Why would people hate you in high school?
People always hate the smart kid in the class.Background:I say “"people always hate the smart kid in the class” because I really was, and by a long margin. Now this is not me saying I'm really smart or anything, let me explain.So I moved to the USA when I was 8 and did not speak much English. I was out in classes with people who where REALLY far behind. And once I got the hang of English I stayed in those classes until 7th grade (not high school I know). I was always getting 100s and everyone hated me for that. People kept accusing me of cheat, including the teacher. It was just an overall bad experience.I'm glad to say that I'm in AP classes in high school now, and I get normal grades compared to the kids in my class.
What happens in high school?
I certainly do wish I could trade places with you, I'd love to do it one more time. You are about to enter the best years of your life, so sit back and enjoy the ride. And I do mean ride. You will have ups and downs, but for me there was a lot more good than bad. You'll be meeting a a bunch of new people, some you'll like, some not so much. Try to be friendly to everyone, but choose your new friends carefully. Be yourself, you want people to like you, not someone you're trying to be. Don't believe all the rumors and please don't repeat the ones you hear. They are usually started out of jealousy. Boys are just as shy and nervous as you are. Just try and be friendly, smile and say Hi, It may take a while, but you'll start feeling more comfortable around boys. Joining some of the clubs is a good way to meet new people. Get a friend to join with you. Yep, you're gonna be a lowly freshman, and you might have to take a little bull, just remember, everybody was a freshman once. If somebody starts giving you crap, go along with them, say something like, yea it's pretty tough being way down here, but I'm doin" my best to stay far enough away so it won't get on anybody. I heard it last a whole year. Sure hope I don't get it again next year. Be a little crazy and everybody'll like you. Have fun. High School only comes once in a lifetime. Go to the ball games and pep rallys, don't forget the proms and the school dances. Then when you get my age, all you'll remember will be the good times. Good Luck!!!!
I go to a school with a lot of guys, but almost all of them hate me. I can't understand why. How do I get them to want to like me?
Here's a short version. If they hate you for no apparent reason? It's not worth getting them to like you. And instead of just focusing on the male population, focus on everyone that goes to this school.Let's begin with you. How is your self esteem holding up? Is it great? Do you love yourself? That's where you need to start. Find things to love about yourself. Nurture and help those traits grow.Second. Move on to human interaction. Don't talk to people just for the sake of getting them to like you. Talk to them for the sake of talking to them. If you're an introvert, that's okay too; just try to avoid shying away from too many conversations. Human beings after all, are social animals. From this I want you to understand that focusing on just getting the boys to like you won't get you any where.Third. Here's a hint; getting boys to like you isn't about looks. There's no need to post a picture to show us how you look. Because personally it still always comes down to your personality. 100% of the time. Work on your inside more than you think you need to on your outside.So to sum it all up, love yourself, be yourself and develop your inner self. Eventually someone who likes you will turn up. Maybe he won't be upfront about it from the start, maybe he will. That will of course depend on the guy itself.Hope this helps!
Why do a lot of people hate on middle school?
Middle school is a complicated time for most. See, it is the transition from elementary school to high school. You are gifted a lot more freedom in middle school then what you previously had, but with that freedom comes many responsibilities and tasks that most students are not mature enough to handle. Most middle schoolers are still in their puberty faze, some of which who are just starting this. All of the newfound freedom combined with hormones creates an interesting experience. The ones that are successful are the ones that learn to deal with these changes; the ones who don't cannot.Now, in middle school there is much more added responsibility for the students. The teachers (especially once you get to 8th grade) want to treat you as a high schooler. This better prepares you for high school, but it is also a lot of work. This can really break some students who cannot adapt to the new lifestyle of school. School is much harder and you have to learn to deal with it. The teachers will be glad to help, but you have to make the effort.Also, in middle school you are given much more freedom. You get to travel between classes and you get to select some of the classes that you want to take. Students love having freedom, however they do not respect the responsibility for it and when they get in trouble they do not enjoy the consequences for their actions; a lot of whom do not even learn from said consequences. This new freedom can make for a shaky situation.So, the real reason that middle school is so hard for some (resulting in resentment) is that they can't deal with the more rigorous curriculum and they cannot handle increased freedom. They do not face the consequences for their actions. If you do not embrace your education, it will make for an unpleasant experience. This covers a lot of students; they just don't try. Trying will make it much more enjoyable. I love middle school as I was able to embrace my education and learn as much as possible. I suggest that you do the same.
