My mom slaps my butt a lot, I tell her not to stop and I don't like it, I get mad, but she takes it as a joke.
I do that to my boys,its just to get their attention and I like to see their reaction each time.It's all in fun.I ask my boys for hugs sometimes because we don't hug.It is weird.I try to get hugs now because in acouple of yrs when they are grown I will never be able to get one ,maybe if I get sick.So don't get to mad at mom.You will be 18 in a couple of yrs.Maybe you don't spend time with her and she just wants your attention.
Should I tell her to stop leading me on?
This girl and I had a thing but she said she needed to step back from me and be friends because I didn't make a move and also said some things that hurt her, basically just straight up rejecting me, knowing well how much I liked her. We didn't really talk for a bit until one day she started being really flirty and touchy and asked me to stay with her after school, she also texted me later that day saying she missed hanging out with me. But, she's a pretty flirty girl with guys in general, which is one of the reasons I think she's leading me on (but I could swear she acts a little differently around me). But her friend told me I need to move on cause she still has some **** goin on with her ex, who lives 10 hours away. Yet she sends me mixed signals like constant flirting and wanting to sit with me during assembly (where she could sit with ANYONE at our school) contrasted with never texting me first and hooking up with this random guy at parties. So do you think she actually wants me back and is just too afraid to say it or show it completely? (maybe because she rejected me already and doesent want to hurt her ego now?) or do you think she is just leading me on? And if you think she is leading me on, how can I ask her to not lead me on over text right now? I haven't texted her for a week (even though we talk everyday) so how could I say it to her or start the conversation or whatever.. Thanks a lot y'all!
My girlfriend wears too much makeup, how do I tell her to stop?
First of all, why you wanna stop her? It's completely her wish how she wants to see/show herself. Respect her decisions and let her do what she really wants.But yeah if you think she wears makeup "to impress you", you can give a try !!This is one case. You tell her that you are fine with her however she looks. Make her feel comfortable with her own skin. Since she is used to it, it would be difficult for her to suddenly stop. So ask her to gradually reduce or at least to give a try.Make her understand that she doesn't need to impress you in any way because obviously you are already impressed with who she is as a person. I hope that's why she is your girl friend :-P (kidding)Another case in my experience I have seen people who want to stop wearing makeup, but they are scared to face people without it. They don't even give a try. They are scared of comments. They feel low without it. So encourage her to do so.I have written an article on beauty for girls. It may help you, please check it out (Not advertising :-D)Girl, Should You Be Feeling All Excited When Someone Says, "You Look Beautiful"?After all of these, if she really doesn't want to change this, let her be yar !! Make yourself comfortable with her (with/without makeup). Looks (good/bad) doesn't matter when you connect to the person.
How do i tell my gf to stop giving me wedgies?
give her one and she what she does
How can I tell my girlfriend to stop wearing makeup?
I just got an idea which can work and maybe it can get some basket of kisses for you from your girl. It is explained in following points as follows :-Ask your girlfriend to get dressed in the best she can, click a picture and WhatsApp you. If she asks why then tell her that you are trying to create something beautiful for her (the best counter part to her why)Then ask her to wash off the makeup, change into her normal comfort outfit , click a picture and WhatsApp you. She will think you are mad at first place but just ask her to do it as you are still one step way from creating something beautifulNow call her and tell her that today, you got 2 beautiful pictures of 2 different girls and you are really in love with the girl in the second picture. And send her the picture. And ask her if she knows this girl.I am sure this will work out for you and just admire her for her nautal existence. Cheers
How can I tell my girlfriend to stop talking to a guy that likes her?
you as the boyfriend have many options to ensure that your girlfriend respects you, the relationship with you and ultimately herself. First, try to figure out why she is allowing another guy to pursue her while she is “committed’ to you and start from there. Feelings of jealousy and insecurity, among others, are normal and natural to the extent that they are in healty doses, after all we are not emotionless robots. Second thing is that the issue lies with her and her need for validation and attention in other words her insecurities and not your insecurities or concerns that your vested time is not a waste. The best approach is to come off calm, do not be confrontational and have self control. Try making her loosen up by making her laugh and comfortable with you, once that happens bring it up in a relaxed, casual tone and ask about their “friendship” and some high level questions about how they met, what are they talking about and that you would like to meet him ( if the opportunity arises) This will tell her that you’re interested in who she is talking to and that you care, which most girls want from their boyfriends. If she has nothing to hide she will introduce you to the guy, and or perhaps get the hint and stop allowing another man to pursue her while she is with you.Most women will try to test you with such behavior, to see if you’re weak or strong(Alpha). If you ignore it all together than that too can send her a negative message as in you don’t care. If you overreact then you’re showing immense weakness which she can use against you, but if you approach it casually, nicely but at the same time dominantly, she will either respect you and cut the other guy off, or she will continue in which case you dump her. This behavior is a reflection of her values and character and it is a good way for you to test her as well, and if she fails she gets the boot!the best negotiating position is the ability to walk away, and she best know that. Finally, treat your girl right, with respect and love.Peace!
