Should I let him go?
If it's hurting you, trust me you are still in deep love with him and as you mentioned he is flirtatious in nature. So that creates lot of trouble for a devoted female.I remember of a girl, who was in love with this guy but he was simply not ready to get committed…always used to roam around with females and she in fact caught him sometimes staring other girls. Being a true lover, the girl used to get hurt a lot.Now, suggesting for your situation, for your best - please show mercy towards your own heart at least if other people in the world keep giving bruises to it. Do something, go anywhere, go for spiritual sessions like meditation classes at good centres like -We have this one in Gurgaon - phase 2 DLF CityTry to do anything which you find even a bit attractive enough to “Engage you in it's web so that you come out of him”.Forget him completely if he is not up enough for the serious relationship. You can just love someone but can't force them to be on the same love boat with you.If your heart shows any weakness to take this step then go ahead for that last “HEART TO HEART CONVERSATION” with him. If he plays around that time too, remember what I mentioned on top about “MERCY ON YOURSELF”….I have gone through the extreme darkness of getting hurt by loving someone from all head till toe and trust me it's worst than the “HELL”.So, be a strong GIRL and be a “GONE GIRL” for him.Love is surely gonna embrace you, just be a good heart and a true soul.Keep all your trust in God and love. This might be painful but worth spending your life with.!!!
If a guy asks u how far would u go with a guy?
It's simple. Basically when a guy asks how far would you go with a guy, he's trying to get a feel of his boundaries with you. Say he asks you, and you say, well i've only kissed, that means that he's going to obviously go as far as you've gone, but also try to see if you'll go farther, like let him be the one you go farther with. If you say you've had sex, he's going to think that you might just have sex with him, and he's going to just make his moves on you to have sex, instead of taking his time and going slow and gently moving in on that level (sex) if you said you've only kissed. if that makes sense. so if he asks how many people you've had sex with, tell him the truth, but explain that the guys meant something to you and you didn't just give it up easily, and they respected you. that way he'll get the hint and take it easy and gentlement like with you, or he'll go away to another girl that is easy. which you want him to leave if he's that type, obviously. basically, if a guy asks you how far you would go with a guy, is asking how many guys you've had sex with/how far have you ever gone in general. and the only way to answer that is, "depends on how long i know the guy, how i feel towards him, if it's mutual, and if we're together or not" because if you say you'd make out and feel each other up, he could take it as you would let him without liking you, dating you, etc. hope that helps! [: don't be offended, unless he's trying to get some from you without dating you.. in all honesty, the thing i learned with guys throughout my dating experience is, if they ask this before you're dating, they're a player. if they ask this later on into dating, keep a guard up. because they usually only ask this if they want to know how easy you are and how hard they have to try to get some without dating you, and if they have to try too hard, they usually will still flirt with you, but have another girl on the side who they can really get it from until they get it from you. you know how they say, you want what you cant have? if the guy knows he cant have you, they'll try harder til they get what they want. that's why you know a true gentlemen from the one that is willing to try to be with you, without expecting sex or anything right away. feel free to message me if you need any help past what i said [: good luck!
Am I letting my boyfriend go to far?
guys will do and will say ANYTHING to get with you. so don't let him talk you into anything, or don't feel bad that you didn't. you shouldn't have let him go any further if you didn't want too. tell him tomorrow that you don't want to go any further until you're ready and if he doesn't respect that leave him.
How far should I let my boyfriend go?
We're both 17 and juniors. We have been dating for just about 4 months. We both love each other a lot, and I know he really cares about me because of the nice things he says and does. However, he's trying to push things farther and faster than I want to. He says that he doesn't want to have sex because he thinks that it is better to wait, and he loves me for me. I don't want to yet either. He is obsessed with boobs, and I do allow him to touch them. Sometimes I think he cares more about them than me though. He was trying to touch me "down there" and I told him no. Now he keeps asking if he can see "it" and/or if he can finger me. I'm not really comfortable with this because I don't think we should be taking things that far yet. How long should I make him wait? Just because a lot of teens are doing stuff like that and having sex less than a year into a relationship, I am not going to do it just to fit in. I want to make sure I can trust my boyfriend so I am not getting used and stuff like that.
How do I let go of someone I love?
Sometimes you have to let people go because that is only the right thing to do for betterment of you and the other person!!Whenever we are in a relationship, we are actually a very different person!! You started living life much more than usual!! And it becomes really difficult to move on when a relationship ends!! And suddenly when it ends , it literally feels like you are cut in half!!But you do have the power to make yourself whole again, it just takes some focus!!First thing keep in mind that change is a natural part of life!! You have to accept it!In Buddhism there is word called “Dukkha” which means “All humans suffering”. Most of suffering are there in people’s life is because they are afraid of change!! Although change is constant in our lives!! We have happy times, we have sad times, people die,Relationships begin and then they end! At the end we all die!To embrace happiness in your life, you have to embrace change in your life! And suddenly when you realize that change is constant in our lives, you stop controlling things which are happening, like you have a break-up and gotta accept that. So live in present and accept it.Just because it ended doesn't mean it was a failure or more importantly that you are a failure! The only time you fail in love is when you give up on finding love! Don’t allow yourself to be a become a failure at love because you are giving up.Realize that everything you have done in your life is just leading you up to where you are right now and they all were your incredible learning experiences.And now its time to let go of that past, take the learning from them and then move forward in the right path.IMPORTANT: Remove the reminders of that person from your life. Don’t see the pictures with his/her new gfs or bfs. Stop stalking them.You need to do you!! Realize that heart is incredibly resilient. You are who you choose to become!! You are strong, beautiful, powerful but you are only those thing if you believe it!!Close that chapter in your life and discover who you really are! You are single that is the best time to do that !! Go out have some fun!!, that is the best time to do that!
What does 'how far will you go with me ' mean?
If it's from a boy he's asking you how far you will let him go sexually.
I let him go. Will he return?
I’ve been having a long distance emotional affair with a nice young gentleman. I chased him for two years. The night I met him I was certain he was my soulmate. He called me his puzzle piece. Then I came on too strong and pushed him away. I ended up moving back to ny where I’m from and he stayed in Cali. Right before I left he got a gf. As soon as I moved he was constantly texting me all the time. Telling me how much he missses me, calling me late at night, telling me he wants to visit and even confessing he used to like me A LOT but pushed me away cuz he was embarrassed he didn’t have a job. He never ever talks about or posts any pics w his girlfriend. And he never says anything sexual to me, but we have a very deep emotional connection. I finally deleted and blocked him on Snapchat and fb cuz it hurt too much to keep him in my life, even though we talked every day and he was basically my best friend. My question is.. do you think he’ll come back? And realize he needs to commit?
Am i letting my boyfriend go too far or not far enough? guys, what do you want?
At 13 you really need to think of this. He is pressuring you for sex, he took off your clothes and told you to give up your virginity. Its been 3 months, i know what seems a long time at 13 but believe me waiting will pay off. If he ever says if you love my you'll lose your virginity to me reply with if you really loved me you'd wait. Its possible he may be the guy you lose your virginity to, but all i ask is you give it minimum a year, i just don't want you to get hurt, you two can build a good strong relationship in this time. It would be best to wait till 16+ but in the end it is your choice. Make sure and only when you are ready that you have condoms, don't leave him to it, no condom no sex keep that in your head. Also if you have condoms he can't use the i don't have one excuse. A final piece of advice, He hopefully will be good to you and turn out to be a perfect man, but if he ever ever wants or demands more than you are willing to give tell someone, don't be alone