How to get over losing your best friend?
We'd been best friends since we were 7 or 8. We always did everything together. We were so close. When we were 15 something really bad happened to me, and I tried to talk to her about it, but she just turned her back on me and called me a liar. She was so selfish and kept hurting me from that day on. I'm now 18 and I still can't 'get over it'. She's moved on, very clearly. She has a new best friend, who I know and she's a good friend of mine too. I've got a new best friend and he's amazing, far more than she ever was. Is it normal that I'm still not over it?
How do you fall out of love with your best friend?
Romantic Love is of two kinds, or more precisely, has two well established tracks.For 95 % of the time, your bodies become “adapted” to each other so that you both no longer produce or respond to the hormones of the other. This usually takes place within 18 - 24 months. At this point, you are no longer “in love”, even if you don’t notice for a few years.Once this phase is over, sex usually becomes less & less. Good, frequent sex helps a lot in a relationship because it helps with another kind of bond - one that tends to make you forgiving & tolerant for about 2 - 3 days. Keep up the sex - things usually work. Let the sex die - then small things add up. Love can die if this happens enough.The other “track” for Romantic Love is for the 5 %. For them, they continue to feel like teenagers in love pretty much forever. People in this situation are as protected in their relationship as humanly possible. Usually it takes something as drastic as the death of a child, bankruptcy, or imprisonment to break them up - and most of them even survive this. Sometimes they are even strengthened by such events.
What do you do when you love your bestfriend
Don't wait. You'll waste your time lovings someone that may not love you back the same way. I've just gotten through with this. Tell this person how you feel, its really that simple. If you know this person doesn't feel the same way, do it anyways. You'll feel so much better. When told this other person, she did love me back in a way that makes us even more special. I go to her when I have problems or if i need a place to stay for the night, whatever. I personally have moved on and found someone else, but im still really good friends with the other person. Don't mistake yourself with conditional and unconditional love. People come and go, but realy true feelings are rare. Listen to the song "Hold on Loosely" by .38 Special, and listen to the lyrics. Cry, do something to make you get over this person. I know its tough and it will take time. Be very patient. cheers.
Can best friends fall in love?
ok so i have a guy best friend and i've known him for about 5 years now. i consider him my soulmate. we are very close. sometimes when we talk, we dont really talk as friends we say things such as" i love you , i dont know how i would live without you, i am so adicted to you, i only want to be with you" he sometimes gets very very emotional and starts saying things like " i love you , i only want to be with you, if i was with you my whole life would be perfect i dont want anything else but you " and well, we are the best of friends and we cant go a day without talking. can best friends fall in love ? i dont want to talk about this with him because i think it would make our relationship kind of weird. i want to know how he feels. what can i ask him ? what should i do?
Is it wrong to fall in love with your best friend?
No, it isn't wrong, you can't lie to your feeling. BUT you must ready with the consequences. The bad things = When your best friend is already with someone else or find someone else, prepare to be broken heart, but you must to be happy in front of your best friend. It hurts. When you confess your feeling and your best friend doesn't feel the same the way you are, It hurts more than rejection with non best friend. It's not over after the rejection, your best friend maybe will keep distance from you, or your best friend maybe not become your best friend anymore.Maybe your best friend will smile and say thank you, and still be your best friend, but friendship will change and feel different.5. Maybe your best friend will smile and say thank you, be your best friend, he/she don't change and both of you will move on. The best thing = If he/she feels the same like you do,it's the best thing ever. That kind of relationship long last and often leads to happy marriage. Every person's dream is to have wife/husband/girlfriend/boyfriend that can also be your best friend.This is risky but sometimes worth it.
Can you have more than One Best Friend?
In a conversation, I would love to refer to one of my close friends as my "best friend", but pinning that title would be unfair to my other close friend who I consider just as worthy. Can you have more than one "best" friend? If so, Isn't that defeating the purpose of what "BEST" is? Do I have to chose?