All of my boyfriend's best friends are hitting on me!!?
Ok so i am really close with my boyfriend's friends and i tell them everything, so in a way they're kinda like my best friends, too. We all were hanging out in my basement watching a basketball game and i was sitting next to 1 of his friends and he put his arm around me to grab the remote and he kept it there for a few seconds. I got up to go get some water cuz it freaked me out. When i came back downstairs, his shirt was unbuttoned. I sat next to him again cuz i didnt wanna be rude, but i sat with my feet closest to him. My boyfriend got up and went to the bathroom, and his friend leaned over and told me i was really hot and that my bf was so lucky to be with me. I told him he really shouldnt be talking to me like that and he just winked at me. Another time, the second friend called me and asked if i wanted to see a movie with me. We went to the theater and he offered to buy me popcorn. When the two main characters kissed, he touched my hand. I looked at him and i pulled my hand away. When he dropped me off at home, he walked me to the front door and put his hands on my hips and told me he would call me later. And he kissed my cheek. Ok so friend #3 has been friends with my bf since preschool. He wouldn't stop texting and calling me and i finally answered him and he asked me to go with him and all the others to a party. They all said i was hot on the way there, but i guess my bf thought they were joking cuz he just giggled. I told them to shut up. When we got there, friend #1 kept touching me on the hips, the back, and shoulders. i kept telling him to stop and pushing him away but he didnt stop, so i ditched him and went to the ladies' room. When i came out, friend #2 cornered me in the living room ( nobody was there) and tried to make out with me on the couchh!!>:OO!! i pushed him away and went to tell my bf.he told them to stop or he wouldnt be friends w/ them anymore. they wont stop but i dont want to be the reason my bf lost his three best friends. HELP!!!!!!!!!!
I think my boyfriend's best friend is hitting on me?
after 2 months of dating, I've finally met my boyfriend's best friend. at first, he was kind of grumpy, but later on, when he was talking to my boyfriend, I've noticed him looking at me and smiling. he didn't look away as I looked back at him. all evening, he ocassionally smiled at me and when my boyfriend said it was time to go, he came to me, put his arms around me and asked me: 'wouldn't you like to stay some more?'. before we left, he hold me in his arms again and kissed me on the cheecks, saying he was very glad he met me. do you think he liked me or what? it's not that I want to cheat on my boyfriend, I just want to know how to act around him. I don't want to encourage him, if he was indeed flirting with me, but I wouldn't wanna be cold if he was just being friendly. could you help me and tell me your opinion?
My best friend is hitting on my boyfriend?
Looks like its time for her to go down, just kick her ****. Kidding, actually....not really but seriously consider that since apparently she isn't such a good friend if she's hitting on your man. Do talk to her about it, just be straight forward if she doesn't like it well tough for her since she shouldn't be doing it in the first place. Tell her you don't like it and if she can please stop. Maybe even try throwing boys her way, so she'll lay of yours. Good luck!
My friend is hitting on my boyfriend what should I do?
Hey there!The same situation with me but I gave my girl the benefit of the doubt to handle the situation on her own, which eventually, broke my trust.You may want to look deeper into this situation like how is your boyfriend reciprocating towards her actions. If this is one-sided (advances from your friend only) then this should generally be fine, give him that trust to handle it, in a way proves to you that he’s a keeper too.That is just my saying and it’s up to you so, hope this helps! Good luck and God bless you! ;-)
My best friend's boyfriend hits on me?
Well, my best friend's boyfriend's started hitting on me saying stuff like"your beautiful" or "Your such a great girl" But like when we're all together he always talks to me first, and he always gets down when I have to go and stuff. I think I should tell her but I really don't want to cause trouble or upset her :S What do I do?
My boyfriends friend is hitting on me?
I am going to be a males prospective. First, tell the friend strong and firmly that you serious about your boyfriend and that if he crosses the line one more time that you will tell your b/f. If you crosses the line, then: 1. He doesn't truly value his friendship with your boyfriend 2. You aren't the cause for the split between the 2 if it did happen, he was the split. Also, it will tell you a lot about your boyfriend. If you sides with his friend in the situation, then you know where you stand in his mind. And you would have to ask yourself if at that point it would be worth continuing. If he tells him to back off and "means" it, you know that your relationship is strong and he values you. In the end, don't let his friend manipulate the situation and hit on you. Also, make sure that you aren't giving any flirt hints at all. As then in a way you are fueling the situation and that could cause problems. Good luck in what ever decisions you make.
My best friend's boyfriend hit on me...?
You need to tell her this, because this guy seems the type of guy who would cheat on her for the next woman he saw on the street. Don't let her marry him without telling her what happened or she will be hurt when she finds him hitting on another woman he barely knows. Will you help me with my question? http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgSqorNlMl9_zhhq_k8bjdrsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20100610175531AAOc6N9
My boyfriend's best friend has hit on me more than once. Should I tell my boyfriend?
If you do tell your boyfriend, what do you expect him to do about it? Is he his best friend's keeper? You certainly don't want to come between them or put boyfriend on the spot for something that's not his responsibility. In addition, there are guys who, if presented with a choice between friend and girlfriend, will go with the friend every time. What you need to do is to establish your individual integrity with the friend, beginning with a private chat that goes something like, "Look, buddy, it's not okay for you to be hitting on me, understand? I'm not interested, and if it happens again, I won't be friends with you any more." My guess is that he'll not only back down, he'll respect you a lot more in the future. Since you both presumably love Mr. Boyfriend to some degree allbeit in different ways, you may even become allies. But don't be the one to tell your boyfriend anything about it. If he ever does find out, he'll be able to see how coolly you handled it and respect you more himself.
What can I do if a friend is being hit by her boyfriend?
Well it is assault - but victims do not always want to press charges.Let her know you know and be there - often the silence is the hardest part. Listen to her.Learn what support services there are in your country for domestic abuse, and assess the situation to see what may be appropriate.I cannot tell from the question what else is involved so I cannot be specific.You usually don’t need irrefutable proof to report a crime - it is law enforcement’s job to decide what evidence is needed or how they should act. I’ve called the police just from some thumping on a wall. But the appropriate thing depends on how the police are where you live.
What do I do if I have a boyfriend but my guy friend keeps hitting on me?
Well, here’s the thing, you’re good friends but you met him at an event and haven’t seen him since.