How long should I wait to text a girl after a date?
If it was a good date and you want to see the girl again, you don’t wait. As I wrote in If You Waited 3 Days to Call/Text, You Won't Be Getting a Response From Me:I misjudged you.I thought you were fascinating, cool, and confident. I thought you were authentic and sincere. I thought you had self-esteem and weren't obsessed with other people think about you.And, most likely, I thought you had social skills.But when you waited three days to text, you proved I was wrong.If you were fascinating, cool, and confident, you wouldn't be afraid to express basic thoughts and emotions, like, "I had SO much fun talking to you tonight! Let's get together ASAP!"If you were authentic and sincere, you wouldn't want to play some dumb "dating game" with me.(Or, maybe you are being authentic and sincere. Maybe the reason you waited is because you're not that interested in me. That's fine, too. But if that's the case, why bother messaging me at all? Fuck yes or Fuck no, right?)If you had self-esteem, you wouldn't have to be "strategic" about the timing and content of each communication. You'd believe that you were interesting enough to be able to attract women by being -- gasp! -- yourself.In other words, you're just... not someone I'd ever want to date. Read more >But, of course, you have to still do things like be in-tune and self-aware. As I wrote in The 6 BIGGEST Mistakes Men in Their 50s Make With Dating:Don't be a man-child. If you have a nice time on the date, tell her! When I go on a great date, the guy usually texts me before I even get home to let me know he had a wonderful time and can’t wait to see me again. If he doesn't -- if he waits a day or three days or whatever dumb “rule” he thinks he needs to follow… I don’t go out with him again. It means he’s obsessed with what others think of him — and, apparently, that he would rather I associate him with feelings of confusion and anxiety than excitement and joy.That said, don’t overdo it. After an amazing date, message her once. If she doesn’t write back, don’t keep messaging her. Either she’s not a texter, or she wasn’t feeling it. (You can still message her in a week or so to ask her out again, but if she says no and doesn’t suggest something else, let her go.) Read more >
How long do guys wait to text a girl?
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How long to wait to text a girl?
I met a girl at a dance and she is kinda popular. We talked a lot and and really got along. She put her number in my phone and but a heart next to her name. So I kinda think she likes me. How long should I wait to text her. As this is being posted it is 2-26-09. You might answer this the day after it was posted so please answer from the day you are reading this.
Do girls wait for guys to text first?
I was texting this girl this week. We texted like 3 out of 4 days. I was the one that texted first every time. Do girls usually wait for the guy to text first even if they like talking? I didn't text her today, so when should I text her again? We are in high school
Guys: How long do you wait to text a girl if you are interested?
I am interested in this guy and we do text each other but not often. I stop texting him so he would text me back and I could see if he was really interested. I am at one week and he has not texted me. Should I give him another week and then call it quits? Do guys take this long to realize 'hey, this girl does like me' or they were not interested in the first place?
Texts other girls in front of me?
When you say texts... If he texts them in a friendly way, you should NOT make a big deal. If anything, be happy he's not hiding it from you. If he's flirty with them, tell him you don't like it, but that you still want him around. But try not to sound pissed.
Ladies please, How long should a guy wait to text/call a girl after she gives you her number?
I say go with your instinct. This is early in the game where you two are getting to know each other. If she doesn't reply its probably not because of when you texted her but beacuse it was you who texted her. But i don't think you have to worry about it since within two e-mails you have aleady secured the digits and and date. Don't feel bad about texting her with the same. Now I'm not saying text a girl as soon as she give you her number. The 3 day rule is something stupid. everyone is different. you just have to go with the flow. take you time allow her to take her time and just go with it. See I say this like i'm a pro but if i was in your situation I'd be panicking to. Good luck man. be confident. and if things don't work out with this one. remember there are plenty of fish in the sea.