Am I the only person who doesn't like cake?
I absolutely detest cake. I can't stand its texture or the sickening sweet taste it has. I don't really have much of a sweet tooth. When I tell most people this, however, they tell me I'm absolutely insane for not liking cake. Does anyone else out there hate cake? Just wondering so I don't feel so alone in my cake hating.
How does it feel when the person you love the most doesn't feel the same way about you?
It feels suffocating. Sometimes your heart aches when you think of the castle of dreams you are making, being scattered in a single blow. You are depressed and you question yourself, why can't they see your love? Sometimes you doubt on you. When you wake up you convince yourself not to think about it but memory flashes and touches your wounds.All you need to do is not to get alone.
If a person doesn't want to be your friend, how would you feel and react?
I would accept that and walk away. I would let go of them and seek friendship elsewhere.I’d also believe (or work on believing) that I’m capable of making friends elsewhere.I’d work on believing that I am wonderful enough, interesting enough and fun enough to hang with.Our belief system rules everything we do in this world. If we want to show up more healthily and confidently in life, is important to program ourselves for success (and by “program” I mean, change our belief system as needed so as to get the results we want).Whenever we hold onto someone it is because part of us thinks there is some kind of shortage, like we’ll never manage connecting with anybody else.There are plentiful of people out there you can connect with (no matter how shy or reserved you are).One way to get to know people is through a shared hobby.If you can figure out what you like and invest your time and energy in a hobby you love, you will naturally draw the right kinds of people to you.Once you’re friends with people, it’s important to treat them like an equal and be respectful of them and not take them for granted.Don’t treat them like a number, but treat them like an actual person with feelings.Keep in touch every now and then, and consider asking how they’re doing if you haven’t been in touch for a while.
How would you feel if the person you love doesn't want to have children?
This is not something to be taken lightly.If both of you are very firm in your respective positions, and presuming you see a future with this person, you need to be on the same page before you allow the relationship to progress too far.I was someone who desperately wanted children, and due to multiple miscarriages had trouble. I understand how very, very deeply a person can want kids, and how all-consuming that desire can be. People who don't want children may feel just as strongly about that.In my experience, people who do want children rarely change their minds about it. It seems to be a deep-seated, almost primal need. Many people who don't want children have changed their minds about it and been very thankful that they did. However, there must be others who have regretted changing their minds, and some who will never, ever change their minds on that subject.Thinking that the other person will change his or her mind about it would, in my opinion, be a huge mistake. You need to sort it out now. Perhaps a place to start would be discussing how strongly each person feels about the matter on a scale of 1 to 10. If one person is a ‘6’ about wanting children and the other is a ‘5′ about not wanting children, you have some wriggle room. If you are each a ‘10’ on your respective positions, reaching a compromise is going to be a lot harder!
Is it worth to express your love to the person who doesn't feel the same for you?
Yes and NoNow I need to clear two three things , is it you who thinks the person doesn't feel the same for you or did the other person tell you?If it's you who thinks so then you should probably tell her, because regret is worse than failure. Atleast you would know if it is going to happen or not. It may not happen but what if it did happen? And imagine if you never told him/ her, you'll regret it for the rest of your life.If it's the other person, then believe me, don't do it. But wait this also means two things, one if the other person clearly told you they don't like you , in that case abort the plan, go home, sleep. Second case, they like someone else , in that case let them know you love them, and that you'll be happy with their decision and that you'll support them no matter what. Now I don't mean that you get friendzoned. Just let them know in a safe way that it doesn't create any problem.And believe me when I say, if it's meant to happen, it will definitely happen and if it's not anything that you'll try won't help. Find your comfort zone, push your limits just don't end up broken!Take care!
Why does it hurt when the person you love doesn't love you back?
I think it is due to the attachment and unfulfilled expectations. Everyone deserves to be loved and to be happy. But it really pains if you love someone so truly from the bottom of your heart and it goes unrequited. You will never completely move on if you ever truly loved her, but you will have to start living with it.Unrequited love is really painful. Especially if your feelings are genuine and you love her to the truest of your senses. It kills you everyday to realize that she doesn't love you back yet. And worse is getting ignored. But the thing about love is, it is always unconditional. You love her because you want to, not because you want her to love you back. That's what love is all about. Just be true to your feelings and try to stay away from her in order to avoid the pain. Unrequited love is one of the most painful things we can ever experience. It's not even like getting over a dead person. Getting over someone you love truly is an extremely difficult task. Someday your heart will learn to live with it. It may not completely move on, but it will try to heal and live with it. The problem is to just silence the mind.It hurts. It hurts real bad. It stings. There is a pang in your heart every single time you think about her. You care for her that much and you love her that much. You experienced pinnacle of happiness when you were with her, and now when she leaves, you experience nadir of sadness. It really hurts because you still care and you will care, even though she is with you or not. Your heart will still care.But just remember it wasn't easy for her to let you go. Sometimes they leave because they can't see you sad. My girl left me that way and I completely get her view on this. She cared for me as a real friend and I love her even more. It stings me and I feel how much it would have hurt her too. She asked me to stay away for I can move on, little did she know that she was the one whom I genuinely love after my parents. I am still staying away for I want her to be happy. For her to be guilt free. I can't see her sad anyday.We all know how much it stings us because we experience it. But we all should know how much it would hurt them too. I really care about her and her happiness still. That is what love and care is all about. If it was just distance and time that would make someone unlove, then love would be an easy thing. It isn't. True love will never fade.
Why does one person feel the connection...but the other doesn't?
I had this really close guy friend ( had...sometimes you care about someone too much to just remain friends with them... some people understand, others are lucky and don't ) and, obviously, i fell head over heels for him.. We would talk every day for as long as we could (( until he fell asleep or until we had school during the day )) and then our holiday break came and we talked from dawn until...dawn :]. When we'd walk together we'd have our arms around eachother... and one time even held hands :]. Everytime he'd come over all we would do was snuggle/cuddle and talk...* we're boring people and had nothing else better to do anyway * and when I'd go to his house we wouldn't cuddle or anything as much * we werent allowed privacy bc ..he's male and im female..heh * well one day we were talking and ...he was talking about how he liked some girl and i was thinking...holy crap why not me...and not understanding why he didn't feel the same connection I felt (( we talked and he said he didnt feel it...but he felt it with the other girl )) ...they don't hang out or talk like we did/used to... why...why doesn't he feel it? if you've had experience to where you havent felt it and someone else has...that'd be great i mean... we're teenagers...and it's not that important for the future but it doesnt mean I can't wonder, right? your thoughts and personal opinions would be nice thanks in advance
If I like someone and that person doesn't like me back what should I do?
First ask yourself, do you like that person or pretending to like with a desire of getting liked or loved. If the reply is later one, don't worry, your liking,love and question will achieve a natural death with time. But if the reply is that you really like that person, you definetly not required to be worried whether that person likes or love you. You like that person because of her/his look, nature, character, personality or some other quality, correct? So it is as simple as that, not liking you will not reduce his/her any of quality. Did U put a condition or your heart says that you will like or love her/him if she/he will like or love you. I think definetly not. My suggestion is to keep your expression under control. Your expression should not make that person uncomfortable or embarrassing. Keep liking or admiring that person. Love can never be CONDITIONAL and if it's conditional, It is NOT LOVE.........