What is the best way to deal with people who teach you to do things wrong at work?
Unless they were specifically assigned by a superior to train you, just thank them for the offer but say you are already handling it another way. If possible, find someone else who is a more trusted and capable person. If you feel you must go to your manager because it's a recurring problem, don't go in with an accusatory attitude, because it could give the impression that you are just as big a problem. Instead, document exactly what this person said or did that was wrong, and go to your manager in a constructive way, expressing concern that this person seems to need more training and guidance because what they were showing you to do was wrong. I'm not sure what you mean by "punish" you, but if in fact they are throwing you under the bus because of their instructions, then you should let the manager know that you did it exactly as they insisted you should do it. Stick to what you heard and what you saw - don't express any opinions about their intentions ("they pretend they had only good intentions") because they can argue that that's not what they intended, and you can't prove what they were thinking. As long as you stick to what was said and how it was said, and what you saw and how it was done, those can't be denied unless they resort to lying.
Real Women: Just asking, what reason are Transxuals offensive?
Apparently a LOT of people do not know what a "gay" is and confuse them with transsexuals---The pastors wife apparently thought a Gay was a guy who wanted to be or considered himself a woman----while A homosexual is really a guy who is attracted to other men.---SAME sex stuff. Homosexuality has nothing to do with identifying with the opposite sex.---but being attracted to the SAME sex---Big Difference. And even MOST Cross dressers are heterosexual--no wonder there is so much confusion among the uneducated. Male to female Transsexuals have a "female" brain--The "human "default"---male hormones usually convert the male fetus' brain into a male brain---but sometimes it does not happen right. Homosexuals are generally normal but they are attracted to the same sex. Transvestites are heterosexual males that have a fetish for women's clothing---nothing homosexual there either. Yes some gays cross dress, but it really does not make much sense--unless they are into it for non sexual reasons, like "SM humiliation, show business, etc. why are Some people hostile?---Obviously a person who does not know what Homosexuality , etc. is or has a crazy, mythological idea of it, would likely have doubts about his/her own sexuality---and so homosexuals and transsexuals make them uncomfortable---often expressed as hostility.
How do you deal with people who hate you for no reason and have no problem expressing it to you?
My recommendation -- go to your local library, or used bookshop, and start digging through the shelves looking for wisdom that is at least two-thousand years old. Why so old? Because if a book has lasted that long, you better believe it has something to tell you.My personal favourite -- Stoicism -- has something just for you.This comes from Epictetus:"If anyone tells you that a certain person speaks ill of you, do not make excuses about what is said of you but answer, "He was ignorant of my other faults, else he would not have mentioned these alone."The great Marcus Aurelius continues the theme:"Begin each day by telling yourself: Today I shall be meeting with interference, ingratitude, insolence, disloyalty, ill-will, and selfishness – all of them due to the offenders’ ignorance of what is good or evil. But for my part I have long perceived the nature of good and its nobility, the nature of evil and its meanness, and also the nature of the culprit himself, who is my brother (not in the physical sense, but as a fellow creature similarly endowed with reason and a share of the divine); therefore none of those things can injure me, for nobody can implicate me in what is degrading. Neither can I be angry with my brother or fall foul of him; for he and I were born to work together, like a man’s two hands, feet or eyelids, or the upper and lower rows of his teeth. To obstruct each other is against Nature’s law – and what is irritation or aversion but a form of obstruction."
Is it morally wrong to keep your sexuality a secret?
im a gay male and im in the closet..i dont want to keep my sexuality a secret forever..i want to tell someone but im too scared..my friends at school make jokes about me being gay..because i act gay..but theyre not sure about me being gay..they have small suspicions..i usually act masculine..but once in a while i act feminine and give it away..but i bring in lesbian porn on my phone to make them think im straight..i talk about liking a certain girl..just to make it seem like im straight.. is it wrong to keep it a secret..how do i tell someone..what shall i do..help me people.. email me or IM me.. Please help me..please..
How to i pretend to be straight?
I'm gay but for the next 3 years I'll be in high school waiting to go to college in England so i can leave and come out. But at he moment in Ireland were I live its a curse to be gay and I'm not convincing whenever I tell someone I'm straight. I'm ok with being gay its just for a while that I have to be straight. Any tips on how to do this
Why do Christians hate the Wicca religion?
Wicca doesn't believe in a devil, doesn't believe in hurting anyone, is all about nature, and teaches its practitioners to do everything they can to better themselves. I don't see why Christians have such a problem with this. Is it the spells? Because spells are prayers with props. Is it the symbols? The pentacle is just a star--Christianity uses a star too (remember Christmas?). I just want to know why the hostility and hatred or such a beautiful, peaceful, loving religion...
How do you deal with people who ignore you for no reason, even when you are so kind to them?
Recognize that people can often be very ungrateful. People are forgetful and / or do not wish to carry the burden of gratitude to a benefactor. Accept this fact as such - albeit disappointing and painful to do so.As far as dealing with people ignoring you is concerned, recognize that this behaviour is a very special kind of violence albeit an entirely passive form of aggression. Humans like violence because it makes them feel good, superior and in control. Aggression is often born of arrogance and the first thing I ask myself when someone exhibits that kind of behaviour to me for no good reason is: "Who are you anyway? Who made you king?". I leave it up to them to get over themselves. And if they never do then that's just too bad however regrettable.Recognize that people ignoring you is almost always going to hurt -at least initially - but try to get past the pain by recognizing that the subject is most probably completely oblivious to their own arrogance and a proclivity to exhibiting and thus utilizing aggression to achieve their goals in their interactions with others. This behaviour says way more about them than it does about you and is as such, in real terms, their problem, theirs alone and not yours. Why should you have to deal with it?When you realize that this kind of behaviour often has a pathological background, it should be easier to see both the person and the behaviour in perspective thereby reducing the personal impact it may have on your own psychological well-being. Life is too short for many things but most definitely for getting hung up on people with what in the final analysis is an aggression issue. Hope this helps.