How do I tell my parents that I'm having suicidal thoughts?
This isn’t an easy thing to do, so kudos to you for taking this step! It means you know you need help and are willing to do hard things to make sure you get better. The most important thing I can say about talking to parents about suicide/depression is to be totally honest. Let them know you have something important you need to talk with them about and let them know what’s been going on, how long you’ve been dealing with it, etc. Make sure to also explain to them some of your thoughts and how they effect you. Let them know you need help from them in deciding what the next step is. The important thing is to remain open with them if they ask questions and don’t be offended if they don’t know what to say at first. It can be a difficult thing to process. Let them know you understand they may need time, you just knew you had to tell them what was going on. It’s super important when dealing with suicide/depression to not go through it alone. It can feel terrifying and perhaps even shameful having to tell someone your thoughts about yourself and life. I get it, I’ve totally been where you are. But the thing is, you are brave for telling someone! You are not alone and there is nothing shameful about needing help and having a difficult season. We all go through bad times at some point or other. If you are still needing some extra help about how to talk to your parents, this website may offer some good help (Talking to Parents About Depression ). It gives ideas about how to start the conversation, what to do if you’ve been fighting with your parents and a few other things. I hope this has been helpful for you. Remember that you can do it, no matter how scary it seems. You are strong and brave. You got this!
How to tell your parents you are having suicidal thoughts?
I am a 13 year old girl and have felt depressed since grade 5 (I'm now in grade 8) and have been having suicidal thoughts for a few weeks weighing up possibilities. I feel really alone and am loosing interest in activities I used to LOVE like riding my bike. I can't tell my parents for two reasons: 1. I have always covered up my depression by being 'happy' and 'out there' around them and other people 2. They are both doctors and so it's not like they will take me to the doctor, they would address the issue them selves I have been to a school counselor (which my parents don't know about) and it's just not helping. My parents have just split up which is what triggered the suicidal thoughts however as I previously stated I had depression before that I just don't know how to tell them. and why I should stay alive and not just give up anybody who wants to tell me 'toughen up' or drama queen' or something else unnecessary. DON'T ! just don't say anything... People who know about my troubles tell me to go to a mental hospital so I can get help but I find them intimidating, what are they really like? anyone who can answer any of my questions PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE help me..... I'm so lost and alone......................................
Well I've been having suicidal thoughts ..?
Please listen very carefully? Dial the info line, 211 , that's the number, 211. They can put you in touch with someone who will not be insensitive. I have used this number on many occasions also for suicidal thoughts. The person called me back with-in 20 minutes and talked me down. I am thankful for the info line and the way they run it. I too battle depression and I know it's probably going to be with me for the rest of my life BUT I also know that there Are people out there that can and have helped. The operator will ask you the nature of the call and then you tell him/her that you need to speak to a psychologist about your depression, she will ask you what area you live in so that this person will be close to you. It really helped and I felt much better. If you think you need to be in the hospital, she can call ahead to let them know you are coming, again they are here to listen and direct you to whatever you need. Don't give up and I am really sorry you are going through this, I really am. Please dial 211 or your local hospital and they will help you! Be Safe.
I'm 14 and have been having suicidal thoughts often. I can't tell my parents, they're not to be trusted. What should I do?
If you don’t want to speak to your parents, you could consider speaking to other family members, staff at your school, a counsellor, child services, your doctor etc. There are a range of suicide prevention hotlines i.e. Samaritans and some aimed specifically at children i.e. Childline. If there is something specific that is causing your suicidal thoughts, such as parental abuse, bullying or mental health problems there may also be specific resources targeted to your needs.The most important thing for you to remember is that you are not alone. There is loads of support available to help you, all you have to do is ask. If the links I’ve included are not available in your country, search on google for ‘suicide prevention hotline’, ‘child mental health help’ and you should be able to find more information to help you get the help you need.
How to tell someone your having suicidal thoughts?
