How do I approach a girl who doesn't talk much?
She is observant. Even when you are not taking to her she is observing you and analysing you.She remembers you are the one who is ‘trying’ for her.So now she has an image of you in her subconscious.So when you are around her keep in mind these things:1)how you are communicating with your friends fe/male she is watching and listening. So how you are making your friends ‘feel’ significant she will be noticing that.2)how you respond to your superiors she is also noticing that. How your superiors like you and admire you she will notice that as well.3)the way you dress and talk about your future is also an important way to judge you on your self respect.As you are reading this you are probably judging me as well. Right? Well, similarly others judge you as well. No one is 100% authentic and no one is 100% fake.We all have our opinions. Stay honest to yourself and Stand up for yourself even when people laugh at you. Evetually people will start believing that you have Courage and that will earn you Respect.People who are courageous are Attractive.Stay blessed.
How to talk to a girl that doesn't know you?
Good grief. She is not some razor-sharp toothed alligator, is she? What, are you some little boy who is afraid of girls? BE A MAN! Walk right up to her and say "Hi, I'm Bryant. What's your name?" Then take it from there. Ask her some questions about her so you can get to know her. Ask where she grew up, then ask her if she liked living there, and so forth. And TEASE her and JOKE with her. Joke with her something like "You do know you live on the same block as me, yet you've never said hi in 5 years? What's wrong with you? Huh?" and SMILE real big! If she seems like she doesn't get the joke, tell her "Relax, I was just joking! Come on, don't be afraid to laugh at jokes!" Then after you get to know her, TELL her to give you her phone number. (Don't ask - TELL her "Give me your number. I'll call you.") Then wait exactly 5 days and call her and ask her to go on a date with you. Pick a time and place, like Starbucks, where you can sit and talk and get to know each other. Do NOT spend more than $20 on the first date either - the whole point should be for her to want to go out with you, not your wallet!
How to tell if a girl doesn't want to talk to you?
I'm kind of a shy guy, and I tend to have this subconscious assumption that girls don't want to talk to me. I've been talking to this cute girl that is in a few of my classes recently. I'll say hi in the halls and she'll say hi back, and we've talked about sports and stuff. But she has never come up to me to talk or anything, What would she do if she really doesn't want to talk to me, anything obvious? I can never tell if it's all in my head or what. I'm friends with loads of guys but few girls, and I can't help feeling that I'm doing something really off putting.
I like this girl...but she doesn't know me and i dont know her ?
Well you could just go up 2 her and start talking to her, and see where it goes from there. What i would do is ask her, her name (even if you know it) Then see how she acts towards you. If she isn't nice she may not act as if she heard you or laugh. Thats all fine, cuz you have a secret weapon. Its your confidance and being able to decide. Now if everything is going ok, then let her know that you noticed her and would like to get to know her better. But becareful not to tell her you have been watching her cuz she might get scared and think your a stalker. Find out from other ppl if shes involved. If not prepare for step 2. Ask her what she likes to do and if she'd consider going out with you to the movies or putt-putt. Be sure to let her know it won't be just the 2 of you. Now you'll need to find out if shes going to be bringing any friends or just another girlfriend so you can either bring a few friends or one. Basically ask her if she'd like to hang with you and a few friends. Get to know her and see if you would really like to date her. But never lead on that she's the only one you have an interest in or she may think your desperate. If all this goes well, then step it up and ask her if you 2 can become an item. But it will take time for you to get to know her and vise versa. Never move to fast, And Good Luck! Just for now make her aware you exist first and that you think it would be cool to hang out.
I like this girl but she doesn't really know me...?
In the last semester of this past school year, I was in a class with a beautiful girl that I really wanted to get to know, but she sat on the opposite side of the room of me. I tried to make eye contact and tried to make her notice me noticing her, but that didn't work so well. I wanted to talk to her but couldn't find the courage too. I didn't know what to say and I didn't want to sound stupid and didn't know if she liked me at all. Anyway the school year has ended and I still don't even think she really even knows of me. So I was on myspace a few days ago and I saw her on the people you might know thing and I checked out her page and i'm wondering if I should send her a friend request or not. Would that be kind of weird or awkward? So basically what my question is, should I send her a request and start talking to her and get to know each other like that or wait till I see her at school next year and actually try to talk to her and we may get to know each other that way? If any more details will help just let me know. Thanks.
What does it mean if a girl stares at you but doesn't talk to you?
Hi im a 16 year old guy and this girl in my school (shes really beautiful to me) stares at me all the time... Like during lunch sometimes when we're standing in line, we usually stare at each other for a few seconds then look away. And she stares sometimes in the hall and we lock eyes for a few seconds but then I look away. I wanted to go talk to her a few times but I'm not sure if she likes me as much as I like her because I never really catch her smile or anything. Also sometimes when she sees me in the hall she looks at me then quickly looks away starts talking to her friends to seem occupied but when i leave she looks back at me. My main point is that she stares alot at me and I do too but Idk how to approach her and not sure if shes interested in me. I dont have any classes with her so any advise on what to do? We dont talk to each other... Any ideas on how I should approach her or if she likes me back or not?