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How Do You Tell Someone You Like Them

How to tell someone you like them?

It seems by your message that you are fairly young, so I will tell you this in advance, don't listen to your friends. They may be more outgoing and THINK they know what they are talking about, but they don't.

First, let me say that being shy is a fairly attractive trait to most men, but you can't be too shy or else you'll afford yourself no opportunities for romance. You are going to have to break out of your shell and work up some courage because things aren't going to happen by themselves.

Your main problem is that you waited so long to ask for assistance. If you are as shy as you seem by your message, it's going to be difficult to do anything before Valentines Day. Start off by trying to pay attention to something he happens to say. I'm not telling you to eavesdrop on all of his conversations, but try to pick up on something you may be able to refer to as a common interest.

Find a way to engage him in conversation. It's best to be subtle about this, as being too aggressive (I.E. just walking up to him while he's with a group of friends and talking to him) may be a turn off. Try to grab his attention sometime during or after class.

Many girls and women have been programmed to think that the conversation should revolve around them, but guys like it when girls ask questions too and don't just talk about themselves. Try to find out some of his interests and hobbies. If he enjoys reading, find out more about what he likes to read and suggest or let him borrow a book. If he enjoys sports, try to find a way to discuss that topic even if you don't know much about it.

If you do wind up talking about something you don't know much about, don't try to act like you're extremely knowledgeable on the subject. Admit that you don't know much, but that you would be interested in learning more.

When in doubt, stick to the extremely cliche mantra of, "be yourself." It really is the best method, and if you don't follow it, your guy may come to realize that the person he got to know isn't really who he though she was after all, and let me tell you, that's a huge turn off.

Best of luck!

How to tell someone you love them..?

I personally think it's better to say it in person, however there are exceptions. The only way I would suggest never to say it, is over the internet...kinda trashy. I suggest if you love him/her, wait a bit, because it might take a while to actually be sure you're going to say "I love you" to right person (like you might be ready, but they might not be!). So, wait a while, and SHOW the person how much you care instead of saying it yet. You'll know when the time is right to say I love you... it'll come as a gut feeling.

If you tell someone you love them in a dream....?

First of all, dreaming about someone that means they were thinking of you is absolutely a false statement.

You are the owner of the dream, it has nothing to do with someone you don't know, someone you are not close with, someone you don't have close connection. For example, if you dream of Miley Cyrus, does that mean she thinks of you? or if you dream of one of the Jonas, does that mean he thinks of you? Absolutely not!

About others were thinking of you, that has to do with some sort of connection or similar life time experience first. For example, if you go to a camp and know someone already and have a close talk with this someone, both of you may be dreaming because you have some sort of chemistry going. However in this case, then the statement may be true.

In your case, meeting someone online, that is way off the criteria about having that someone thinking of you.

But your dream does tell you that you have this desire, the desire of liking that someone, but it could be the symbol of seeking for close relationship, it may not be necessarily what the dream appears. In other words, the dream may just tell you that you are feeling lonely and needing someone to care for you. And that is the focus of the dream.

Should I tell someone I like them if I know they don’t like me?

Yes do it! Even though you know they don’t like you you say, it’s good to get it out and it will help you to get over them. Trust me I did this myself. Yes it will hurt to be rejected, but you get over it and you can finally move on. It feels like a breath of relief because you no longer have to hide anything. It also will help the other person understand why you may have been acting strange around them. It will also make them feel better about themselves. Telling someone you like them is really hard, I know. When I told my crush I liked him, I had to get my friend to tell him because I couldn’t stop laughing. I was so nervous. He didn’t even like me back, but it was ok because it helped me move on and I learned so much from the whole experience. But you never know they may like you back. So yes tell them you like them! You can do it!

How to 'accidentally' tell someone you like them as more than a friend?

im usually not a game player, but its really complicated and i would prefer if anybody didn't say..just be honest and tell them because i wont lie to them, but too much has happened for me to flat out tell them. this may sound confusing but any method of accidently telling him would be amazing?

How soon is too soon to tell someone you love them?

it's never too soon as long as you truly feel like you love them. there's not a set time where you finally know you love someone, it's a feeling you just get. however, it may freak someone out to tell them your feelings, wait until you get in a moment and it just feels right, don't force it just let it out smoothly and honestly.

How do you tell someone who likes you that you don't like them nicely?

When I was younger I (naively) thought I could politely explain to a guy who had a crush on me, that he and I should be just friends. I would nicely explain to him that I liked him as friend only, and that I truly cared about him (which I usually did). I later realised that most guys can't handle rejection, the guy would stalk me, pester me, insult me, threaten me and conjure up the most ridiculous reasons why I didn't want to date him. A few of them, developed a deep contempt and hatred for me. Apparently, the fact that I wasn't interested in dating them, made them feel inferior, and they concluded that I was too arrogant. One of the guys accused me of not dating him because his English wasn't as good as mine, another said it was because he wasn't tall enough, another said it was because he wasn't rich enough. Words which I never even said to them, so you can imagine how perplexed I was! The more I explained, the more aggressive they became, so I had to end all of those “friendships”.Now I'm slightly older and much wiser, I use less words; I realised that words don't change peoples’minds, they will believe what they want to believe. So the less you say in this matter, the better for you, infact you don't have to tell him anything . Nowadays, if a guy, whom I'm not interested in, asks me out, I say no and I don't offer any explanation, I don't even offer to be just friends. And If he pesters me for a reason why, then I "ghost” him. “Ghosting” here means I don't answer his calls, don't reply his messages, don't say a word if I see him passing by, i dont even look in his direction, I screen him out completely! I know it sounds bad, but it's very effective, believe me, I've tried it a number of times now! There is power in silence!

Telling someone you like them in person or in text?

I want to tell him I like him, but I'm too much of a weenie to do so in person (I'm still getting the courage of talking to him about it) and he takes forever to respond in text.

Which would be a better way? Text or face-to-face?

Is it okay to tell someone you love them over the phone?

You never want to tell him (for the first time) that you love him over the phone. The best option is to (although it will be hard) wait and tell him in person. The guy rather have the beautiful girl in front of him telling him in person how she feels about him.

Yes, you will be very nervous, but it's normal, everyone experiences it. And it's much better to be there, seeing him and feeling the emotions in the room rather than on the phone with no actual emotion.

The best thing to do is pick a time and place where you two can be in a comfortable, stress-free environment and tell him how you feel. Don't go on about the hundred reasons why you like him. If he returns your feelings, great! If he doesn't, show him you're mature about it. Don't get upset, sad, or depressed. It's ok, you worked up the courage to ask him out and (although it may be hard) move on. He may need time to think about it, don't rush him. Like they say you've "planted a seed in his head". He might come to like you later on.

Make sure you two don't lose communication, so don't text him or call him rarely when you are away.

Go For It! Be Strong!

I hope you and this guy have a good future together

Good Luck

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