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How Do I Text A Friend Who Is Older Than Me

Why do my friends stop texting me?

Okay when me and a couple of my friends are texting each other. They will just stop texting me when we're in the middle of conversations. This happens with one of my friends that's a guy he's 27 so he's a year older than me and this also happens with my other friend and she's 58 can someone please help me with this?

What do I do about a needy friend who texts and calls too much?

I have known this guy since I was a teenager, he is 38 years old, 7 years older than me, but asks like he is still in his 20's. He texts me constantly about stupid things, stupid jokes that were forwarded and I only have the unlimited text service because of him. I have tried to tell him that I cant afford all the text messaging and will stop for just a moment but will continue the same routine again. He calls me when he's out at the mall or bar when he is by himself and feel like he does this so that he looks like he's busy and/or has friends, hes very insecure. I feel he hasnt matured and we have grown apart even more so now that I have a boyfriend. I have stop texting him back and give all kinds of excuses as to why i dont text him and have told him to stop texting and that its too much, but he still continues and even calls with caller id block. There is no love interest there, just someone who needs attention and is lonely all the time. What do I do? My friend has issues!

How should I ask a guy out over text? He is 5 years older to me and might say NO.

Okay first of all I don't know if you're new to Quora but you definitely didn't provide critical info on your situation except that a face-to-face conversation isn't possible.Have you been friends with this guy? Or is he just an acquaintance? If you've been friends, maybe not even close, is a safe bet to ask him out.Also there are other factors at play: like if he's single. See the age difference of 5 years is an advantage in my eyes, since girls tend to be more mature than guys of the same age. So compatibility might hit off. But that's for later.As far as I can gauge, ponder over your options. If he has been a friend, maybe you can ask him out citing some reason whatever is appropriate. If you can provide me with more details on the situation I might be able to help out.And don't be shy to ask someone out. Even if it doesn't work, you'll have a learning experience. :)If you feel you can share your situation, please feel free to do so.

I like this guy 6 year older than me and he is my best friend's brother. What should I do? I really like him, but it doesn't seem very appropriate.

There is nothing inappropriate about fancying your best friend’s brother. Does it feel a little as though he is your brother perhaps because he treats you like his sister?Unfortunately this seems to happen a lot with sister’s friends and their brothers. You can only make the best of yourself and work on him getting a different mindset about you. This won’t be easy because he sees you as an extension of his sister.I think the only way you can convey - sneakily - to him that your feelings are there is to ask him to accompany you to an event. Find one that requires a partner, ask him to be your escort - buy the tickets etc and if he agrees, get yourself looking gorgeous.This is your chance so don’t blow it!If he is quite happy to go along and takes you, then you have your chance to act like a regular girl and not his sister’s mate.If this fails, then you might have to do what other people have suggested - tell him you fancy him. Be prepared for astonishment, and a possible rejection.

My best friend hates me?

It's been almost a year since I moved away from Indiana to Florida. I had a girl best friend who was two years older than me. When I left she was 14 and I was 12. I'm now 13 and she's 15. I text her a lot but she barely ever texts me back now and it makes me sad. I miss her but I don't think she misses me. I cry a lot because of it. I figured since she's 2 years older than me, she might have felt this way a lot but thought she had no choice but to respond before, and now she's realized that she doesn't have to. Did she just think I was annoying all along and hate me? I miss my best friend and I would do anything to get her back.

My friend keeps annoying me and texting me annoying things?

You need to tell her straight up that you are not sure if these friendsship is working out . She is obviously not getting the hint. It seems like polite may not work for this girl . If you don;t want to confront her , just altogether just stop talking to her , in person cut conversatiions short but over the computer and phone just don't answer . only akwknoledge her in person , and when she asks why you haven't been talking to her , just say you've been busy . If she asks what you have been doing just say that it's personal .
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What does it mean if my guy friend never texts me first but always have long conversations with me?

If someone is not satisfied with above answers:If YOUR guy friend don't initiate chat, this may mean that he is waiting for you to initiate always.And since you said he never initiates, it means you always initiate and that mean you are interested taking to him too.  (Point 1)Now you said that he always have long conversations with you...Please note that any conversation cannot be one sided, that means you too take part in conversation, that means, you both make each other comfortable to say a lot more things than usual.  (Point 2)Usually people who chat more are less likely to be talkative if talking face to face/ phone (comparing with their chatting tendency).If he is long chatting with you, that means he is taking a little more time to chat to you, and that means he is most probably not chatting with anyone else. That makes you special for him. (Point 3)I hope you are getting where I am heading, so summing up my points, that you are interested in talking to him, you both make each other comfortable and you are special friend for him. So there MAY BE some chance that he likes you, and by reading this, if you didn't said "what the f*** " that means you too have some feelings.If you have some feelings too, you can go ahead, because..  . .  . ..  (Point 2). ;)

My friend lives in another country. How do I make her like me more by texting? She's older than me?

Thanks for the A2AI don't know, because I call this "games and drama," which I don't like.If people like me, they like me. If they don't, they don't. I don't go out of my way to do anything or say anything that will "make" them like me.I also don't trust relationships when you can't physically prove the other person exists, and that they aren't lying about who they are or what they want.If you are in another country, it might just be that she's not interested in someone younger than herself or is as cautious about who she talks to and meets. In fact, I often have been ask me to call them (or they want to call me). I absolutely (unless it's a national emergency kind of thing) refuse to speak with someone on the phone (unless it's a business call) unless I have met them in person, because I don't trust that the person on the other end of the line is who they claim to be.Also, I've seen people text or Skype while blatantly lying to the person, and lying to me is about the worst thing. If I sensed that someone was saying something to manipulate me (consciously or unconsciously) into "like them," they'd be gone so fast, and they'd be blocked.

How do I get a girl 2 years older than me (17) to like me?

You get people to like you by being likeable to them. Be nice, become friends. The "friend zone" isn't a thing. What's so bad about being friends? The friendship of a woman isn't second prize to having sex with her. That's just entitled bullshit. If you can't even talk to her, there's no advice that anyone on the Internet can give you. Either become her friend or ask her out. If you don't have the courage to do either, you can't expect her to like you. Now, you've used some language that makes me feel like you're just another teenage boy who wants a hot girl as a prize. You want her but you've never even talked to her? You mentioned that if you get her, you'll have "endless respect"? Just because you followed it with "but I don't care about the respect, I just want her" doesn't make that statement any less objectifying and gross. If you really don't care about the "respect" you'll get for possessing a hot prize, don't even mention it. Now then. She's two years older than you and at your age, that's very significant. When I was 17, I was dating a 19 year old guy. The 15 year old guys were children. They were little kids who I avoided talking to as much as possible. Now I'm 19 and I can barely stand talking to the 19 year old guys. I'm dating a 23 year old and I still feel like he's more childish than I am. This is not to say that all women date older men, but as teenagers, girls generally mature much faster than boys. (http://www.medicaldaily.com/men-...)The maturity difference tapers off as you get older, but at your age, the difference is huge.

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