How Do I Tell This Lady I Don

I love a girl but I don't know how to tell her. What should I do?

I will tell you what to do. I have not read others advises. But consider mine.Never, disclose your feelings to her with out analysing her. She may be looking at you as a good friend. But if you try to forward it, it may end your friendship also.Think twice, and check before,whether she had / have any boyfriends. Usually not all women try to play dual games. Some may be too serious about their relation. If you found the second type. You are sucked.But be friendly to her. Ask her to be normal as friends before making move if things went in opposite way.But, don't take things in a negative way. Usually men think about women in a wrong perspective when they denied them or when she is close to some one even. What ever happens. Be positive on her and think everything in a positive way. Because it helps you to analyse her correctly.And finally when you think, all is well, take a good move.Note: Things like this will only work,when the girl is being different to you. If she loves you, you will sense it, ’cause they will make us know their feelings.Warning: I skipped all these steps and Mis judged a girls opinion on me. And Now I am suffering. But you don't do this.

How do I tell a girl I DON'T love her?

You have to make her understand in clear words, and choose your words wisely!Don't give her any false notion that you are into her, or that you want to come into a relationship with her at some later stage in life either! She should not have any hopes of any future with you. Just copy-paste this into her mail-box, you can make some changes if you want to -Dear ABCD,I know you like me, and I really respect your honesty and your valor for confessing it to me, but unfortunately my thoughts don't resonate with you. I don't like you the way you do and I want to make this thing perfectly clear to you that there is no future of both of us together! This does not mean we can't be good friends. This simply means we can't be a couple, as for being a couple, both the persons have to love each other equally and in a similar manner. If I come into a relationship with you, that would be injustice to you and your honest feelings for me, and I don't want to do that. I want you to understand that I can't see you hurt, but if you keep crying, it will worsen the matters. You deserve someone who loves you, and that is certainly not 'me'!I know that you want to be just friends now, but seeing you cry everyday has been challenging for me too! I can't see you getting hurt because of me, I can't see you crying if I am the reason behind it, because I don't think I am at fault anywhere! Please try to see my point of view as well. If I ask you to come in a relationship with my best friend, will you do that? No, right? Because you don't love him! Then how can you expect me to come in a relationship with you if I don't love you? Love is a strong feeling and I haven't felt it for anyone yet, not even you. That is the truth. I don't want to lie to you, or give you any false hopes, and I want to make it clear from my side once again that there is no future of 'us', so stop expecting anything. The day you will stop expecting, would be the day you won't be hurt anymore, and you will stop crying too, which will relieve me the most. If you want to be friends, you have to stop crying and be strong. I hope this works. Good Luck! :)

How can I tell a lady I don't know how pretty she is without looking like I'm hitting on her?

Unless you’re romantically interested, it will come across as rude to comment on a woman’s personal appearance like that. Almost no one likes to be sexualized or viewed as an aesthetic object against their will by an unknown guy. HOWEVER, women do like being complimented on their effort or their personal choices. So, maybe compliment her makeup, her hairstyle (your braids look great!), her style or fashion, or her earrings. Otherwise, just don’t go there

What are the best ways to tell a girl you don't want to see her again, without offending her?

It depends on the situation:1. Short term but still fun/nice: You have been on a few dates, she's fun but not your type to date." I've had a lot of fun with you, I just don't think you and I are meant to be dating."Optional (if it's true): "It would be great to stay friends if you are interested."2. Short term but bad: You have been on a date or 2, and they were the worst dates ever (not fun)." I didn't really feel a connection with you, I would prefer if we didn't go on another date."3. Longer term:"Over the course of our relationship my feelings have changed, and I don't think it's best if we continue to date."You can swap out words, but the general trend in those answers is you DON'T explain yourself. Having a guy tell a girl WHY he doesn't want to date her, is actually way worst. It's the equivalent of him saying "Hey, I don't want to date you, and here is everything wrong with you too".If she asks why, then go to Jeremy's answer. The key is to let her ask, you may be surprised and she won't ask. If she does, give her an honest answer, at least she initiated the question.

How do I tell a girl that likes me that I don't want to date her, without hurting her feelings?

You can't avoid hurting her feelings. "No" always leaves a feeling of disappointment, no matter how brief. Mature individuals keep it in perspective and are grateful to have that information. Hopefully she is mature, for her own sake, but that isn't in your power to control.Keep in mind that the earlier she knows that you don't see her that way, the sooner she can get over it. Anticipation without reward is its own form of strain. Knowing not to anticipate cuts the mental anchor for most people.If she tells you she likes you or asks you on a date, to make your answer easier thank her: Acknowledge her feelings as a compliment. Then simply say, "I can't see you in a romantic way," or "I like someone else, sorry."With anyone who is already a friend it’s best to have an honest conversation and put both the interest and rejection out in the open. With strangers or vague acquaintances, just allow the natural flow of life to continue keeping them at a distance.If she doesn't talk to you about her interest, you will have to separate yourself from her more indirectly.Try not to be overly conscious of her. Once you notice,... "Oh, she likes me?” then “That's nice, but I’m not interested," is all you need to understand.There's no reward for paying extra attention to her and trying to figure out why she is attracted to you, that will compensate for misleading her in the process. Knowing you're not going to follow through with dating her doesn’t mean she won’t see your curiosity about her intentions as a reason to hope.If she doesn't speak up, the most you can do is talk about the person you like in front of her or make yourself seem unavailable for a relationship in other ways. Do not encourage closeness of any sort during the time when she isn't being honest about her feelings. Normal social interaction in groups is fine. Just don't give her any form of preferential treatment, including the casual social gestures you share with good friends.Any injury she inflicts on herself by not facing reality is her own choice, and nothing you can help.

How do I tell a girl I don't want a relationship without hurting her?

First of all, you can’t control how other people think and feel. You can influence them with how you say what you want to say to them, but even then, being straightforward and honest is the best way to go for most situations. Reason has to do with less drama and less confusion the better.Second, all you need to do is communicate your thoughts. Example:You: “Hey, I quite like you, but as I might regret this in the future, I am not ready for a relationship right now. Plus, I don’t think we have the same sort of relationship lifestyle we’re aiming for. I plan on getting into a relationship in the future where my partner is opened to an open relationship. Not everyone is able to have such a lifestyle. However, as selfish as this may seem, I like you so much that I would love to have your friendship if you are willing. If not, that’s okay. I needed to be honest with you.”