How to tell your girl best friend you love her?
Ever since i can remember i knew this girl. We were always best friends, now im 15, i had some times when i liked her and she liked me but somehow now i'm different. I'm not striving to date her, i just want to her to know i care for her. i always make her laugh, no matter what i say. we can basically talk about anything. Her little siblings always run around saying that she likes me or that i like her. I asked her friend if she likes me and she said that she likes me a little. Is there a chance she likes me back. I would die for her. she regards me as her Best friend and that whenever she was in trouble she could always rely on me. a year ago she said that she liked me like a brother but now i can sense something there in between us and if her friend tells me she has some feelings then maybe she starting to fall in love. IM SO CONFUSED. girls can sure mess with a guys heart and mind. P.S if you have any good best friend relationship sories. please tell them so i can relate better. thank you and God bless.
My Best friend and I both Like the same girl.?
You need to ask yourself one simple question. Is she really worth losing your best friend over. Probably not in my opinion. girls come and go. They're a dime a dozen. But a best friend is worth a life time. You've never heard the expression Bro's before Hoes. Look be the bigger man if he likes her let him have her. You will find someone else who is better. He'll appreciate that big time. Trust me a bestfriend is worth 100x more then some girl is worth.
I'm in love with my best friend but we're both girls?
I'm 13 so ya I know I'm young and people are gonna say I don't know what love is, but I want to know if my bestfriend likes me back. We hang out a lot and hug eachother a lot and sometimes a kiss on the cheek. We watch movies and either I'm leaning in her shoulder or she's leaning on mine. She also puts her legs on top of mine. But just on the couch we'll lean on eachother and lay across eachother but I think I have a crush on her. I felt this for another girl when I was REALLY young, like in 1st grade, and a boy in 3rd grade. I wonder if she likes me though. Like when we touch, I get some weird feeling and It feels good. Here's the questions: 1) Does she like me? 2)How do I tell her I might like her 3) when do I tell her? Please answer them all! Thanks Oh and whenever we sleep over at my house she sleeps in the same bed as me and we also kinda cuddle like not in the bed but you know, just hanging out She's also always telling me that we don't know what we are yet, (bi, lesbian, straight) since we're young. I don't think I should try kissing on the lips yet though and I really want to tell her and not push her away. She said shed accept me no matter what, however.and she also sleeps with me even in a group sleepover & she treats me different than anyone else. She doesnt touch anyone else she only hugs me and im kinda her only friend. I think she might like me what about you? Today in school at lunch I was giving examples of stuff like saying what if I was... And I mentioned a few things until I came to "what if I was bi?" And she said, "I wouldn't care, I'd accept you no matter what" and she also grabbed onto my arm in class yesterday because I asked her something and was going back to sit down and she's like "STAYYY" I know that's a best friend thing, but that's not what she's like. Id always ask her if she liked another friend of ours, but she made it clear that she Didnt. Joking, i called her a "homophobe" and she said, "no, its just that would be disgusting to be with (insert name here)" which i think shes hinting me there. But today she kissed my hand and I know its not just a bff thing I know it. NO HATE
I have a crush on my best friend, we're both girls. What should I do? :(?
OMGOSH! same thing happening to me right now. i have a crush on my best friend, we are 17 girls. i think its just a phase. i consider myself straight and my best friend is definitely straight too. the problem is that nowadays, it is very common for teen girls to act "in love" with other teen girls. we say "love ya" and we put married statuses on facebook and hug a lot and stuff like that. it seems lesbian to an outsider even! but that doesnt mean that we are all lesbian. its just a phase, and im not worried about it. did u know there is a thing called a girl crush? watch Jenna Marbles youtube videos. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ylVlkv1el... i would not tell your friend that you have a crush on her. she is most likely straight and would find that creepy. just go along with life and accept that this is just a phase. enjoy it when she hugs you and stuff like that! haha hope this hhelps!
How do I tell my best friend I'm in love with her?
My best friend proposed to me two years back. I was a nerdy-type of a girl belonging to a conservative family. I had no idea how to respond. He mailed me a love letter and I freaked out after reading it. My mum read it too (it was unexpected and my mum was sitting right next to me while I opened my mail). I ignored him and deleted the mail.I pretended like nothing had happened, so did he. But it had. The barrier surrounding our uncomplicated but hidden friendship had been shattered. And the worst part was, while I was unaware of his feelings, the girls I used to hang out with used to tease me about him. They knew that he liked me, I don't know how.Needless to say, it was awkward. We didn't talk for almost a year, until the school farewell. I was starting to miss him and I wanted to talk to him. We had gone from being best friends to strangers and it was upsetting.After school finished, but before starting college, I took matters into my own hands and messaged him, apologized and requested to continue the friendship. I felt cruel and selfish for doing that but when he told me he wanted us to remain friends, all my doubts went away.College started and our friendship resumed. Some time later, he told me about this girl in his class that he had a crush on. He's a happy boyfriend now!The thing about falling in love with your best friend is that if the other person doesn't share the exact same feelings, it becomes the biggest what if of your life. I love him, but it isn't a romantic kind of love.The positive aspect is that your best friend knows you better than your other friends, so the relationship doesn't feel much of a strain. I don't claim to be an expert on relationships, or dating for that matter, but I think you should go ahead and tell your best friend how you feel about her. Talk directly. A phone call, or a face-to-face chat. Start it as a question. Ask her how she feels about dating. Take her out to a place special to her. Don't be afraid to lay it on thick. Tell her how much she means to you. If she doesn't feel ready, go slow and let her know that she will always be special for you.PS: I had to go anonymous because the said friend is on quora and I don't want to hurt his feelings. Don't hate me please!!!!!
