How Meany Fingers Should I Finger With

How many fingers should I use when fingering my wife?

That will certainly depend upon what your wife likes. It is not uncommon for women to enjoy the sensation of an expansive pressure within their vagina. As with any form of penetration, proceed slowly. Not only for her physical comfort but also for her ability to trust that you are being careful not to hurt her.Womens vaginas have the pliability to expand to around a 4″ diameter for child bearing. Of course this level is typically extremely painful. A finger on the on the other hand is typically less than 1″ diameter.If you have 1 finger inserted, her vagina will relax around that fairly easily. After she has relaxed and is comfortable with 1 finger, she might be open to you slowly inserting a second finger.2 fingers is a pretty filling sensation for many women. Allow her to relax around these 2 fingers for several minutes before trying more. For a pretty big majority of women, 2 is enough. Especially if you are also stimulating her clitoris. Having two forms of simultaneous stimulation is usually enough to cause orgasm for most women.Some women do like more. I see women that can easily and eagerly accept 3, 4 and 5 fingers and more. But these women have alway had much and regular practice with vaginal expansion play. Please do not attempt to insert more than 2 fingers unless she has indicated that she is ready to accept more.All of what I said is even more true for anal play. One finger is a lot when it comes to the anus. And her anus takes a lot longer to relax even for that. Proceed extra slow there.Above all, Communicate! Ask her. Check in with her. Make sure it is ok for her to speak freely. It is not hard to cause pain or discomfort inserting fingers during sexual play. If we are communicating, trust can build and relaxation happens more naturally. This greatly increases the possibility it will be pleasurable for her.