GIRLS: Do you usually let guys pay for dates?
The "guy always pays for everything" way goes back to when women were property, and lived in their father, uncle, or brother's home until they married, and tended to work in the family business or in the home, caring for their younger siblings, nieces & nephews, etc. Women didn't have equal access to education or the workplace, or to financial transactions, accounts. etc. That's all changed. Women have their own money now. I do think there's a point to the rule many people use to settle this: when a person invites you to do something, the default understanding is that the person inviting does the paying. More more frequently ask for dates than women, so under that rule men are still going to be paying more often. But I don't see anything wrong with a man calling a woman and asking her out, and at the same time asking if she wants to go "dutch" or telling her the relevant information, such as, "Tickets to the show are $60. Do you want to go?" Women who don't want to drain him financially can always offer to cook him a meal at her place or buy some food or make some food for a picnic.
Do girls care if guys have cars?
Im almost 18, and wanted to know if this is important.My friends and i were talking about this today but couldn't come up with a good answer. So my question is 'Would a girl tend to go out with someone that has a car?' I know a lot of the answers are going to be things such as 'If she truly loves you, then sheshouldn'tt care'etct. However the same could be said for money, "would a girl tend to choose a guy with money?" Thanks for your answers in advance :)
What makes a guy fall in love with a girl??
I like this question! In order to want you, amongst other things he has to not already have you. Every guy has different taste in girls, and some guys are attracted to somethings other guys just downright don't like. A lot of girls fall for the bad boys by trying to answer this exact question. So, avoid that roller coaster ride if you can. The number one thing you can do is draw out the time it takes for you to submit. Every single guy likes a challenge, and at the very least likes to win. That's what testosterone does. So if a girl is easy, there is no competition and it is an easy win, not worthy of much remembrance. However if you flirt and make him doubt whether or not you think he is good enough for you, he will see that as a threat to his masculinity...and try harder to convince you he is "worthy" of your companionship. You've got to make him work for your heart, don't just lob it to him when he walks through the door. Also, much like girls, guys like to get complements too, which is easy because all you have to do is say things that make him feel more manly. In short... make him feel great when he's around you, and miserable when he is not. Equating you with happiness is pretty much the same as falling in love.
Do guys care how many friends a girl has?
Some guys do, some guys don't.. things like this purely depend on the individual. Some guys like girls that are pure and virginal, others like girls that have some experience, not many guys (but some do) like girls that have HEAPS of experience. I suppose it really depends on how much confidence the male has.
Why do girls not like nice guys?
To be brutally honest, nice guys are bloody boring.Seriously, stop giving me that look and close your eyes. Think about that random nice guy you've met in your life. At first, you think he's perfect. He seems really interested in whatever you say, nods his head to everything without making any counter arguments and just makes sure that he doesn't say anything, that might make the situation awkward. He stays in his nice zone. Irony is, he ain't real. It's just a mask. Deep down, he's someone you might not know and you never will.Now, think about a not so nice guy. Somebody who has his own opinions and doesn't nod his head to everything. Somebody who pitches in his views no matter how people react to it. Somebody who isn't afraid to be himself, anywhere, anytime. Somebody who is imperfect, but doesn't give a flying monkey about it.So you tell me dear reader, whom would you rather date ?Why are you still staring at me ? Oh, so you're that real nice guy huh ?Well, genuine nice guys do exist and they're simply shit scared to ask a girl out. That's why girl's don't fall for them, because they never know about their existence. There's nothing much one can do about it,but pity them for forgetting about their balls.Oh damn, I'm talking to myself again. Fast, somebody get me those pills.Hi ! Hope we meet again under my next post. Until then..Sayonara!
Do women really care about how much money a guy makes or are they looking for stability?
Yes, but not in ways you would expect all the time.When I was very young, I used to think it's BS that women look for rich guys till I spoke to a girl who said to me, "I didn't think ____ was attractive till I saw what car he drove. All of a sudden he looked sooo good to me." I almost started laughing like it was supposed to be shared absurd joke, but then I realized she was serious. And she was speaking to me like I would understand. Because the percentage of other women who 'understand' is so high, as I've learned over the years. Since then I've seen women who:Marry exclusively for money while being rather honest that they don't particularly care for the guy (sometimes, even to the guy himself).Marry for money, while outright not liking the guy and being miserable in every aspect but living standards.Pick out the richer guys of the lot when looking for men to date.Operate exclusively on the 'Someone's got to be with the rich guy, why not me' principle.Marry men they love, but wish (just a little) that they made more money.Marry for love, but end up outright resentful that he doesn't make as much money as other men they may know (regardless of what they themselves bring in).So in short, women care. Apparently, they care a lot.This is not to say that it doesn't vary from woman to woman. I know plenty of women who are also happy to be with the men they love through the ups and downs. When I got married, my husband had a very low paying job as a corporal in the USMC, and had no savings. I paid for the entire wedding, our first car and apartment. But yet, I knew his poverty was more age related than ability related. He was 21- a very intelligent, ambitious, hard working and focused one. So I can't say with absolute surety that I would have picked him had he not had those traits. Sometimes it's not directly about being rich. It's about having the qualities that will make you rich.Over the years, we have gone from me being the primary earner to him taking that responsibility on. He went on to become a trader, set up his own firm, nearly sank in the crash of 2008, lost his company for other reasons, and is now rebuilding again. He wasn't rich for the whole ride. But he was all those other things consistently. Women care sometimes because they want smooth sailing. Plenty of other times they care because the traits that make you successful (and often rich) are very desirable traits.