How do I tell my mom I need a bigger bra??
Up until this point my mom has always told ME that I need a bra/a bigger size. I started wearing training bras when I was 9, and then I wore a 36A when I was 12, then right after I started my period I grew to a 36B. That was about 7 months ago. I know that I need a 36C now beacuse whenever I take my bra off my skin is like indented from the straps and it hurts really bad. I took my measurements and I'm a 1/2 inch from being a 36C. How do I tell my mom I need a bigger bra? I told her once that my bra whas too small about a month ago and she said ' Well then you need a bigger band size because we just got you those bras a few months ago! ' ( I got them around Christmas 2007 ). I went to the store with my aunt around April this year and I tried on a 38B, and it woudn't stay on me, it was too loose. So then I tried on a 36C and the cups were a little bit small, but the straps stayed on. And that was about 3 months ago. How do I convince my mom that I need a bigger bra? HELP! :)
How to tell my mom I have lice?
I have lice for about three months now! They suck and I feel really self conscious about my hair and I won't let any one touch it. I really want to tell my mom but I'm scared. She is a hair dresser and we have never been close. I don't tell her anything. Since I haven't told my mom I haven't gotten treatment. I pick the nits out when I find them and I get all the lice I find and burn them or flush them like I have read in lots of websites. I really need help. And if you know any thing I could do to get rid of it by self please tell me. I won't be able to buy shampoo or a nit comb. Thanks for the help! ;)
How do I tell my mom I’m genderfluid?
I would guess that most people who are not very familiar with the term, or who are less attune to contemporary civil rights are going to be less likely to say: “sounds good”. “Sounds good” is perhaps a bit of an oversimplification of the positive response one would want but I think you get my idea. In a sense you’re in a bit of a conundrum because by implication you seem to want support (which you deserve and which is totally understandable) but on the other side the advice which I’m going to give you requires strength on your side, not that of your mothers. I suggest that you tell her in a slow manner. If your mother is quite a liberal person then you can say it right off the bat, but I suspect such is not the case. I often think of Ellen DeGeneres when it comes to things of these sorts. I don’t know much of her personal life but occasionally I do see her on TV and one thing strikes me (when I think about civil rights). She doesn’t make her sexuality a constant topic of conversation. Sure, if asked if she’s married she talks about her spouse, but it’s not right off the bat: “Hi, I’m Ellen and I’m gay”. Sure, saying that is totally fine. But my point is that when it comes to bringing people around to new concepts, avoiding conflict and using a slow empathetic manner is generally the most effective way. It of course requires a lot of inner strength and patience, but in my opinion it often is the most effective manner. I once watched a ‘School of Life’ video on youtube (great channel) about teaching others or resolving conflicts. I can’t seem to find the video at the moment… It explained (and I agreed) that the most effective manner to teach someone something or to bring someone about to a new concept was to mostly listen and say “yes yes yes” or something similar a lot and then in a small way to bring a little bit of your new concept to them in chunks. The video explained it a lot better. Anyways, in a nutshell, perhaps try and bring the concept to her little by little. If you suspect she might be adverse to it, this could be the most harmonious way to let her into the way that you feel about you.
I’m 13 and bi. How do I tell my parents?
It depends. Are you sure you wanna tell them? Cause you HAVE to make sure, if you tell them, that they won't kick you out, and that you will be safe and stuff like that. I NEED YOU to be sure nothing bad is going to happen to you if you tell your parents you're bi. If you think something might happen to you, you SHOULD WAIT TILL YOU MOVE OUT.Okay, if you can tell them? just read my coming out story, with some advice in it.I told my mother pretty early on, I was 12, but I only told my dad a few weeks after my 14th birtday, since my parents were finally broken up and I didn't live with my dad, because he's kinda homophobic, so I didn't know how he would react. Thankfully, he was pretty chill about it, homophobic jokes aside. You're probably still wondering how I told them. We were in the middle of a conversation (I made sure he was in the right mood though) and I just said"Dad, I got something I gotta tell you"He said "yeah, shoot"and I was like "Dad, I'm bi. I have a girlfriend"and he was like "Okay. But I have the right to call her Robert!"So yeah.Same with my mom, but she didn't react like my dad, of course, and she was really supportive. She's my best friend, and could trust her with EVERYTHING, and of course, your relationship with your parents is probably not the same as mine, but that's how it worked out for me, and I really hope it goes well for you, if you do decide to tell them.But if they hit you with the"You're confused, it's just a phase!"just say something along the lines of "Yeah, what if it IS a phase? Would that be bad? At least, I would get to know myself better and explore my sexuality, which is actually a healthy thing. And if it's not a phase, well that's great too! Because at least I won't have to go another 15 years wondering who I am and what is wrong with me."That's what I told my grandmother who told me bisexuals are just a trend of "confused whores wanting to label themselves " even though I'm only 14. It worked pretty well. And you know what?WHAT IF I WANNA WHORE AROUND? HUH? AT LEAST NOW I KNOW IM A WHORE, AND I ACCEPT IT COMPLETELY!Oh well. you probably think my story doesnt make any sense, but please, just stay safe.
How do I stop cutting and should I tell my parents?
Plain and simple you cute for attention. This isn't a Diss, this is real life. On the inside you were pained, and it got to a point where you probably didn't feel anything…some people cut to see if they can still feel (me in high school), and others cut to remind them of their mistakes (which is foolish, learn from your mistakes don't hurt yourself with them).No matter why you cut, the issue is your pride or your ignorance keeps you from telling someone you have a problem (emotional, suicidal, schizo, etc), and the cutting no matter how hard you hide it is you crying out for help. You want someone to be like what the fuck why do you do that??? You want to know someone cares.Should you tell your parents….maybe. Know that you will get the help you need if your parents pay attention to you. That means shrinks, medications, and open doors. Sometimes its the parents that are the issue that lead you to cut. In that case tell someone that cares for you. A close friend, a sibling, your favorite cousin.We all have issues, and life only geta harder. I hid my suicidal thoughts my whole life, failed to kill myself over 4 times in different ways, and yet I'm still here….and so are the thoughts. I never acknowledged these thoughts and now in my adulthood they whisper and make some mountains out of mole hills.Do yourself a favor, put the blade down, pick up a reason to keep living. Reach out, people love you and care about you, even if you don't hear it everyday.
How do I tell my mother I'm suicidal / depressed?
I understand how challenging it can be to tell your mother if you’re depressed. I did not tell my mother, instead one of my teachers did. I think that it was easier for me because I had no idea how I would tell her that I was self-harming.If you have people that you can trust, maybe you can start with them first. It’s best to get help soon. If you really need someone to talk to when you are suicidal, you can call a suicide hotline. There is also free counseling online, just as other answers have said.I truly hope you can get better!
How to tell my mom I sent a nude?
Hello, a couple of months ago I sent a nude to this guy and 2-3 pics in my underwear to another. Big mistake i know, dont remind me. Ever since it has been tearing at my heart. I really need to tell her but idk if I should. Please please help me. Every night I cry myself to sleep thinking about it. My mom is the understanding type, but im afraid she'll think of me as easy or not think of me the same way again. Should I tell her?
How do I tell my parents i crossdress?
I would suggest starting off telling your mom at first. They're usually more understanding and accepting then fathers are and can help you with telling your dad. Be prepared for a lengthy discussion, and I strongly recommend not being crossdressed during that conversation. Tell your folks that you're a heterosexual crossdresser, like being male, but find it enjoyable wearing womens clothes.