WHEN do guys usually INTRODUCE their girlfriend to their FRIENDS?
Personally sounds a little weird to me. If a chick is really attractive, you can bet his friends will meet her ASAP kind of like a trophy. If he's really really into her, he'll introduce her ASAP to solidify his choice and because he just genuinely wants her around. If he's only "officially" with her because she's bugging about going to the next level and he hasn't introduced you to his friends after a month, odds are you don't mean that much. There's a couple of scenarios here that could be and none of them are good for you. You could be the exception or the rule, unfortunately only time will tell. Also think of this, If you 2 really enjoy each other and have enough in common to be a real couple, why on earth would he be rolling solo? Without knowing either party, any advice you get here should be taken lightly anyways because there could always be variables that we don't know. Good luck & hope it works out for ya. Be sure to comment back on your thoughts! EDIT: In response to Nate, that's true about the trophy girls but, if you had a BBQ or other event to go to, wouldn't you want your girlfriend to come as well?(especially a new one?) You may not see it as going out of your way to introduce her but you're still offering to have her around to enjoy things you like!
If my friend doesn’t introduce me to their friends or family how long should I wait before I introduce myself to them?
I would take a casual approach: Introduce yourself when you're with your friend, and you both bump into his friend or family member. Your friend should really make the introductions, but if he doesn't, it's perfectly fine for you to introduce yourself if you want to.My husband used to not introduce me to someone we ran into when we were out together. It bothered me. But when I asked him why, he confessed that he couldn't remember the person's name! He's getting older and hard of hearing, which embarrasses him, but he is very friendly with everyone, and he never forgets a face. So now, I just do a lot of smiling while he chats with an acquainted, because I don't really need an introduction, and I don't want to embarrass my husband.
How would you introduce your girlfriend to your family?
Disclaimer: This is keeping an Indian context in mind, but most steps are applicable to such a scenario in any culture. Do not declare to your family that you want to get married to someone you love. Do not start with a marriage discussion at all. Introduce her a few years before your probable marriage year. Sounds too long? Well if you haven't known a girl for at least 2 years, don't think about marrying her. Introduce her as a friend, not as a potential girlfriend. If it's not possible for her to visit your home alone, invite her along with a group of friends. Make her spend time with them. Watch a movie together with your mother, for example. She should try to be a good listener while interacting with your parents. While your generation's and their views may not match on every topic, good listeners are hard to come by and everyone just loves them. She has to be herself during this time. She must not try too hard to impress your parents. Otherwise there will be expectation mismatches and severe strains in the relationship later. Let your parents know that you love this girl and want to marry her only after you've followed the above steps at least for 6 months - 1 year. Now of course there's a chance they'd have guessed, but don't officially confirm it to them before it's time. How to Impress your Boyfriend's Parents
Why does my girlfriend never try to introduce me to her friends yet she always meets me and hangs out with mine?(She tries to meet me daily)
Never introduced, not even as friend? She spends more your money, then she may be a gold-digger. She never spends your money but she hangs out with you, then she may be need male companion just to be with her.You mentioned her as girl friend. So, no possibility for just having just casual relationship. Clear it with her what is her intention. Nobody is here to be taken for granted.If she is really conservative and want to be it secret upto your love comes true, then atleast her way of behaviour tells what is she upto with you. Believe you inner intuition and ask her everything openly. All the best…
Would you be embarrassed to introduce your girlfriend to your family or friends if?
If YOU like her, then that's all that counts. I don't have a problem with you referring to her as "ugly" to us on this site. You're just tellin us that according to society, she's definitely not considered to be attractive. However, she IS your girlfriend. So, you obviously like alot of certain things about her. That's all that matters. If you take her to meet your family, and they seem to have a problem with talkin about her looks behind her back, then confront them HARSHLY (I'm a very kind person but see NO problem with putting my foot down HARD when need be) and tell them that she is your girlfriend and you are not blind to her physical traits, but YOU really like her in other ways and you don't give a rat's hind end if she doesn't look like Cindy Crawford or anyone else that they think she should look like. Straighten them out if you have to. That's not rude. That's being a man and basically being the kind of man that she needs to have. I had a girlfriend once that many people would have said fell outa the ugly tree and hit every branch on the way down. Actually, she could've made herself look better than she did. I saw her once with makeup on and she was certainly attractive enough for me. But, most of the time when I'd pick her up, she didn't wear any make up at all and it actually changed the way she looked in her face by quite a bit. I was not feelin the best about the idea of lettin my mom meet her some day if she was gonna be lookin like that but I ended up gettin rid of her one day for alot of aggravation in other ways that she was causing me. However, if I had it to do over, I wouldn't be concerned about what my family thought about her looks. I'd straighten them out right quick like. Also, to tell you the truth, She'll very likely make you alot happier than alot of girls would that society finds to be the cat's meow. You see, she's not plagued with being stuck-up or arrogant about her drop-dead-gorgeous looks. She's probably humble and down to earth and would make you happy if she doesn't have some sort of problems about her personality.Good luck man !
Why do my girlfriends parents introduce me as her 'friend'?
I have been called for past for 5 yers, yea i have been in a realationship with the same chick for 8years and her family introduced as her friend, only her brothers call me her girlfriend.i think when parents act this way, its because they still don't want to believe the fact that their little baby like girls, you should let it go, because talking about this issue will bring a huge and sudden realization to the parents specially when they have been denying it for so long. after 5 years of passing for the friend , one day of the clear blue sky , the mom introduce to a girl and said my daughter's partner and then the father followed. unfortunately, they have the ball in the game and all we can do is let them find the goal themselves.
What does it mean if he never introduces you to friends or family after when you are in a relationship for 8 months?
You you have received many answers to your question: What does it mean if he never introduces you to friends or family after you are in a relationship for 8 months?The basic theme is: eight months isn't that big of a deal, he's not serious about the relationship, he doesn't want people to know he's in this relationship… or a relationship, he's in a primary relationship with someone else, he's embarrassed about having you for a girlfriend. he's embarrassed about the quality of his friends and family, he has something to hide. I agree, any and all of these things could be valid.What I have found in relationships where their are not introductions to friends and family made: their lives are very compartmentalised. By keeping you isolated, if you go away there isn't a lot of explaining he needs to do. He's probably been burned in the past and he doesn't want to go through it again. &/or he may have history that he doesn't want you to hear about. If he doesn't introduce you to his friends and family, you won't hear the stories that don't reflect well upon him. What seems to be the best fit?
Why won't my girl introduce me to her friends?
i could have understood that she doesnt want to tell any of her friends about you because she may get into trouble, but that doesnt seem to be the case. I don't think talking would get you anywhere. seems like she has the upper hand in the relationship, try not to talk it through with but rather make it clear to her that you don't like the way you are being treated. I hope you know what i mean? other than that, I would suspect that there is something else going on that you don't know about. But just keep calm. and don't worry, things will sort themselves out. I can also understand that its a bit hard to let someone go that you really like. hope this helps a little
Are you embarrassed to introduce your boyfriend or girlfriend to your family or friends because of his or her social status, educational background, or personal or religious beliefs?
Being raised in an Asian family, there always seems to be some sort of invisible social status ranking among the people in the in and outside of the Asian community. Because of this perceived social status and other factors, often times made it difficult associate with certain individuals that may or may not be on your “level.”For instance, you can't hang out with this person because their grades are not good enough or they didn't come from such and such background.Oftentimes dating outside of one's social, intellectual, or economic status or even ethnic group is looked down upon. This perhaps goes both ways and makes it rather interesting or difficult to introduce girlfriends to the family.Anyone else have a similar experience?