Is it ok to to hook up with your best friends ex boyfriends best friend??
There is this boy im friends with and he is really cute! he called me last night and wanted to hang out. i couldnt but my mom is going out of town next weekend so i invited him over to party with some friends. I know he wants to hook up, but theres more to it. he is my best friends ex boyfriends best friend. My best friend would freak out if she found out i even thought about hanging out with him. I want to hang out with him, but what should i tell my best friend?? or should i even tell her?
How can I get my ex boyfriend to become my friend?
Well he didn't reply bcoz he is upset with the decision , well when there is a mutual break up only then there are chances of being friends but when only one partner ask for the break up then that means only that partner is ready for the break up and the other is not , for you feelings are fading away and it's not ur fault only status of relationship depends on both gf and bf , I do not know what's exactly the reason behind ur break up but since you have taken that step and he didn't want things to end like this , he won't be able to become friend with you, and seriously how can it be possible to hide the feelings , you just can't hide ur true feelings , today someone is saying I love you , u r my life etc etc and next day how the same person can talk to you like an acquittance or a friend , people have gone mad in an attempt to forget their past but it's just not possible ,the only option is to fight and fight and fight with ur past every single day until you become strong enough to let go, if you don't wanna drift away or lose urself. True feelings just don't die even if you give it random names - friendship , relationship etc
Is it possible to become friends with an ex-boyfriend (5 yrs) who is a (diagnosed) narcissist? He gives me twisted signals, and I don't understand if I ever meant enough to him.
No it’s not possible to become friends with an ex who is a diagnosed narcissist.He’s just seeing if he’s still got what it took to hook you the first time - He’s playing with you…move along my friend - you deserve better!Now: the second part of your question: You don’t need to understand what you meant to him…because all you need to know is this - other people’s opinion of you doesn’t count - not at the top, and especially not if their only intention is to drag you down. It is unhealthy to use other people as a mirror of who you are, Value yourself and if you need to change something - like being more kind and generous towards other for an example - then do so - it could also be that you need to give less of yourself and save some of you for you too! And this comes back to ‘if I ever meant enough to him’ - why? why does it matter - check this out within yourself. You are not ever going to mean enough to a narcassist - it will never happen, but it’s not the end of the world - you may notice, clocks still tick and you still breath. It made no difference, but it seems to make a difference to you? You are good enough - you were good enough - you did mean enough - its just he didn’t receive it, accept it because it’s not how he functions. I feel it’s time for you to go have a few sessions in therapy, building your confidence back, finding who you really are. Go find a sport, craft, activity or interest which will build your happiness and confidence in who you are - because here’s the truth - many will agree with me - You Don’t Need Affirmation From Others To Be The Very Best Person On This Planet - Believe In Yourself And Just Be You and Be The Very Best You, That You Can Be! You get one life - and no one gets out alive! You got this, so go be you!
Is it possible to make a friendship with an ex-boyfriend?
YOU see, enjoyment and ethics are not always in the same line.Here rules says if there was a breakup, there may be more. If you have overcome the reason of breakup then that is a different platform altogether.IF It is simply A matter of being FRIENDS, then you may continue but what can you expect from a person who has already told you not to expect anything more.You are torn between enjoying life and heartbreaks, of if you can don’t be emotionally involved in the situation, which I think will be a difficult matter for you.
Was I wrong for breaking up with my ex boyfriend. My best friend said I over reacted?
I am 24 and my ex is 27 My ex is very pushy and down right rude. He I thinks my dad and Stepmom should let him move in because they are letting me live with me because of my eating disorder, my stepmom is trying to help with my bulimia they can't afford to send me to a hospital again for treatment, am going to counseling he is not allowed in parents home . Four years ago I raped, a year ago I did report it my called my stepmom made me report it me. I met my ex two months ago and I thoughtt that I was ready to get in a relationship with him, at first everything was going great than he became very controlling, he wanted to talk on the phone for hours he didn't even care if I was working, he was always showing at my job. he didn't want me have anything to do with my parents and some of things my ex said he wanted to do to me gave me flashbacks. One time he said that want to *** in my month and on my face and wanted me to lick his asshole. One time he told me it was my duty to please him. He told me that he wanted to put on a diaper and wanted me to hold him and feed with a bottle than rock him to sleep. Last Saturday I wanted to go bed because I was sleepy he got mad and said I ruined night because I didn't want to have phone sex with him he started yelling at me I yelled damn you I am not a mind reader and I said I don't want have any kind of sex with you because you scare and make me sick I am done with your demanding ***.
Wedding gift for ex boyfriend/ close friend!?
I think it would be inappropriate to buy a gift just for him. The new wife may not know that you are his ex-girlfriend but it still may make her feel uncomfortable. If she ever did find out that you are his ex that could create some tension in their marriage. It could also damage your friendship. If the new wife does not like you then it could make it difficult for you to continue your friendship, you do not want to put your friend in an akward position. Think how you would feel if you were her. If it were me and some woman I did not know bought my new husband an expensive gift, just for him, I would assume that she liked him more than she should. I think that the rule of thumb with wedding gifts is to buy something for both of them. Are they registered? If so I would suggest sticking to the registry. That is safe and I am sure that there will be some nice things that you can choose from. Are you going to the wedding? If so that makes it a little easier, you can give cash or a gift certificate. If he golfs you could get him a gift certificate to his favorite place, this way it is for him but he could bring her. It is less obvious that you are giving him the gift. Gift certificate to his favorite resturant or tickets to one of his favorite team sporting events are also good gifs for men that could be used for them both. If you gave him something like that and he decided to take one of his buddies that is not your fault. If you were not invited to the wedding that is a different thing completely. Then I would suggest maybe having something delivered to the house. Maybe a case of wine, a large fruit basket, Omaha steaks or again ordering from the registry and mailing it. This is your chance to make a very good first impression on the new wife. And I will say it again if she decides that she does not like you then your friendship is going to suffer. My best friends ex-wife hated me and it almost ruined the decades long friendship. We went months without speaking when he was married because of it, that was difficult because he is the god father to my children. Good luck and happy shopping.
Exiting the Friendzone (As an Ex-boyfriend)?
Okay So me and my girlfriend broke up, due to reasons she didn't want to tell me, but she still wanted to be friends afterwards which is the exact opposite of what I wanted to do. I only did it cause I thought it give me some kind of chance to get her back. So is there a way a friend-zoned Ex-boyfriend can go back to Boyfriend status? if so, how would I go about it?
My ex boyfriends friends want to hang out? I need a guys opinion! 10 points!?
I would hope that your ex would be mature enough to handle being around you. just because you are broken up does not mean you have to avoid eachother. you should be able to be civil to eachother and share friends. hang out in the same place. be nice to eachother. you shouldnt have to give up friends you made just because they are your boyfriends friends too. so what if he was friends with them first, he should be able to share. you should be able to be on good terms with your ex, even if things ended badly, we're all just human beings and we all deserve forgiveness and respect. if he doesnt want anything to do with you, that's his problem. if his friends want to hang out with you, and you want to hang out with them, then tough luck for him, he can just deal with it. he can either learn to grow up and act like a big boy and treat you nicely, or he can avoid you. his choice. its not your problem if he doesnt like it.