I am in love with my best friend (we're both girls) and i need help!!!?
ok i'm explaing what i feel about her so you can stop saying i don't love her and that i'm too Young to know what love is. everyday i go to school, the only person i want to see is her. everytime she looks at me i can't look at her directly in the eyes i don't know why it's just imposible for me. everytime she hugs me my heart pounds and i get all nervous and nothing matters to me while we're hugging i just want to stay in her arms all day all of my friends say that when she hugs me i always get all red. i want to be with her all the time and if she ignores me by accident or somethin i get really sad like depressed i don't want to do anything else but just lay in bed and cry all day. every night i cry because i feel that she's never gonna love me the same way i do.
I fell in love with my girl best friend. Should I tell her? How? When?
Believe me falling in love with your best friend is the most ecstatic feeling if the world. I am in love with my best friend and in a commited relationship for a year now. It feels awesome. A very different relationship than other people around you have. Now coming to your questions. You should not tell her ASAP. Because it may create a distance between both of you. It may not ruin your friendship if both of you are best friends.Now coming to the question of "How"? Dont tell her directly. Give her some hints first. If you are in very deep frienship it may be easy for you.For example ask her "Do you think two best friends can eventually fall in love with each other?"Observe how she reacts. :precaution: Only ask this if you are bestest of friends and she shares each and every thing with you and trust you to the fullest. If not then give some time and grow your friendship to the bestest of all.Now coming to the question "When" Now this is a really tough question. And have an interesting answer.Actually there is no perfect time. In "best friend turned love" relationships you dont fall for each other. One day you just realise that you are in love. You realise that what you thought as the best friendship of your life is actually in its own turned love. You dont know when will she realise so wait and grow your friendship to the epitome. Tell her when you feel that she had some feelings for you.. probably she will say(from the core of the heart) thatI trust you the most. You are the bestest friend i had or ever have in my life.Give her some time. If your friendship is "the best" then she will realise it surely one day or another. Best of luck. Hope she realise it soon. :) :) :) If you need any other help feel free to ask in comments i will be more than happy to help you.
Should I tell my best friend that I’m bisexual and that I like her? We’re both Christians.
The whole “we are both christians” doesn’t rly tell much, there are christians out there who believe in god’s love in any form or shape and there are the radical christians who are homophobic assholes and insist on saying that homosexuality is a sing and against nature even when there’s proof they are wrong but they refuse to listen. What kind of christian is you ad what kind of christian is your friend?So only you can answer this. If are insecure about it, drop the topic here nd there to see how she react, like ask her what she thinks about it, or what she thinks about an actor or any famous peson who is bi or gay or just make up an storry, the classic I know this guy who is gay and he have a crush on his best friend but he doesn’t know if he should tell him or not, what do you think?”If you trust your friend to be ok with the fact that you are bi then just tell her, understand that she might reject you and depending how you deal with it might make your friendship awkward. But if you really like her and feel like you need to tell her or you’ll regret it, then do it, be prepared for the worst and keep strong.
I love my best friend (both girls) what should I do?
Me and my best friend used to act very couple-y too, always flirting and teasing each other. I developed feelings for her, finally told her after hiding it for months, and although she said she didn't feel the same, she said that we'll still be exactly the same and be just as close as before I told her - she said nothing would change. And nothing did - we still teased, "flirted" (ie overly-sexual jokes and innuendos, that kinda thing), everything was basically the same. Sure, I felt uncomfortable at first, and she may have too, but it soon felt exactly the same as before, if not better. I was relieved to have been able to get it off my chest, and whenever I felt down or apologetic about it, she'd always be there to reassure me and help me out. I no longer have feelings for her, because I got over her. It was kinda sad to discover that she didn't feel the same after being convinced she did for so long, but I came to understand that she'd never feel the same about me, and so why should I waste my feelings on someone who I know will never return them? It just made me feel worse to keep loving her like that.Anyway. My point is, no matter how couple-y and such you guys act, it doesn't necessarily mean she likes you like that. Sometimes best friends (two girls) just like to mess around like that, because that's just who they are. Has she expressed very obviously that she's straight? Is she okay with gay people, or does she have very negative views on them? You'll probably want to know these things before you tell her that you have feelings for her. Also, if she doesn't already know that you're into girls like that, you need to tell her that and let her become comfortable with that knowledge before confessing that you love her. When you tell her you're not straight, if she responds like "Oh, me neither, I'm _" then you'll probably be okay with telling her however long after this that you have feelings for her. If she says "Oh, I'm straight" then you know she won't feel the same for you, and while you could tell her anyway to strengthen your friendship, it won't result in a relationship between you two.Best of luck! Mostly, talk with her. You guys will figure everything out if you communicate with each other your thoughts and feelings truthfully.