How to apologize to ex-best friend?
How do I apologize to my ex-best friend? This would be the second time over the 3 years we stopped being friends. Mostly because Im a jerk. Before it was because I always made a big deal of everything. This time it was because I brought her into the middle of a lie, I lied to my other friend about telling her secret and I needed my ex-bestfriend to help me out. And also because I ditched her to hangout with other people and one of those people included my crush.And I just stopped talking to her. I know best friends come before guys, but I got carried away at the time. I should've known better but I was over whelmed and I thought he liked me but apparently he didnt. So I lost my best friend over a stupid guy. I just really want her back but she's a pretty tough girl and I don't know what to say to make her forgive me, please help?!?! What should I do?
How do I apologize to my friend?
Trust takes years to build, but seconds to destroy. Sounds cliche and even corny to an extent, right? But it’s so, so true.The best apology is changed behavior. Never do anything like this again. In the mean time, show him you’re sorry by doing nice things for him. This can be paying for his meal at his favorite food place, to washing his car, the list goes on. Be thoughtful: what does he like? Get a feel for it and do something related to it.Everyone is different, but I think a real friend will forgive you. Try and show some respect and consideration to his needs. How would you feel if someone violated your boundaries by doing something like that? It’ll take some time, but I think he’ll come around. If not, that’s a natural consequence to your actions and something you’ll have to accept responsibility for. Don’t beat yourself up, and accept there’ll be other friends, hopefully ones which you do not do something like this with again.
My best friend is hurt because of me. How can I apologize to him?
Just tell them you’re sorry!You can say something like, I’m sorry for being such a difficult person to love.In my experience, it is the actions that follow an apology that are a much better indicator of the sincerity of the apology, than the words used to apologize.Just be honest with your feelings, you got this! Don’t expect forgiveness, but cherish it when it is given.Best of luck…
How do I apologize to my ex best friend?
My friend and I hit a tough patch. Our friendship is different in that we take regular "breaks", similar to the ones a boyfriend and girlfriend might take, when things are getting too much for one of us too bear. I'm older than her by one year, one month, and 11 days. So she's more easily influenced. If we get into a fight and she calls the "break", we might not talk for just a week or less. But if I call the "break", it could last up to four months. Usually, the longer the "break" the tighter our friendship becomes. Well the time before last, we didn't talk for around two months. But when we did start talking again, something had changed. There was no more spark or interest in the friendship. It used to be that we couldn't go more than twenty minutes without contacting each other, but this last time... I was talking to her like twice a week MAYBE. So I do my one weekly call one day, and she's at her friends house (as usual). For whatever reason, her friend HATES me (I've never even met her.) Anyhow, in the middle of this phone call, this friend of hers told me that my own friend didn't want to talk to me, called me a b****, then hung up the phone for my friend. My friend didn't call back and apologize or anything. Two days later, I call my friend back, and she was by herself. Well a fight starts, which is normal. Only that she didn't fight back, So it was basically just me yelling at her and her saying "yeah" and "ok". Even our fights lacked suspension and passion. I was hurt. I was mad, but I was hurt. So I told her I never wanted to be her friend again. I completely cussed her out, then ended it like that. I don't want to be her friend again, but it pisses me off that she's acting like she doesn't miss me when I miss her SOO much. I tried calling and contacting her... no luck. She lives 45 minutes away from me, so I cant just visit her. I don't want to be her friend again, but I just wanted to apologize for hurting her. What do I do???
How can I cutely apologize to my best friend?
I know it feels really bad after breaking precious friendship. After even saying sorry it is really difficult to get back into the previous friendship where two person trusted each other. I once had fight with my best friend. I wanted to get back into the time so that all that matter could not happen. These were my feelings. It was not that stuff that could be rebuilt after saying 'sorry'. So, being a girl, I made a card of 4 pages on my own and wrote a poem( on the second page),pasted our cutest pictures (of singing together, eating ice cream, in quilt) on third page.Wrote a big 'sorry' on the first page with cartoons. And gave it to her. She was happy to see this. We both were children at that time so this was the best I could do to make her happy.But if this is not enough, then you could hug him/her after giving the card.And tell her the situation which obsessed you to do that.Also, you can give her a gift which is cute and helpful. ( After all , everyone like presents).She is indeed my best friend who understood me and gave me a chance.Time cures every sorrow and today we both are best friends again.
How can you make your best friend apologize to you?
Shouldn't best friends be willing to forgive each other already regardless who's fault or whatever it is? I mean if you guys are BFF then is apologizing that important anymore. I think so long you realize the mistakes and just move the on. But if you feel its not fair or apologizing is so important then just give her time and eventually she'll say sorry when she is ready and most importantly when she feels it's her fault. If she doesnt then you should sit her down and have a serious gal one on one talk. Prove your point, Let her know it's really bothering you how she never apologize when you guys fight and the only way this friendship can go strong is for her to accept her wrong and apologize at least. Now is time to let your pride and stubborness go. Goodluck!!!
How do I apologize to my stubborn best friend?
Oh, the ever troubling ‘best friend’ friendship. Sorry, but I have answered so many questions revolving around ‘best friend’ and have learned that the term best friend has such different meanings for people.If you consider this person your best friend, and she feels the same, then I would actually be shocked that you do not know who her boyfriend is. In fact, I am surprised that you were not aware each step of the way to someone becoming her boyfriend. Your best friend is who you tell your feelings and you ask what they think and does he like me. Even if the boyfriend is not at your school or place of work, a best friend would usually talk about her boyfriend.Although privacy is important in any kind of friendship, again, best friends usually are not concerned about privacy. If she is this concerned about how he will impress you, then I wonder what it is that she is nervous about, don’t you?Of course, if she feels hurt or that her privacy has been interrupted by you, then to keep the friendship whole, you could apologize. I would tell her that as her best friend, you couldn’t help but want to know about her boyfriend. You might also apologize for ‘stalking’, but if it was this easy to find out his name, then it couldn’t have been a huge secret.I would not beg forgiveness, because as a best friend, I think your questions to her were fine. She did not feel comfortable about you knowing who he was, and that could be something you could have respected, but on the other hand, best friends usually do not hide this information. I would hope that you would not tease her or show disrespect for her boyfriend. If that could be the case, then it make more sense. Respect the relationship, and if you fear it could be harmful for her, then you can talk with her about it.
Should I apologize to my best friend on her birthday?
I’ve lost so many of my best friends and all I do is keep forgiving for what they did. It was wrong and this girl I’ve been best friends since pre k keeps using me now. Me and her are just friends. We got into so many fights over the summer and I didn’t care we were taking a break. Until school started again and she acted different not really talking to me or hanging out with me. She was trying to fit in. I told her I wanted a break because maybe it would make things right. All the fights I wasn’t the one who decided the breaks. Then I keep begging can it be done. She said not yet. Until one day I was there for her and it showed what kind of friend I am to her. Once you and your best friend get into a fight it won’t be the same. You have to think this over do you really want to be friends after something like this happened. It depends on what happened between you and your best friend. I know two people who keep forgiving eachother after everything. I’ve heard both sides for every fight. All she did was kept forgiving her and she was like it won’t happen again and it kept happening over and over. Even if you make a promise after all these fights it won’t ever be the same. I know a lot about friendships. If you need anymore advice I’m here for you.
How do you apologize to your best friend after a fight?
Admit that you were being a jerk, and say it was your fault. If it was more than a week, it might be too late.