I found out that my girlfriend smokes weed. How do I tell her to stop?
Ask yourself this.By how much does her marijuana use affect her daily living beyond the usual odours and filthy apparatus?If those are the only problems you are having, then it should be of no concern to you. After all, these are little more than nuisances.And what do you mean by “telling her to stop”?That sounds moralistic and sexist instead of it being an actual risk as you cannot tell the person how they should lead their lives when they were fully conscious of the decisions they made on these matters.People do not like to be meddled with and that is a fact of life so by intending on “telling her to stop”, you are actually having your own moralistic agenda voiced.Sure drugs are a risky business and sure they have ruined the lives of many-of-person but may I tell you what really creates the problem of drug addiction?Underlying psychological problems and improper handling of the patients which serves to have those already-existing problems exacerbated which then leads to relapse and suicide. These are the hard drugs mind you.Marijuana on the other hand has been proven to help with depression, Autism Spectrum Disorder, chronic pain and Attention Deficit Disorder with more positive results being yielded for various neurological maladies such as multiple sclerosis and even brain damage! It also treats anxiety better than most over-the-counter drugs.Many children are now being placed onto therapy involving all sorts of marijuana-related products and extracts to have their respective disorders treated.If your girlfriend is using the plant, perhaps she is afflicted with some disorder you may or may not be aware of or maybe: She just wants to relax after a long day!So I hate to break this to you but marijuana is not as bad as what many people believe it to be due to all the stigmatization which resulted from a 70 odd year old prohibition.So judging by the nature of your question, maybe you are the problem in the first place, not her.You cannot control her as she isn’t your property. I strongly suggest that you make use this experience to have your mind opened a little.
How do I tell my mother to stop talking with her mouth full?
Wait until she is mid-sentence then scream at the top of your lungs, and with as much drama as you can muster, "MOM, ARE YOU CHOKING!!!" Then jump up and act as if you're going to give her the heimlich manuver. When she asks what all the fuss is about, calmly tell her that she was talking with her mouth full and you thought she might be trying to tell you she's choking.
Is it right for me to tell my girlfriend to stop talking to other guys?
Going anonymous on this one for obvious reasons.Back when my wife and I were first dating, she cheated on me. It was rough, we broke up, didn’t get back together for years.When we started fresh, I had one condition for the relationship - that she not have any communication with the guy she had slept with. If she wanted to be friends with him, she could not date me. She had apparently long since having stopped talking to this person, they never spoke since, we got back together, and we’re married now.I don’t do anything to enforce that rule - she hangs out with whoever she wants to hang out with, I’m not keeping tabs on her, I don’t invade her privacy, go through her phone, etc. I never attempted to dictate my wife’s actions, I only expressed my position that if he came back into the picture that I would not stay. I leave her to make her own decisions.Does my situation justify what you want to do? I have no idea.Now, here’s the deal… I think it’s fair to have circumstances that you can and can’t accept in relationships. That’s setting boundaries. But you can’t try to control another person. In situations like these, a slippery slope between setting your boundary and trying to exert control on another person. You can draw a line and say “if you do XYZ, I won’t date you”, but you can’t say “don’t do XYZ”.And yes, we are married now. What worked for me was trusting my partner.Trust is earned, but it is also reciprocated. If you treat a person like you don’t fully trust and accept them, you create incentives for them to be dishonest with you. On the flip side, if you treat a person with trust, you create incentives for them to be open with you and to honor that trust.I can’t tell you what’s right for your case with the context given. There are people here that will tell you you’re wrong or being controlling for feeling the way you do. There are people who will tell you to just end things. I was in a similar situation with my girlfriend years ago and we’re married now. It’s all in how you approach it.
My best friend copies everything i do should i tell her to stop or not help?
When someone copies you, its the highest form of a compliment. There are so many people in this world who need role models, someone to look up to, and your best friend chose you. If you could get inside her brain for a few minutes, you would see that she doesn't do it to annoy you, she does it because she wants to be just like you. She could of picked any one in the world, celebrities included, but she chose you! It can be annoying, but she is your "BEST FRIEND"!