How should i apologize to my sister?
If your sister is gracious enough to be forgiving, what are you worried about? You seem more upset that she will accept a decent apology. Why is that? You need to give that some private thought because the underlying issue(s) may affect other relationships and certainly affects how you see your world. You owe her an apology but who said that you can't just give her a card which essentially says "I acted like a jerk and you didn't deserve that because you are a good person" or something on that order. You might find one or a blank card (good picture or cartoon required) on which you can print your own message. You don't need to explain that you took your personal issues out on her if you don't want to do so. But even though you can act as if nothing happened, you need to be big enough to admit to both her and yourself that your actions were inappropriate. The good thing about some families is that they can be pretty accepting of this kind of behavior but in order to restore the former comfortable affection and also in order to move forward as a person, you need to find a way to apologize sincerely even if you do it in a humorous way. You know what to do. You were wrong and you hurt your sister's feelings. So it is time to help both of you move on. Hold out the olive branch.
My Sister won't give me an apology!?
My sister lives in Alaska, we live in NM. My husband and I saved up money to visit them in Alaska, so after we had been there for a few days my niece (1 yr. old) has trouble going to sleep one night, all the while she's teething and just not feeling well, this same situation happened the night before, my sister and brother-in-law were yelling at each other, and slamming things such as the microwave door (to warm up her bottle). the whole next day was awful they both complained all day about how little sleep they had, and how miserable they were. so when this happened again I asked my sister and brother-in-law if i could watch her so they could get some sleep (I didn't want to hear all the complaining AGAIN) my sister yells at me telling to get out of her room and that it's her daughter and she can do it by her self! I was completely shocked. so the next day I was naturally stand offish, but not mad. after my sister ignoring me and treating me like i was some kid she thought she could punish with the silent treatment, my husband and i went and spent the day on our own and had dinner by our selves. we get back to my sister's and her daughter's are suddenly not talking to us or wanting to play with my daughter. my sister later then lashes out and asked me what my problem was, once this happened my daughter started to say something (5 yr. old) she wanted to know why her aunt was yelling " she then tells my daughter to SHUT UP and stay out of it" I told her "all i wanted to do was help her out with her daughter so she could get enough rest for work and so I wouldn't have to hear her complaining about how miserable she is". suddenly I had no right to ask her if i could watch her daughter so she could rest! so we left the next day back home and she wouldn't even acknowledge us. all i heard when we left and shut the door behind us was "Whatever"! I feel i don't need to apologize, i feel she needs to. so does anyone have any thoughts on this matter? Please give me advice, i called last week to wish my niece a happy birthday, she didn't answer and didn't call back, it's beyond hurtful now!
I'm a terrible sister. How should I apologize?
OK, first, try to calm down and take a breath. I know that it can be hard when there's somebody you think is better than you, and that makes you want to hurt them. But honestly, it isn't helping to idolize her like this! I have a younger sister and we're constantly comparing ourselves, and because we're only one grade apart and in high school we really get a taste for each other's social lives. But whenever we argue about things like who's prettier or skinnier, it leaves us both feeling terrible and sorry. Here's how I apologize to my sister and it might work for you - I'd tell her what a beautiful person she is, and that she'll always be beautiful, skinny, smart and funny no matter what; and that even though sometimes I act like she isn't, she really is gorgeous and always will be. I'd say that even though we argue I'll always love her and admire her, and that I'd never want her to make her feel bad about herself. I've felt like we were never going to talk to each other again but after a few days things are always back to normal. Also, unless you're really short, 85 lbs seems dangerously skinny. Losing weight won't make you prettier, but being happy with yourself will. I know some beautiful girls who always are trying to lose weight and that makes them seem desperate. I also know some girls who maybe aren't 10s, but because they are happy with themselves and fun to be around they're beautiful. If you or your sister has an eating problem it might be good to talk to a school counselor when school starts or talk to your parents now. I really hope this helped. Trust me - you're sister isn't "broke," she's just upset and you guys will make up soon enough.
How do I apologize to my sister for yelling at her without making it awkward?
Keep it simple. Ask to speak with her alone and apologize. Just say, I’m sorry that I yelled at you and I will not do it again. (And mean it! )Also realize siblings are perhaps, the “dirtiest” fighters as they know all the “soft” spots to inflict torture and most often, go overboard. Try to refrain.What one thinks is right is not always the same as what others think is right; no one can be always right.
I have hurt my sister immensely. How can I go about apologizing to her and having a closer relationship with her?
Thank you for such a sincere question. And, it’s a good thing that you are grieved.The more personal the interaction, the better. If you can meet with her in person, do so. Confess what you have done (use some real examples), and tell her how you believe it has hurt her. Then ask her to forgive you.She may not push further and accept your apology. She might also unleash some real feelings of hurt—that’s good, although it may grieve you further. It’s important for you to acknowledge whatever hurt she wants to express. Simply agree. And, while it’s unlikely to happen, there is the possibility that she will not respond immediately. That’s unusual, but fair to mention.Of course, its important, if she does bring up any other issues, that you not become defensive. I can tell by your sincere desires that you are unlikely to do that.As the Bible teaches, “Love covers a multitude of sins.” Not only are you on the road to bringing peace to the relationship, you are likely to experience a richer and deeper relationship than you thought possible.If there are hurts that have caused a loss to her in money or property, offer to make restitution. If you have harmed her reputation in front of others, offer to make any public apologies necessary.If for some reason she does not react as you are hoping, rest in this—you have done all you can do. There is nothing more that you can do than humble yourself and ask forgiveness. The world would be a better place if we all followed your example.