Should I talk to my crush's friend?
So this girl I like and one of her good friends are in one of my classes. The girl I like I know at least likes me as friend, but it could go either way on if she like likes me. Her friend is the same way, if I was told she likes me I would defienetly believe it, but she also could just be flirty and friendly and I would believe that too. So I want to ask my crushes friend, to try to figure out if she likes me or not, would this be a bad idea because she may like me, or even if she doesn't like me she could tell her anyways?
Should I talk to my friend again?
Sorry its long! I tried to make a long story as short as possible! Please read! A year ago was my graduation from high school and I havent talked to my best friend of 12 years since. Toward the end of our senior year we fought alot and our friendship was getting kinda of rocky. Most of it was my fault though because I was in a really bad place in my life and I took it out on her. I thought she was the problem and when high school ended I felt like I just needed a break from her, to see if I still wanted to be her friend. But mostly because I needed to sort out my life. I'm way better now, I'm happy and I love myself (I was severly depressed and was over weight and since graduation I've lost 65 pounds) so now I can see that it was my fault because I was jealous of her. And she was nothing but a great friend. It's going to be a year in June, since we talked. We didn't get in a fight or anything to make us stop talking, we just kind of both stopped communicating with each other. I haven't txt or call her and she hasn't txt or called me. Now I really miss her, I've sorted out all my bullsh!t and I want my best friend back. But it's been almost a year, like I said already. So what do I do? What do I say to her?
DC Talk song:My Friend (So Long)?
http://www.songmeanings.net/lyric.php?li... go here, this should answer your question. i still myself wonder if its about a friend of thiers but because its gossip, they probably dont say anything condeming about who it is written about for respect
What should I do if my best friend is not talking to me?
A little more back story:So this week has been our first week back at school since the Christmas break and my friend wasn't talking much to me on Monday, but then continued this until Friday (today). I was very upset, constantly sad at home, my feelings of dejectedness intensified my hatred of my body and reminded me of my past earing disorder behaviors and so I stopped eating lunch and breakfast, I almost skipped a day of school, and I cried quite a lot. This may seem like a dramatic response but I have a habit of massively overthinking things and so I thought she would hate me for life and never talk to me again.I finally approached her about it today and she said that I was making things up and that there was no problem. Then she started “officially” ignoring me by declaring that she wouldn't talk to me, perhaps because I was overthinking things and she didn't like it. However, when she has problems and confides in me, I don't stop talking to her - I try and help and make her feel better.I can't think of anything that I've done that would cause her to hate me so much. I'm really upset by it and I feel like everyone hates me because of previously mentioned overthinking problems. I've asked her what's wrong, I've apologised, I've asked her to tell me why she isn't speaking to me, but nothing's working. Does she just hate me now?Advice would be greatly appreciated!
What should I talk daily to a female friend?
First Ask yourself..Do you want to continue this friendship?. ..As in do you want to please her or not?. She wants you to talk to her daily...From this ...its pretty much clear that she is comfortable with you.Asking her likes ,dislikes ,hobbies ,routine etc... You might've already done..For us girls, spontaneity matters... There are girls who like politics, conspiracy theories, astronomy etc. I personally like these topics ..... yeah.. you heard it right..Not all girls are "girlish".Don't start with the cliche " Hey, What's up? "... It's so irritating....believe me..Ask her about a song you like...or about the weather ..food...or her views on social work...etc..Find out your common interests... And the talks will be enjoyable for both of you.Go for some random topics...Actually whatever comes to your mind...And make her talk too...ask about her views on different topics.. ..thereby both of you can bond well..and talking won't feel like a task for you.Last but not the least... If you people are really good friends , you won't be asking this in quora.. :)PS: Find out whether she has a crush on you. Girls in love often do this to boys.. ;P :D And also don't get your hopes high....
Why do my friends talk behind my back?
Since I don't know you, I can't exactly point out one reason in particular, however it likely has little to do with you. Some people just have personalities that stand out more than others and in turn, are talked about more often. Then there are others who get stuck with the wrong friends.Personally, I've never been a name of social intrest, but as soon as I got involved with some friends, gossip followed. No one ever told me about it, until I came back to school and one of my close friends were skeptical about what they heard and asked me.Anyways, it happened, and almost nobody remembers it now. I didn't do anything different, besides lying about liking someone in an attempt to fit in with everyone, who only talked about dating.So maybe you compromised yourself in the process, and it backfired in a terrible way, like me. Or maybe, you stayed true to yourself, and these people wanted you to become like them instead. Truthfully, anything can be a reason, since it depends on how your social system works. People get jealous for one reason or another, and try to make themselves feel better by spouting rude, often twisted, things about others.So please don't blame yourself, unless you actually did something wrong. Even then, please don't hold onto that shame/bitterness and let it rot inside you. At the end of the day, we all have good and bad friends, and we often get lost discerning the two until we learn from mistakes.
I don't know what to talk with my friend about. What should I do?
If you state, she/he is your friend then just find a common topic of interest. Talk about something you both like. Don't bore him/her with your own interests instead talking about something common can make both of you less uncomfortable and easy to open up.Find common topics like something on television, any sport, any activity, any movie or any other trending news. Only conversing naturally and with a true intentions of getting along together you can do it.
Should I stop seeing/talking to my friend?
I promised myself to never fall or make her fall in love with me, because I want to keep her in my life. I knew her since the first year of the semester, and we been great friend every since. I'm outgoing myself and love meeting new people, while she's the opposite. She's afraid that one day I will distant from her and leave her, yet I promised her, "I will never let that happen." Reflecting on that words, I am being a hypocrite. From her best friend, she secretly told me that night my friend was drunk, and I had to babysit her; she told her best friend that she felt something between us and was going to kiss me. Her best friend then asked me, "would you kissed her if she was going in for it?" I told her, "I wouldn't. She was drunk, and I will never take advantage of her." What do you guys think? What should I do?
Best friend won't stop talking to my ex?
Okay, so I have been best friends with my good friend for almost 4 years. We have some small fights here and there, but over all our friendship is good. Until, my friend started talking to my ex. My ex and I dated for almost 5 months, and then we broke up, and then we got back together again for 2 months, and then he left me for another girl. Now, I am over my ex, but when I found out my friend was talking to him I got very angry. First of all, she didn't even know him until I introduced them once. And second of all, she knows he hurt me badly. Anyways, I found out my friend was talking to him, and I asked her to stop because it bothered me, and she said she would. But, little did I know, she never stopped talking to him. I found out recently that they have been talking for months, even after she told me they stopped. When I confronted her about it, she said that she would not stop talking to him, and that she can talk to whomever she wants (and its not like she has a crush on him, because she likes someone else A LOT).So I got mad and she got mad and things were said, and now she won't talk to me. I've apologized for what I said but she is still mad. What do I do? I value her friendship and I like her, but what she did hurt me a lot, and now she says she never wants to be my friend again. Please help.