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Should I approach this girl?

What are our options?Wait. I will flip a coin. Thrice. If heads comes up more than tails you do approach her, if it doesn't, well bad luck bro.---- 10 seconds later. -----Well. it was a T T T. Bad luck mate. Maybe you can try to approach her friend. Befriend her friend. Ask her out. Have a month long relationship with her, meanwhile befriending the first one. Then cheat on your girlfriend of a few months, with her friend whom you actually wanted to see in the first place, by confessing the same to her. 2 days later, find out that it did not mean much to her. Then post a question on  Quora, about women in general and go on with your life.-------Else, you can chose not to flip a coin or let anyone else do that for you, and go with whatever your heart says and make this relationship end up into a marriage or if not that, then into another question on Quora. Good Luck.EDIT: (The question details were added later, so ...)Well, hailing from India, be very careful about not ending up looking like a "eve-teaser". Do not stalk her, or confront her again and again. If you think she has been looking at you, then go and ask her out again, just once. If she replies in negative, don't bother with her anymore. Even if you think she is playing hard to get, still do not approach her again regarding the same, ever. You might not know how easy it is to file an FIR for eve teasing. And in India approaching a girl, does make you eligible for that. But don't worry about that too much. Just look your best. Have some good jokes up your sleeve. And go ahead and ask her out.

How should I approach this girl?

I go to an all boys school. On facebook, there is this girl that everyone seems to have become friends with. She is very attractive and goes to our sister school. I'd love to meet this girl but she has no idea who I am. Since it is summer and there are no dances where I can meet her, is there any way I can possibly talk to her online and hopefully get to meet her sometime soon without her thinking I'm a stalkish creep?

How should I approach her ?

If you are in a same college, you might get a chance to talk to her while she is standing at bus stop, waiting for the bus you both usually catch.You can start a conversation with ‘What's the time? On her respond you can say ‘Thanks I actually forgot my watch and ma phone is dead?’Complainging about the battery draining problem can get her talking like“yeah, same here , I have to charge my phone twice a day” or“Not in case of me, xyz phones have good battery back up’ orShe would just acknowledge with a node or a smile.If she opts for 3rd option, that means she doesn't wanna talk.In case you guys are talking till the bus arrives, you let her board it first with a cute “after you, mam” attitude. Girls adore that. One important thing, just because she engaged herself in a small talk with you, does not mean you should go and sit next to her. If she is interested to talk she would offer you the seat.

How should i approach this...?

Just start talking to him and take whatever feedback or answers he gives as good enough for now.

Sample:

You: Have you seen Pirates 2 yet?

Him: -ummm- heh, yeah.

You: I just loved the (talk about the movie for a few moments, asking him 'yes/no' or 'short answer' questions periodicially. Keep it short and happy)

You: Ooops, gotta go. Bye!

Basically- teach him how to respond to you and other girls by giving him a safe place to be. let him just listen and make minimal contributions at first. Don't ask for big opinions or look for deep sharing or opening his soul... just let him grunt and treat the noises like interesting tidbits.

Example-
You: (asking some question)
Him: uh... grunt?
You: Yeah, I can see that. Interesting... how about (fill in the blank)?

Give him a chance to get over the fact that someone is talking to him (especially a GIRL), AND seems to be listening to him. Take it slow. Offer him some gum or something to get him to say 'thanks', etc.

Once you get the hang of this, you ought to be able to gage where to go next- touching his arm or asking him to join you for something safe or whatever.

OH- ALSO see if you can communicate any better electronically. Don't work this too hard, but maybe the guy is better at the keyboard than verbally?

How should i approach a girl i have a crush?

Yea, I used to be really shy too. Mostly we are shy because we don't want to be embarrassed if she says no. Maybe she will say no, laugh at us, point her fingers and then all her girlfriends will laugh at us, then the whole school finds out, etc. Well, get over all that. You have to have a different attitude. Like, you are worthy of her, and if she says no then her lost, not yours. Really, don't walk up to her all intimidated like, become confident. It will help if she is alone when you ask, at least till you get more confident. But walk up to her, don't slouch, and just simply ask her to go somewhere with you. Practice this in your room at night. What's the worst that can happen, she says no. Big deal, move on and get a crush on another girl. I mean, if she is really disgusting she could laugh at you, I don't recall that actually ever happening, but I suppose if she did, you could say something like, "Thanks. I'm glad I found out you're such a b!t&h. I used to think you were nice but now I know better." And turn around and walk off.

How should I approach this guy I like?

