How can I ask for the money that my friend borrowed from me? I feel bad to ask for the money. What should I do?
You should not ask for it, if you feel bad about it.However, if you really want to ask then there's only one way to do it. You just ask him for money in the same way that he asked for money from you. He needed help and he asked his friend. You need help and you ask your friend. The only reason for you to be worried or feeling bad about it is if you don't consider him a friend. If he's a friend then you're entitled to his help as he's entitled to help you and vice versa. Don't think you're asking for your money back. You're asking for help. And who else do you go to if not to your friends?! If you wanted a pencil then you'd just ask for it right? What makes money any different? It's just another object that you use! Get over it! Stop making money such a big deal all the time!PS. “If you lend someone twenty dollars and you never see that person again then it was probably worth it.”
New guy I'm dating asked to borrow money? ($600)?
I'm completely TURNED off bc this guy! I met him in college in May and we always beenfriends. He went away to play basketball in California so we didn't talk much at all., months in we started taking sneaky pictures to each other and he bought me a hoodie from VS ($50) and shipped it to my house. It was nothing serious, we both were very casual to each other. He came back to our home state in January and we've literally been on one date to the movies. He takes forever to text back and doesn't have a job while I go to school full time and have a full time job. He hangs out with his friends every night, goes to clubs & strip joints & dresses flashy which is a turn off especially since he's much older than I am and I handle my responsibilities much more than he does. Last week I made the decision to have sex with him, in my opinion we were both grown and straight forward, I asked him to pay to get my nails done (about $25) and he told me he couldn't do it. He alwas tries to tell me that he does so much for me and treats me like a princess -_- I try not to sound ungrateful He told me we had plans for VDay but yesterday told me he lost the bet for the Super Bowl and asked me to borrow $600 and that'll he'll make it up by taking me out & having sex -_- not to mention him constantly asking & even through in "I know you have it, especially with tax season here.. You should hold me down"
How to refuse people asking to borrow money?
What would be good, polite but firm refusal points to refuse people asking for money for loan or borrow. None of them returns the money on time and I have to run behind them as if it is my headache to get the money back from them. NOBODY should gets any money from me for borrow or loan. how to refuse firmly?
I need to borrow money from my brother. How do I ask him?
Just ask him. What is the worst that can happen. He can say no but he could also say yes. If he says no then next time he wants money don't give it to him. You have to also think about why he isn't very nice to you. Have you done something to him to make him feel that way? Like maybe annoy him or something.
My crush didn't want to borrow money from me?
Ok so I need you to interpret this thing. Today the boy I have a crush on ( and I've recently found out he likes me, too) realised he had no money to go home so he just asked around the classroom to see who could lend him some money. No one was responding so I figured I would give him some cash. I asked him if that would be okay, and at first he said yes, but a second later he said (my name's Anne and he always calls me that way) "Oh actually Annie, let me see if X has some money to lend me". ( X being some classmate that was near him at the time). Why didn't he want to accept the money? I don't understand.Thank you lots!
Should i let my boyfriend borrow money from me? how do i make sure im not getting used.?
well, is it a LOT of money? How'd he get in this situation, through being stupid or just having trouble? How much can you afford to lose? Ask these questions and either help him, offer half or say no depending on what your GUT tells you.
My "friend with benefits" asked to borrow money, your opinion?
My relationship with this person is confusing even for me, I dont really know what we are but if I had to categorize we are like fwb. He is a lot older than me and I met him at work. I have always been confused about how I feel about him and ive known him for only a few months now. More recently I let him call me baby after he asked if I can be his "baby" which I dont even know what that means but I let him and now he calls me that a lot. But he knows I have told him times before I dont have feelings for him and he has said, I know you dont like me but I'll keep trying. If I was honest, I just like the affection and sex I get from him. I dont feel close to him/connection with him like a true friendship and just like the sex.I have wondered if I liked him and genuinely missed him at times. I have told him I miss him too after he has texted me saying he misses me. Ive known since Ive known him he isnt financially stable and he was even homeless for a short period of time staying in his car but he found a place and living paycheck to paycheck. He returned his truck he uses for work cause he didnt have the money and just needs $50 more for it and he asked me through text if theres anyway I can help him out and he will surely pay me back on sat. Then 20 min, later he said never mind I think he can wait (the guy with his truck) and he will ask him and then said he "misses me baby". I dont know how to feel about this. What do you think? Is it wrong? and what should I say to him??
Am I right in asking my ex to return money she borrowed from me?
If you had loaned him money for his bills or something, I'd say yes without hesitation. However, it sounds like you're talking about dates that you paid for in their entirety. He said he'd pay back for his half eventually, so he should certainly stick to his word, but I think it's likely that he'll get upset at your request. Are you in dire straits, so you don't care if you upset him? Then go for it. But if you can afford to let it slide, I would, since it wasn't a formal loan.
What is the best way to ask your boyfriend for money?
Situation 1. You loaned money to your boyfriend, who promised to pay you back.“Hey, [boyfriend], I would like you to pay me back the money I loaned to you. When is your next payday? We can work out how much you can afford to pay together.”Situation 2. You are in need of money for rent, bills or other important payments, and are low on your own funds for some reason.“Hey, [boyfriend], I’m running a little low on money. Could I borrow [amount] from you for [rent/bills/etc] and pay you back when I get paid next?”Situation 3. You want money to buy something.“Hey, [boyfriend], can you give me some money? I want to buy [item/s you want to buy], and I don’t have the money for it yet. I’ll pay you back when I get paid.”Always, always, always, offer to pay back any loan you get. If they then say not to pay them back, you don’t have to but paying them back still might be taken as respectful for their property and their earnings.Never ask for money you can’t pay back within the foreseeable future. Getting money as a gift is fine, so long as you didn’t specifically tell them to give it to you. (Excluding: “What do you want for Christmas?” “I don’t know, maybe just give me some money and I can put it to use on whatever I need down the track.”)