How I Become More Confidente In Talking

How do I become more confident while talking to my crush?

The common prevailing idea is that to get your “crush” to like you back or to move beyond just friends, you have to make sure to not get stuck in the so called “friend zone” The only problem with this is that it places this pressure on you that makes it seem like she is something more then another human being, looking for the same emotional connection you are. If you want to have more confidence, approach her as a friend. Get to know the person, and treat each conversation as a learning experience rather then some sort of race to impress her/make her like you.Of course, this does not mean that you shouldn't flirt and show interest, but it should not be the main part of your interactions. When you change your focus from, “I want to date her” to “I want to get to know her”, both the conversation and the compliments will be more genuine and free flowing.In terms of your own confidence, the best thing you can do for yourself is dress nice and write your goals down every morning. This may seem a little indirect, but having a purpose, believing in yourself and dressing to match your own expectations of yourself help to increase your confidence!Hope this helps and good luck!

How do I become more confident talking to men?

1.  Your first step is to practice starting conversations with strangers in social situations for example standing in line at Starbucks or shopping at your local supermarket.  The content doesn't have to be anything brilliant or witty, just start exercising your conversation muscle.2.  Whenever you enter a room, immediately look for 3 items or situations you observe so you can be prepared to talk about them. Then when the time is right, either start the conversation or be prepared to ask a question or comment on whatever it is you observed.3.  The best way to attract a man is ask  him a question about himself or something that you think he identifies with or is proud of.  Become sincerely interested in what he's saying, and the more you can get him to get excited about it and elaborate, the more he will think you're a brilliant conversationalist and a hot chick he'd like to know better.4.  Practice open body language and confident eye contact.  Use the triangle technique - look at the left eye, slowly move to the right eye, then slowly down to the lips - then repeat as often as necessary.  This can be very seductive and can instantly spark attraction.For more tips, check out my website - www.TheCompanionator.com

How can I become more confident when I talk to elders (teachers and whatnot)?

Sorry for letting you wait so long for my answer. You have been patient, yet I have been slacking off too much.Anyway, elders and teachers may look scary from their neutral face expressions, their disciplined nature, etc. Elders and teachers may have a cooler exterior than others, but on the inside, they are warm and willing to talk to anybody and offer advice. For teachers, they experience stress everyday, from working early in the morning to late at night, from correcting homework to tests, etc. For teachers, stress is a main part of their day and to deal with it, they go on with their lectures and try to answer questions as short, simple and understandable. Every once in a while, a teacher greatly appreciates some humor in a class to help brighten up their day. Teachers aren’t there to push you down and humiliate you when you ask a question, they are there to teach you the subject and help you understand them. If you don’t understand something, they will be more than willing to help you. Ask questions that involve real life scenarios (issues that people are currently working on), etc. Talking about those topics helps the teacher to open up about their opinions instead of making answers as short as possible.As for elders, they are like a wise owl with a tired, wrinkly face that makes them look really strict. Ask elders about their past experiences, their adulthood, their day, etc. Elders know more than you do, but that doesn’t mean that they know everything. As knowledgeable as they are, they do appreciate funny jokes every once in a while.Simply, teachers and elders have a cooler exterior than others either because of stress or everyday routine that they stick to for so long. Just like us, they are humans, except they have endured so much more than we have.I hope that helps. Goodluck and I wish the best for you.

How can I become more confident speaking on camera?

Practice, practice, practice.  Make sure you have good lighting (are not backlit by a window or colored by the light of your computer screen). Also, people are less forgiving about poor sound than poor video, so make 100% sure it sounds good.Sometimes it helps to get a photo of someone you feel comfortable talking to, paste near the camera and just talk to that photo. Otherwise, look into the camera and not down at the computer screen.There are a lot more things that can help. These are just some basics. Overall, practice and knowing you're technically prepared can breed confidence.

How do I become more confident when talking to new people?

By understanding that you won’t get along with everybody you are talking to.This kind of pressure often comes from the desire to please everybody, to make everybody laugh.Know that those new people won’t all become your best friends.Once you have that self-awareness, you can let go of the stress of meeting new people. Speak your mind, make the jokes that make you life, compliment people when you feel like to, and the one person that like you and later become one of your closest friends will make up for all the people that were not your fit.Being able to be oneself is acknowledging that people you meet need your you to discover if they like you or not.Another liabilities in people attitudes -and it was one of mine when I was meeting new people- is that we often speak too much or too fast.Listening is a key component of having confidence ( see that post of mine What are the strategies that could be used to build confidence in self and in others?).But there is more than just listening.Knowing… to make pauses… when you are speaking.The next time somebody ask you a question, count 3 seconds before answering back. At first, it will seem awkward but you will eventually like it. Basically, people will hang on to every word you will say because you don’t show them sign of neediness. You will impress them by that abilityIn a world where we are surrounded by noise and words, the one things that often sticks out is the ability to control one’s pace.By answering slowly, you will slow down your heartbeat and it will make you feel less nervous and therefore more confident in yourself.

How can I feel more confident talking dirty in bed?

When I have clients who want to get more comfortable in the bedroom, it often includes learning to use sounds and language. There are only three steps I suggest as most of it comes through practice.Start with something simple. Try making a ‘mmmmm’ sound whenever the partner does something that feels good.You may need to remind yourself when you fall silent.When we feel confident at that level, start with simple words, Oh God, uh-huh, yes, that’s good, softer, that feels great, f*ck, keep going, harder’ and so forth.Once you are ready for more adventurous pillow talk, try reading adult literature.**For some quick one liners the hentai mangas are goodFor something more descriptive, eliterotica.com - Erotic sex stories and fiction is good.Alternatively, describing the actions taking place can work.**Researching the right phrases sometimes takes a little time so expect to come across a range of adult literature topics. Anyone who gets offended easily may want to skip this step.From here, adult literature can help give costumes or role-playing ideas. To me dirty talk is about being sexy, not vulgar… unless both people want that. It is also subjective.A Good NoLetting our partner know what does not turn us on often goes hand in hand with dirty talk. We know our body better than they do and how do we improve without feedback and talking. Simple directions help such as not there, a little on the left, faster or less pressure and so forth.Important: Sex is not a tit for tat activity. We do not owe each other sex. While we may reciprocate, like doing mutual oral, partners should never use it as a punishment or leverage to force a situation. For example ‘I gave you oral, now give me anal sex.’Benefits of Dirty TalkThere are other benefits in learning pillow talk and listening to each other when it is done right. The below is just a few of these.It lets us know when we get something right as an action to rememberHearing a partner moan is often a turn on for the giving partnerGain more self confidence in:asking for what you need.Saying no when required (this is can be very hard to do).Having stronger and clearer boundaries.Increased body confidence.Increased awareness of self with better defined likes or dislikes.Increased and better communicate with a partner.Improved quality of sexAdds a more playful tone.