There are three types of guys you'll deal with. Guys that are already confident approaching you and might be the ones you call "players". Other guys that approach you might have no game in knowing how to move the interaction forward into getting your number or planning a date. Often these guys are just straight up nervous around you no matter what level of interest you show him. Then there are the large majority of men who know how to progress the interaction forward, but just need that extra little push and reassurance from you in order to close the deal by you making it easy for them to progress something forward with you. Learn "how to approach a man" in this detailed video.Practical Tip: In your day to day situations around men don't look for the PERFECT things to say, rather just aim to say the most OBVIOUS thing. You absolutely can approach men within the context of you just opening that line of communication with him and not necessarily asking him or approaching him how a man would normally approach a woman.For example, you see him at a bar watching the game and just casually asking the score of the game. Or perhaps, he's in front of you in the line at Starbucks and you ask him "Is it too hot outside for hot coffee" or "is it too cold outside for iced coffee" depending on time of year. Another example, you might be in a lounge bar and you're next to a guy and you're about to order drinks and you ask him what he's drinking cause it looks good. As you can see all of these conversation starters are casual and you don't come off as super direct.In each case you said something and gave him a window of opportunity to do something with that initial conversation. Most guys are far too nervous to approach you and if you're willing to take that tiny step forward you'll be surprised by how many guys relish the opportunity to take the interaction further.The video goes into even greater detail on how to not only approach a guy you want, but also close the deal by casually giving him your number or exchanging numbers with him. Much love from me to you

How should i approach this girl after class?

I think that the best thing you can do is be relaxed when you go and talk to her. It would be best to take things slow; I know it stinks, but I think that you should do so if you want to make sure that you don't scare her away. Maybe you could ask her what homework you guys have for that class (like when's something is due), or if you could borrow her notes to catch up on something. Or, if you want to take things a little faster, maybe you could ask her if she wants to hang out with you and your friends sometime (like maybe catch a movie or go to a party or something; the only problem with this is that I don't know if she would think your coming on her too strong).
I think I would just take it slow, become friends with her first, then try to get her number.
Hope I helped....good luck!!!

How should i approach this problem??

Two rockets are launched at a fireworks performance. Rocket A is launched w/ an initial velocity and rocket B is launched 4s. later w/ the same initial velocity. The two rockets are timed to explode simultaneously at h=80m, as A is falling and B is rising. a=9.8m/s2. initial velocity?velocity of B relative to A at the time of explosion?

How should I approach girls in India?

The right question concerning this will be, how should I approach girls in India in a way that lands an effective result?To make an approach effective one should approach a girl in an environment where a girl feels comfortable and safe.The fact is, India in general is laden with men who do not send safe vibes, even though they might be.Girls in India are more concern about safety than getting laid.So any random approach in India is met with cynicism first.Cynicism leads to a shorter window for a man to display who He is and his attributes.First and foremost approach girls in a well filter environment. This will help you to get better window with girls to talk to.Example: StarbucksHow to open?Ideally the best openers are;“Hi, I am ABC, what's your name?”“Hi, How is your day going?”Otherwise, Indirect ways are better;“I notice you seem too focused on laptop"“Can you suggest me some nightclubs?”And then change the nature of the conversation to something more personal.Once the conversation gets going, keep the focus more on her and her interest.Make sure that you do not enter into a conversation with a goal in mind, that's creepy and manipulative.On more about Approaching I would like to add few pointers.Make sure when you physically approach her, she has enough space to leave.Smile and smileMatch your voice tonality to the energy of the environment.On more of technical aspects of getting better with women in India you can read my blogWayofmen

I like a girl in my class. How should I approach her?

There are some rules of attraction my dear friend. Follow those rules, and sit back. Let that girl come to you! (:Rule No. 1Dont approach her. The moment you show that you are always available to her, you will be friend-zoned & I'm sure you don’t want it to happen.Rule No 2.Show her your wit. Girls never like to talk to a douchbag. You really need to be good in class while answering questions. If you are an average student, start studying hard and impress her with your answeres in class.Rule No 3.Approach her friends. Talk to her friends(don't flirt), be friendly with them. Have patience. Don't rush to talk to your girl whenever sbe is around, hold your horses.Rule No 4Work upon your image. You really meed to have a good reputation among your friends. Be friendly with everyone. Never pick up fights with anyone. Respect girls.Rule No 5Be ignorant. Its always better to be little bit ignorant (be cautious) in the begining rather than showing your availability. Let her wonder about you. Not at all let her know that you are intrested in her. Let her develop intrest in you.Rule No 6Eye contact. Try to have eye contact for a fraction of second 2–3 times in a day. NEVER EVER STARE. while following the rule of ignorance, it is always advisable to give her hint that there is something from your. Don't make it obvious. Let her wonder about it.Incase above rules don’t work for you, don’t get dishearten. work hard, be the topper , other girls might start dying for you.Other shortcut to approach a girl you like.Don’t think about anything. Go to girl and express your fellings. You never know she might say yes.ARY.

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