How do I talk to girls on the phone for the first time?
The first phone call from a Girl your intersted in can be a intimidating thought indeed, especially in the moments before she or you make the call. First be aware that even though the first 5 minutes or so of that call maybe awkward it does get easier and starts to flow better. However if you are after specific “tips” or topics then i suggest1, first 5 minutes just open up with and ask a open ended question like simply “so how was your day? did you get up to much?” this follow up is much better than just saying “did you have a good day?” because that allows her to just say “yes” or “no” especially if she is shy.2, while you are listening to her answer be sure not to just remain silent and just now an again pop in with little signs of interest like “wow really?” and “that’s so cool!” just to simply let her know that you are interested.. another good tip if while she is doing this and the story is about to wrap up and end, and for example she says “and we ended up getting lost it was a horrible day haha” you could then reel off a similar experience or story you have and be like “that’s so crazy ! that reminds me of the time me and my friends etc etc” and then continue to tell your own story.3,I always find telling little funny and interesting stories about your life and things you’ve been up to (in context with the conversation) the best thing to allow a conversation to flow because from these stories you get off shoot questions like “no way! what made you do that” and bang ! before you know it your both telling each other stories and laughing and asking questions about it and before you know it 2 hours have passed (the time really flies when you have a good conversation) and just before the conversation runs out of steam (DO NOT let it get to the point of been awkward and silent otherwise the last 2 hours work has been un done and it leaves a bad impression) say something along the lines of “It was really nice talking to you! i enjoyed it but I have a appointment to get to” or “I have to cook dinner” or “have plans to meet a friend” or “there’s someone at thee door” you pick the excuse but just pick a reasonable one to allow you to end the conversation this will make her think “wow he’s so fun to talk to !” and then your in her mind my friend. Hope this helps you out in some way ! :)
I'm calling a girl for the first time. What should we talk about before I ask her for a date?
Your goals should be to make her feel valued and to make a connection with her. Also, be sincere and let her get to know you.Try to get her to do the talking. Actively listen to her and not worry about what you are going to say next. If she expresses an emotion, empathize with her. For example, if she says, “I’m really excited about going to XYZ” say something like, “You sound really excited about that! It sounds like a lot of fun.” If she shares a story about an experience she has had, give your opinion of it in a positive way and/or share a similar experience of your own. You could say, “Wow! You really handled that situation the right way. I would have done the same thing. Here’s a similar situation I was in . . .”Before she starts talking, you might need to break the ice. Here are a list of things you can ask or talk about. Don’t use them all, of course, if you don’t need to.How are you doing?What has your summer been like? Have you done anything fun or traveled anywhere?Make a comment about the weather. Tell her your favorite season. “I’m totally a summer person because . . .” Or “I’m always looking forward to Fall this time of year because . . .” and “What’s your favorite season?”What are you doing this weekend?Tell her a funny or amusing story about something you’ve recently experienced.Have you talked to so and so lately/do you hang out with so and so much? (If you have a mutual friend). Share a fun memory of the person.Is there a fun memory related to the place or situation where you two met? If so, share it with her. “It’s funny. I met you at XYZ. Last year when I was there, this happened . . .”
What to say to a girl online for the first time and how to talk to a girl online and etc ?
Hi. Ok, I can understand the problem with talking to a woman for the first time, whether it be on the internet or in real life. The first thing I would say is do not over think the issue. Women are simply people. Do not think about what your preferred end result might be in regards to talking to a woman, in fact put it right out of your mind altogether, You should decide that all you wish to have is a friendship. It will probably be the case you will end up having more female friends than females of any kind of romantic interest. Having female friends is a great thing. Also, it will make you feel more comfortable with every female you become friends with. So, with that in mind, what do you say to them? Well, women will not expect you to know everything about them straight away. Usually they will love to tell you about themselves. Ask questions, be interested. The first thing to say would be hi, and to introduce yourself. Ask them what they do for a living. Ask questions about what they do. Ask them if it is hard, do they enjoy it, where do they plan to go with it. Ask about hobbies, in this way you may find a common ground which you can discuss further. Do not pretend to be into things you are not into just because she is into them. Being fake will never work, and people have the ability to tell that your being fake. Ask questions about the hobbies they are interested in, especially the ones you know little about. Do not feel disheartened if the conversation dies. It happens. Just try again. Do not make sexual comments or attempt to ask for a date, especially not in the first week or two of knowing them. You will likely scare them off and besides that, women get that all the time and it really pisses them off. Women are people. Act as you would getting to know a male friend, except listen more and be a little more polite. Be interested. Don't talk about yourself too much, if they ask a question, answer it but make sure you bring it back around to them, or ask them what they think about whatever it is they have asked you. Above all be yourself. Be nice. If you feel there is something you wish to genuinly compliment, do so. Though don't over do the compliment. So, in short, say hi, ask questions, be interested and listen. hope this helps pal :)
What should I talk with a girl in first call?
Take it easy first of all, just be yourselfStart with a smiling HiThen ask her how is she todayAsk her what she did today or what she is going to do.. (if you guys have less time to talk)Ask her when is she going to be free next time so that you guys can talkAnd if you have plenty of time……..Ask her about her hobbies,interest,what she likes to do in her free time ,about her familyand just go ahead with the flow…let me know what append next :)
How to text a girl for the first time?
she gave me her # the other day.. what should i say when i text her? (i was thinking about pretending to "text her by accident" as an icebreaker...but thats probably a terrible idea?)
Talking for the first time over the phone?
Okay, so I met this girl online (reputable service) and we've e-mailed back and forth for about a week but haven't gotten into too much really, but did schedule a first date. She gave me her phone number and I am going to be calling this weekend. However, in the past, my experience with this has been a little awkward as I'm sure it is with everybody, men and women alike. I don't really know what we should talk about and how to make our conversation as non-awkward as can be (no long pauses or "ummm's" in there). Perhaps bringing something up that she mentioned in her profile would be a good start? I'm just trying to get ideas on some topics and how to make our first conversation go smoothly.