How do i tell my teachers i have cancer?
I am sorry to hear about your diagnosis, but every person handles cancer differently. It took my wife about a week before she even told her family she had cancer and then it took her even longer to get the information out to her friends. When she finally decided to let her friends know this is how she did it. She had one great friend and she told her. She then wrote an e-mail to all my wife's friends and that is how it "got out". This saved her time from contacting everyone and then the close friends called my wife and talked to her about her condition. You should write down all the options available to you to get the word out. Now with "texting" you can choose that way, or talk to you friends one on one. Tell them after class so that they will not have to go though a class day with your cancer on their minds. I know myself and if I were at school and a good friend told me that, well I would not be able to study or concentrate on anything else. They will treat you with more love and compassion. Even those that did not get along with you at all should understand that you are now fighting for your life and things that caused differences between you no longer matters. What matters is YOU LIVING! Teachers are filled with passion and compassion. That is why they teach in the first place, certainly not for the money. I hope the best for you and that you kick cancer's butt!
What to do when a Cancer is upset/angry?
ima cancer. when im madd i love for my boyfriend to make me feel better. Change w-e it iz im madd @ !!!! I dont like to be alone, and im very possessive ! I throw things to ;) lol !
My loved one has cancer. What should I say? How should I respond?
I would like to share what my classmate told me. Let's call him Mr.W. Mr.W's girlfriend has breast cancer. Having talked to her and being hi-bye friends with her for around 5 months, all I can say that she doesn't show any sign of being a cancer patient. From him I came to know that she's even the University topper ! She has been attacked by cancer from her 8th standard. Now, how Mr.W deals with it. What he does is he always tries his maximum to keep her happy. He told me once that she has a maximum of just 10 years left in this world. Ofcourse he is sad but he is trying to face it boldly giving her all courage and love. They often do shopping together and visit temples. And all the stuffs that can give her all possible happiness in every way. All I can say to you now is that just be bold and stay with your loved one and do give all possible extra support, care and love. Do value the time you get to spend with her/him. And yeah, try to share with her/him the success stories of cancer survivors who could get rid of this disease because of their will power. This will definitely help you and your loved one :-)
What's the best thing to say when a friend tells you she has cancer? If there is one.
It’s a difficult situation, and people react in different ways. It’s important to listen. If they just tell you they have cancer, you can ask them how they found out, how they are feeling, what treatment they will be getting, etc. Don’t keep asking questions if you sense they don’t want to talk about it, but it is important to be proactive in helping them talk about it if they seem to want to talk about it.Many people say things like, “Whatever you need, I’m here,” and that does feel like a thing you should say, but you’re putting the pressure on the other person. In what situations can they call you? What if they need a sitter at midnight? Instead, try to figure out what you can do to help, and be specific. Make food (especially if the person has a family), offer to help them with laundry and tidying the house, take their kids (if they have them) on outings. Offer to babysit. There are all sorts of things you can offer to do. If they shoot down your attempts to be helpful, don’t push it and don’t feel snubbed. This isn’t about you.You need to take it upon yourself to maintain the relationship. Don’t wait for them to call you, but also understand that severe fatigue will also get in the way from time to time, so don’t get upset if you call, and most of the time, they don’t feel up to talking. It’s important that you keep reminding them that you care, and you are there.
What to say to a friend who's father has cancer?
I have lived with cancer now for six years, having received a very negative diagnosis and given a few months to live. I liked people being practical rather then too emotional, ie; I will take your daughter to nursery school, pick up shopping if you need me too etc (I particularly enjoyed all the cakes people baked and baskets of fruit.) Let your friend know you are there for her and will do what ever you can to help. I found that my best friends were not much good when I was really in need whether because they could not cope (we were all mums of pre schoolers), or because I was no longer able to do things with and for them. Friends I would not have rated so highly pulled out all the stops and helped me and my family through it all. I still need and get help from time to time, but am often well enough now to take my share of school pick ups, play dates etc. Wish your friend and her family well, and be there in the background so she knows you are there is she needs you.......... Good luck to you all
What does it mean by seeing some have cancer in your dream?
i had a dream that my dad told my mum that her son he got cancer then my mum says why did you hide it from me, and i be happy to hear that. but in real life he does not have cancer as far as i know.. pls help to tell me the meaning of my dream if its to complicated then just tell me what does it mean by some one having cancer in a dream.. also Islamic interpretation would help thax