I've been having suicidal thoughts eevery day for weeks i have severe depression and anxiety but I take meds for it I take Celexa 20mg every day i want to tell my parents or a close friend but i dont know how to im afraid if i tell someone they'll think im crazy and take me to a mental hospital i know thats rash but im scared it could happen please i really need some help and if you know any medicanes that could help me better than Celexa please tell me!! and im 16 if it makes a difference thanks for your help! :)
Should I tell my teacher I'm having suicidal thoughts?
last year I told my counselor that I been self harming and she called my parents and I went to see a doctor and now I'm on medication. This year my counselor retired and I feel really alone. I can't get the thoughts of suicide out of my head.Should I tell my teacher what is going on. And since my parents already know about whats going on do you think my teacher will call them to tell them? I'm scared she will I don't want my parents to freak out again. And if I should what should I say so that she won't report it. I just want to talk to someone.
My best friend is having suicidal thoughts...?
The first thing you should do is call her - and if you can't get a hold of her, then you might go to her house - and ask her what you lied about, because you honestly don't know. Then you might talk to her about it, try to make her feel better, let her know your always there for her, ect. Other than that, there isn't much you can do. -Katie
I'm 14 and I'm afraid to tell my parents that I'm having suicidal thoughts, what do I do?
I think I need to be very careful before I open my mouth to say anything to you. I mean you're just “14” years old. That means you haven't seen the best and the bad. Didn't mean to scare you but life is full of people who are feel insignificant in this big world. It is normal. Trust your parents, ask them to help you. Depression and suicidal thought is normal, some people like to share these thoughts and others won't. I think it will be worth it to tell what you feel. Write a letter to them if you find it hard to tell them in person. Live it ! Be it bad or good. Life is all about this. Have fun. You deserve this life, give yourself a chance. Hope I can be of some help in any smallest way.
Help I'm scared to tell my psychiatrist I am having suicidal thoughts.?
you MUST tell your therapist. this is why you have therapy, to have a safe place to talk about your thoughts and feeling and work thru them with the help of a professional. you cannot recover if you are not honest with him/her. listen, thinking about suicide doesn't always lead to suicide, but it CAN, which is why you have to talk to your doctor no matter what course of action he takes. if he does tell your mom it will be because he thinks it's best for YOU that she know, and she will be glad that you talked to your therapist instead of acting on your thoughts! that is a sign of healthier thinking, when you turn to the people in your life for help when you need it, whether that's family, friends, or your therapist. so don't wait, talk to him or her asap. if you don't have a session scheduled soon, or just feel like you need to get this off your chest immediately, as your mom to make an emergency appointment for you. i'm sure she would prefer to do that than to leave you dealing with the thoughts on your own. you don't need to be specific, you can say something like, "i'm having scary thoughts that i want to talk to dr. _____ about. can you make me an appointment right away?" good luck and hang in there! ;>
Should I tell a teacher about my suicidal thoughts?
A virtual hug to you first of all and yeah whatever phase you are going through it will pass. I know it's easy to say but please Have some faith in God. He is there for you and will surely heal all the pains you have.See, if you feel close to this teacher you should definitely share what is going on in your mind. Sharing what is on your mind with someone who cares for you and understands you is what you need to do right now.I cam completely understand that you are going through really hard time buddy but trust me death or suicide is never an option. This is what losers do and I am sure you are not at all a loser. There are bad days in our lives which for quite sometime… but just remember,Even the worst of the days just have 24 hours only!Talk to someone. Speak up what is troubling you. Say what is on your mind. Express yourself in the way that comforts you. Respect yourself as an individual. And most importantly, respect this beautiful thing called ‘Life’.You have got this very beautiful life, and you should consider yourself lucky because there are a number of poeple in the world, who are dying to live a life like you, but unfortunately they cannot. Embrace Life!Think about all the people who would be hurt by your actions. Think about your parents. Your mother who carried you around 9 months in her womb and who cares and loves you immensely. Your father, who has always been on your side, loving you and caring for you, fulfilling all your needs.Do you really want to give them this pain, from which they won't be able to recover?Whateveryou are going through, or whatever the problem is. Trust me there is a solution to it and that is not at all suicide!Get up. Leave this negativity behind and try to find a much more logical and practical approach to all your problems. Straighten up your life because you owe this to yourself buddy!And for any help you can always leave a message. Hope I was helpful in reducing your pain a bit.All The Best!Cheer up!Smile :-)