Is it the home or the school that contribute more to the moral laxity of student?
Schools say that morals aren't their job. So they don't teach any--which in turn teaches kids that morals don't matter. Or schools try to back up everyone's moral values, teaching that "everything is okay"--which again teaches kids that morals don't matter. But more than what is intentionally taught, is what schools unintentionally teach. Teachers who ignore bullies and bad behavior because they have too much other stuff to deal with or have been pressured to ignore it by administrators who don't want such problems showing up in published reports teach children that strength and pushiness matter more than doing the right thing. Overworked teachers who tell students not to "tattle" then wonder why older students don't want to report when a friend plans to do something illegal such as shoot up a school. On the other hand, parents who leave kids to mostly to be raised by others who don't really feel they have the authority to teach morals--putting them in daycare at a very young age, then preschool, then leave them in aftercare after school hours or put them in camps during school holidays--tend to raise children without morals. And some parents teach horrible morals because the parents themselves are breaking the law and see nothing wrong with it. Who contributes more? Depends on how you look at it. My first inclination is to say the parents, since they are with the children consistently until adulthood (hopefully), but so many children are much more influenced by school, having it undermine anything the parents try to teach.
How do I make my elder brother contribute money at home?
I have a job and I give some money every month at home but my brother doesnt give any money for anything & keeps saying he doesnt have any money. He has his own business which is going okay he isn't going through loss and earns decent he probably earns more than what I do. I dont believe him when he says he doesn't have any money. he is obviously lieing. For all his needs I have been spending my savings from past 4 years. He owns me more than 7 lakhs. I don't want him to repay me everything but I want him to be more responsible. Everytime I try to talk to him he gets angry and answers in comete no for everything. How do I make him contribute some money at home monthly?Sorry I have to pare the details here as I couldn't find any option to add a comment anonymously
How can I contribute in the development of my home state Bihar by living outside Bihar?
If you really want to contribute for development of Bihar. You can do the following things.InvestmentInvestment is the best thing you can do to improve the condition of unemployment.Open good school in rural area.Educate the masses especially women. Some community are extremely poor and illiterate they often cheat by Bank employe and also by other Gov official. Presently Bihar gov providing pretty much all thing for encouraging student in rural area like giving Bicycle, Scholarship. But its quality is not upto the mark. You can built new school and provide subsidy for bright student.Form a positive image of Bihar in Delhi.Tell your colleague to travel to Bihar. Convince that Bihar isn't as our intellectual “Indian Media”portray. You can even organise Bihari community living in Delhi and ask them for opinion. There are lot of Bihari community living in Delhi, working in all field ranging from Labour to Politican, Bureaucrat, Policeman (my father is inspector). They will surely help you.
Should husbands of stay at home moms contribute to housework?
I work 40+ hours a week, wife is a SAHM. I completely understand and appreciate that her job as a full time mother is a full time job, its one that doesn't end once she walks out of the work place, its a job that she doesn't get paid for and doesn't really get thanked for. She just gets on with it and doesn't complain. Now even though i'm at work 40+ hours a week I still create some mess- for instance on my two days off or when I'm at home before I leave for work or when I get home I create dishes, my clothes create laundry, I might get crumbs on the rug, I might mess the bath up with my hairs etc. There are four of us in the house and I contribute 25% of that mess, 50% of it is from OUR children... so not just HER children but OUR children that we made together so of course I should help her clear up after them. She'd never ever expect me to get on with housework when i've got in after a long shift but on my days off or before I leave for work yes, I do help out and i'm more than willing to do that. I will put a laundry load on, wash up, take the bin out etc if she's busy having a bath, getting the kids ready or whatever. We work as a team because we are a partnership. Ok so I earn cash and work hard for it, she works hard raising our kids and making sure they're healthy and grow up in a loving and CLEAN environment. I think so many people just think being a stay at home parent is not a job and that they don't need a break because its so easy.. Its not and if you tried it yourself you'd see that. We don't have assigned jobs or anything, its just sort of do it as we see fit at the time. The only job I consistently do is taking the bin out, I think most men get that job because its the yucky job. Cooking wise we take that in turns and whoever doesn't cook does the washing up. I'd actually feel like an absolute twirt if I didn't contribute towards the household in any way. It isn't fair that I work 5 days a week and my job ends at work's door and yet my wife has to work 7 days a week 15 hours a day, is it? At least I don' t think so anyway.
My husband doesn't value me or what I contribute to our marriage. How can I make him understand I am just as important?
My husband and I have been married for 13 years with one beautiful child. Our relationship has always been a roller coaster but we have always stayed somewhat in love . I work full time and do all of the home duties . HE also works full time. I don't bring in as much as him but I am not far off. He says that my mickey mouse job isnt good enough and that I dont bring enough to the table. But I do EVERYTHING! I take care of him and my son and the house. I pay all the bills (with our money) I manage our home. He says he isnt lucky to have me. and is always saying he is done when we have an arguement.HELP!
How did Dallas's location contribute to its rapid growth?
Dallas isn't part of the coastal plains. People were sick of living up north and dealing with the snow, the higher home prices and state income tax which Texas doesn't have. Surprising enough the idiotic TV show Dallas brought a lot of people here in the late 70's early 80's. Due to favorable tax laws, anti union legislation and lax environmental laws many corporations moved their headquaters to Dallas so they wouldn't pay as many taxes, we have very few labor unions and our lawmakers don't care how much the state is polluted.