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How Do You Deal With Annoyingly Nice People

What's the deal with people who are annoyingly happy all the time?

there is no such thing as always being happy.
i mean people may come off that way in public,
but when they are behind closed doors ... they maybe really
sad inside.. nobody wants others to see them unhappy.
Some think that being happy in the public helps them forget about the other hardships they are going through in life. they fake their way through the day to try and feel better about themselves.. and im not saying that people aren't happy.. im just saying it is really hard to always be happy. i mean i always try to look at the good in things but you find bad in some things. you cant always be perfect. i get what you mean though .. i totally agree with you.

Is it okay to be annoyingly nice, kind, and friendly..?

First I'm not fake. I'm being myself. Anyways, I've been nice since I was in 1st or 2nd Grade. And now since I'm very nice, kind, and friendly to others they are nice to me :) but some of my friends thinks it annoying. But when I heard them say that I thought to myself...does everyone think that I'm so nice its annoying them? I stress myself out when I think of that sometimes. But usually some of my friends are rude to me...and I'm like the nicest and they just want to let out their anger on me...I don't understand....is it okay to be annoyingly nice, kind, and friendly to others..? Please no rude answers..

How do you deal with people who care for you annoyingly too much?

First of all if someone is caring me then weather he/she is in love with me or having a strong bond with me….a nd there is low probabilty that it is being done for personal interestYou have to solve this outIf it is too much then ignore him/her.Coz sometime they made it their habit to care about you for no reason.

Why do I find overly nice people so annoying?

Maybe because we associate nice people with manipulative people. Maybe because in today's business driven society, niceties are consider “skills” or “tools”, and used to make clients/customers and potential clients/customers feeling comfortable in our presence. Also in some poorer communities, most people aren't very nice to each other without obvious reasons to be. So when someone is overtly nice, it's found to be strange and off putting.

Wat does annoying in a good way mean?

Maybe they mean that you being concerned is appreciated?
Or they appreciate you're attention to them?

Do you find energetic and happy people are quite annoying?

Yup. Especially in the morning.

How do I tell my friend politely that they are annoying?

This seems to be the other side of the coin of a question I just answered about being “brutally honest.”In my experience, friends like this are not intending to be malicious. While I agree with Sapphire Silver’s answer, I disagree vehemently with taking a “blunt” approach. On the contrary, you need to take considerable care and sensitivity when approaching her.If you do “love” her, as you state, and you want what’s best for not only yourself, and her, but also the relationship between you two, you will need to understand the consequences of how you approach her with this.The best approach I’ve ever known is to take things slowly in your approach. For example, a conversation might go like this:[In private, definitely not in public, and not when you are irritated or annoyed.]“[Friend], I need to talk to you about something really delicate.”Her: “Okaaaaay.”You: “It’s been hard to get up the courage to talk to you about this, because I don’t want to upset you.”At this point, she will likely be quite curious about what you have to say, but the “entry price” to learning this is that she will have to not get emotionally riled up about hearing bad news.Assuming she agrees in some fashion (e.g., “You can tell me anything,” or “I promise I won’t hold anything against you,” etc.), then you can tell her that she has some habits that make it difficult to enjoy having her around.I’d avoid words like “irritating,” “annoying,” or “inappropriate” if at all possible. I’d also avoid naming specific instances or moments, which she will want to know about. Instead, try to focus on general behavior (interruptions, non-sequitur changes in conversation, topics of conversation that may not be of interest to those around her such as the singer, etc.). If you give her specifics, she is likely to try to defend those specific actions, rather than listen to the main point you are trying to make.Remember that the purpose of such a conversation is to preserve the relationship between you, even improve it. If that is not your goal, or your desire, then you can feel free to ignore this advice and be as “blunt’ as you wish - you’ll find that you will have no shortage of people who will gladly avoid you if that becomes your modus operandi.

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