Why did high school suck for you?
It’s a HierarchyI know I can’t speak for all high-schools everywhere but at my school it’s a freaking hierarchy.It’s divided into groups, or sects if you will.PopularKind of PopularNormalUnder the RadarOutcasts’The thing I hate about it is that most of the “Popular” ones treat everyone below them (or so they think are below them) like trash. So do the Kind of Popular ones and so on and so forth and this really ticks me off.I can only speak for myself so I’ll say what I am at my school.I’m (a):Geek: Tech Nerd, Loves Coding (Gonna study CS in College), Loves Reading, plays instruments and speak several languages (and counting).Physically Fit: Jock - High-School Athlete. I’m varsity, starting point guard (even though I shoot better than I dribble) at my school and I’m a sophomore. Go to the Gym religiously. More info of Physical Fitness here: Josue Quintero's answer to What physical exercise do you do?I don’t really know what else to put here, but I might edit this if I have anything else to say that I am. Oh yeah! Christian.So now that I’ve set the stage I’ll directly answer the Question.What do I hate about High School?(Hierarchy) People treat others as dirt, they discriminate and bully other kids and it’s completely normal to them. Nothing out of the ordinary, and I abhor it. I hate it when people judge others because of their Gender, Age, Race or Religious POV.In my highschool I try, I really, really try to help others when I can. When someone bullies someone I always get between them and stare the bully down. (I guess it helps that I’m a Jock). Most of the bullying at my highschool -it’s a science highschool- happens to Nerds/Geeks and I’m almost always the one saving my fellow Bookworms from savages. They’re like family, sort of, and I dislike it that others don’t treat them like family, or at least humans, too. Sadly I can’t be there to help all of them because my school’s huge.I remember when I was in middle school, I got to a point where I was pretty depressed because of personal stuff and my chubbiness. No one at school was there to help me and so when life got better for me I decided I was going to help others in any way I could.In Highschool it can sometimes turn from a hierarchy to a dictatorship and it’s our moral obligation to help those who feel like they’re alone.We can't repay our good luck with bad grace, it invites darkness. -RLGeek out.P.S: This is just the biggest thing that I hate about my high-school. Cafeteria Food isn’t tasty either.
Is it weird if a junior girl dates a freshman boy in high school?
I like this guy and he s a freshman. He s 15 and really sweet, but I m a junior and I m 17. I ve never dated anyone younger than me, I ve only dated older guys. And I m kinda afraid of what my friends would think. So would it be weird? Or am I just overthinking it?
Why do people at school hate me?
Ok where to start... I am a proper Aussie girl and i am nice to everyone, sometimes being too nice has got me in trouble (i have had a boy wanting to date me for over 2 years and now stalking me).. I am probably above average looking, everyone says i should do modelling and people always want to do photoshoots with me... At school i hang out with the aboriginal girls as the are so nice to me and include me in everything, they dont judge me and just accept me... I have a few white friends.. well only a handful id actually say friends my own age... I get along ALOT better with people older than me like 25+ i am 16 now... My boyfriend is also alot older than me and we have ben dating for over 2 years. (no one really knows though only a few people) I love animals, especially reptiles and birds.. The main age group i get along extremely well with is people aged 30+. I like school when i have a friend in a class i am in but i dont like when teachers treat me like a kid (i know technically i am but i do NOT act like one). I treat people how i want to be treated and in return everyone is an a$$hole back to me. I've heard people judging me about what i wear (sunnies, make-up (i dont really wear make up too often though), shoes, how i do my hair ect ect... I am fairly quiet in school and dont big note myself or attempt to be better than anyone else.. I dont understand why so many people hate me and make fun of me? I good at pretty much everything and probably have more than other people but i dont brag.. No one really knows so i dont know why people hate me :( Please answer, i will award 10 points to best answer!
Should high school boys wear bear paw girl boots?
I am 15 and i was wondering if i would be able to wear these amazing boots I know there for girls but they look so comfy there the meadow 12" in size 11.They look like they are for guys and they make the smaller version for guys but i want the higher ones. My friend and shes a girl was saying i looked good with her pair on so i was wondering if i would be able to get a pair. They look amazingly comfy and when i say wwear i mean wear everywhere school stores at home camping or at my gf's house anywhere.They look so amazing lol (FYI im not gay or by):) If yes then i have another ? is i know this is going to be big tho i just need a yes or no for this one should i wear socks or no socks and my feet dont sweat that much.