselor. Use your resources. Sometimes things are dealt with just by talking them out. Sometimes additional assistance such as antidepressants are recommended. Seek out some help and I'm sure you will find it rewarding to get somethings off your chest.
I can't stop being depressed!?
I have been depressed for a long time now. It has gotten better in the past week or 2 but it keeps coming back. I get depressed thinking about how im 19 and my mom is 49 and that someday im not gonna have her any more. She is gonna be 50 next year and it freaks me out knowing she is getting old and before u know it, im gonna be sittin here without her. I hate thinking about these things and i know its not normal. I know im only 19 and thats young and my mom is 49 and still has a good while still to live. But she's in her older years now and it makes me sad. It's a feeling inside me that i have, not necessarily those thoughts but i always have a sick feeling which triggers these thoughts and sadness. I try looking forward to having a good time with her but when i things about doing fun things, i know that one day, those times are gonna be gone too. It feels like time is just flying and days keep going by and before you know it. Im gonna be old looking back on life when i had my mom around and had fun with my brother and sisters. I need some help badly. Sometimes i just feel like i dont wanna go on no more. I always wish the world would end or God would come back before i have to deal with anything. But that is not in my control and more than likely, i am gonna have to deal with losing family. It is very painful. can anyone help!!!! Does the past 30 years feel like they have flown by for you?
How to stop being a depressed drunk?
i think im a little depressed all the time , even if i dont drink , but when i go to parties and stuff when i drink i end up feeling real depressed , i look at everyone else at the parties and they all seem happy , having fun and stuff. But with me its like the complete oposite i even get suicidal thoughts sometimes, and it doesnt even take much beer to make me that way. With like 3 or 4 beers ill start getting sad....
How can I stop being depressed about being single?
“Girls are like apples...the best ones are at the top of the trees. The boys don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples that are on the ground that aren't as good, but easy. So the apples at the top think there is something wrong with them, when, in reality, they are amazing. They just have to wait for the right boy to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree...” Please don't put yourself down, you sound like a beautiful and amazing person, and since you don't want to play around like kids today you're just that much more better. I wanted all those things too at your age, but I stayed single by choice, so guys will come around and everything but you shouldn't trust them before you really know them. I am single to this day because I am waiting for the right guy, if you choose to do that too great, and if you want date and stuff don't fall for anyone too quickly, and don't do anything you'll regret because guys at that age only care about one thing. Someday you will find the man of your dreams, but for now just enjoy being a teenager, get a hobbie. I like painting, and riding my bike, and playing tennis, I'm sure you'll find something you love to do too :)
How to stop being depressed about a girl u love?
Involve yourself in other things, don't feel depressed over someone who isn't even the slightest bit effected by you... just keep telling yourself that you are going to be with someone one day that'll make you happy rather then depressed. The spring/summer is almost here... so start planning fun things to do.. and that should help getting over her.... also.. hang out with friends more... i guarentee that friends are the number one solution to all problems... let them take your mind off of her...
How do I stop being depressed about being a virgin?
I'm 37 now. I lost my virginity at age of 25. I was consumed by the idea myself. Once I lost my viginity I went crazy and was have sex with regularity. Some of the women I hardly knew and even the ones a dated I didn't really love. Looking back at it all I see that sex is over rated. It served as moments of brief pleasure and didn't give me any lasting happiness. I now wish I had stayed a virgin til I married. What an amazing gift that would have been to give my wife, the woman I do love. I could have given her some that no other person in the word could have given her. There is only one person you can give your virginity to, and now I know only one person that really deserved it, but because of my selfishness of 'needing' to feel that pleasure from sex I could not give that to her. Don't look to get laid, look to find relationships. If you remain desperate to lose your virginity you may wake up regretting that you gave it away to the wrong person, just like I do today. Sex is best with the one who you truely love and loves you like wise. When people look back on thier lives and remember the good times sex is usually not what they recall. Relationships, that's what you want to have not meaningless sex. We learn nothing of ourselves through sex therefore we don't grow from it, but through relationships we can learn and grow and become better people. If you are having a hard time finding relationships with people then try first seeking a relationship with Jesus Christ, He is seeking a relationship with you. He can also help you with other relationships. With Jesus thing just work better. I hope I helped. I prayed for you.