I can't stop thinking about this guy?
Life is short, just go for it. It's better to act on your feelings, than to leave them and live the rest of your life wondering what could have happened. Try to get closer, make your feelings obvious, or just go ahead and tell him. Lots of people need someone to be blunt with them when it comes to romance and feelings. If he doesn't think of you the same way, you can accept it and move on, which may not be a easy process, but it is possible. Plus, you can then find someone else! Completely, 100% possible, there are too many people on this Earth. Good luck :)
I can't stop thinking about a guy I met!?
Well it sounds like he likes you as well. Definitely try to hang out with him again, it's not easy to get him out of your head, force yourself to stop watching video of him, that way you will give your mind a break. Just do something else.
How do I stop thinking about a guy I like?
My advice: think about something else.I know, easier said than done, right? But hear me out. If you’re so focused on thinking about this guy all the time, then maybe you just have too much free time to sit and think about him. Start filling up your time with other things that will take up your full attention.Start a project, hang out with your friends, host a party, join a class, learn a new skill, start a new hobby, pick up a second language, talk to other guys, hang out with your family. join a club, travel, read a novel, take dance lessons, make new friends, do crafts, give yourself a makeover, redecorate your room, finish something that you’ve been meaning to finish for a while.If you feel like you just can’t motivate yourself to do anything, tell one or a few of your close friends about your problem and ask them to help you stay distracted.
How do i stop thinking that every guy likes me?
I guess this stems from insecurity. The need to be wanted by a man, maybe.... except I don't want that. But whenever i meet a new guy or whenever i'm talking to a guy friend (minus a select few, my best buds) I can't help but wonder if this guy is talking to me because he's interested. Or communicating because he's interested. I don't assume this in all situations though, like if a guy is calling me to check up on plans we all made or if someone is texting specifically to ask about something that's coming up, for example. But if a guy says hi randomly, a guy I haven't yet become friends with, I assume that he's interested. And then because of that, and because of my tendency to crush on a lot of guys I meet, I end up getting my self esteem screwed because my head's not in the right place, so I'd be trying to decipher everything and making a fool of myself (in my head). How do I get this to stop? it's an annoying characteristic, and it stops me from making many friends because I get anxious so I freeze up, although there's no pressure meeting new people because I'm not there to impress, you know
I can't stop thinking about this guy but...?
My classes started last week, and I saw one really cute guy. And now, I can't stop looking at him. He gets my attention. On Monday I realized that he also looks at me. Like that thing, you're looking for someone and when he/she perceives, you stop looking. He does this a lot. But the problem is, he's that kind of popular guy. I've never talked to him before. And there's a girl that I know she's always near him. They hug each other everyday, as far as I know, they've never made out before. I heard that the girl that is near him wants to make out with him. Today they were near again, smiling for each other, hugging and whatever. But the guy was still looking for me. And I don't know what to do. He's the only one in my class that gets my attention, and I don't know that should I do to get his attention. I really want that guy. What should I do? He's also that kind of guy that gets any girl that he wants. I don't know if I'm the kind of girl that he likes. Well, I'm not saying that he likes me, but I think I like him, and it bothers me a lot. I just can see him, I can't stop thinking about him, I can't stop seeing his pictures. What's happening to me? I've never ever acted this way before!
I can't stop thinking about this guy i met online?
I've had an IDENTICAL situation like that. I'm 16; he was 20. I was attracted to his personality and his way of thinking... I called him every chance I could, IMed him compulsively, and when I wasn't talking to him, tormented myself over the fact that he didn't like me. Although, sometimes, the thought "what if he DOES like me?" did creep up, and that made the entire situation worse... that small possibility. Basically, I was living in ruin, obsessing over someone 2,000 miles away. Then I found Keenan- who was in two of my classes, and lived a few blocks away from me. My life turned around. The best advice I can offer you is scout out guys your age, and close to where you live- ones that are REAL, ones that you can physically touch and hold and connect with (not through internet cables). I've stopped thinking about my internet crush and focus on my real-life love now. (: Trust me, it's much better like that. Good luck, and please don't do anything silly like buying plane tickets. ;)
How do I stop thinking about the man I had an affair with now that my husband and I have decided to work on our marriage?
You probably won’t like my response —nor will many others.If you are still dwelling on your ex-lover, this is extremely telling: you love this man. Affairs are love affairs. Just because you’re married does not mean they are less relevant than if you were single. And it hurts just as much when a love affair ends, if not more. For some people, this is also the death of a dream—a dream of a happier, more fulfilled life with a more suitable, compatible partner. We don’t like to mention this too much, but there are some instances in which cheating spouses are better paired with their affair partners.Personally, I find it wise for those who have engaged in affairs to separate from their spouses temporarily. This is known as “controlled separation”. When I was married to my first ex, we did CS. It was incredibly beneficial, and it shed a lot of light on the real problems in our marriage—and the problem was not my ex’s then-girlfriend, I can tell you that much. A great book to read is called Should I Stay Or Go? : How Controlled Separation (CS) Can Save Your Marriage by Lee Raffel. My ex and I didn’t follow the book down to the letter, but we did use it as a guideline.The benefits of CS are enormous. It gives the betrayed spouse a “cooling off” period, during which time they can grieve. It gives the spouse who had an affair a chance to see what place it had in his or her life—and if they are really in love with their affair partners.Most importantly, it gives both spouses the gift of objectivity and a fresh perspective of their marriage.