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How Should I React When Someone Pushes Me

What do you do when someone pushes you away, even though they like you?

What do I do? Or what should I do? Big difference, what I do is leave. Cut all ties and don't attempt to make contact. I'll avoid that person at all cost and learn to live without them.What I should have done was listen to them and try to find out what I was doing to cause them to alienate me by pushing me away.I have only just recently figured out that its not everyone else whose always causing the problems its me. My selfish attitude and overinflated ego that's been the problem.So what I do is usually precisely the opposite of what a reasonable person would do. I'm a reverse barometer for matters of the heart.

How should I react if someone pushes or shoves me on purpose?

It all depends on the situation, my friends and I when I was younger pushed and shoved each other pretty regularly in a joking manner. If this is intended as an aggressive move rather than being playful, this can be serious business. I was a Military Policeman and later a Bar Bouncer. Understand laying hands on anyone these days is serious. There is an old saying the second guy always get caught, meaning the second one to lay hands always looks guilty and looks like the one who has started the fight. If there are witnesses to this person having done this I advise you to file a report with your local authorities. If it is just you and the aggressor, and you see it coming and are quick enough to side step it and can then get him in a choke hold this fight is over with no visible marks on him and you can drop him like 3rd period french. Practice it before you try it. Should this not work, prepare to throw hands with him. Best of luck to you.

If someone pushes you in a fight, how do you hit them?

Not sure if you mean they challenge you into a fight or if they actually physically push you during a fight?As a martial arts instructor i tell students that you train so you dont have to fight. Dont fight out of pride or posturing.That said, you may not always be able to avoid a fight. Some say it is best to aim for jawline with a slight uppercut. In the torso aim for just below the sternum. I dont recommend fighting.Keep your chin down to avoid chance of being knocked out or nose broken. Most inexperienced fighters throw outside punches (haymakers) so guard the sides of your head, this also reduces knockouts (ie knockout game). By throwing outside punches your opponent leaves themselves vulnerable to to straight inside strikes from you. Finally, dont move backwards…move side to side.Find a real martial arts school, not the one in the strip mall. If it is a good school they will teach you how to avoid fights, be safe, build your confidence, and if need be.. defend yourself enough to escape.Please dont fight it is not ever worth it.

If Someone Physically Pushed You, What Would Be Your Reaction? Would You Fight Or Backdown, Moon/Mars?

ah. im glad you asked.

about a month ago, i was at a club in LA and someone did push me and was very rude and insulting. I had done nothing wrong. And I thought, I always figured in a situation like this I would have fought back but being in the moment I decided not to fight back, I just got out of there immediately without making eye contact with anyone. i was a lil drunk.. 2 beers.. and walking in the back streets alone and just all soooooooooooooooo pissed and thinking life is so unfair etc. and then it occured to me that he had pulled up in a white bmw m5. so i went looking for his car and sure enough 2-3 blocks later i found it and kicked its side view mirror... left it dangling by a few wires.

ok, now this was just such a depressing moment.. i was thinking wth, am i done in life? am i too old to even fight back now? just so depressed right and then guess what I ended up having an amazing night that night. i looked up with a russian girl at a club much later (made out only).. that was cool. i left her and went back to my hotel alone and went to the bar in my hotel where i made friends with the waitress. she was from ny too and about to get off work. she was very charming and funny and sarcastic and we talked, laughed and flirted for a long time.

at the end of the night, i was so happy, and i couldn't help but think you know there's a god and he's watching over. he knew how horribly i felt earlier being pushed by a bigger guy and he made up for it by the end of the night.

If someone pushes me, can i throw a punch?

Self defense laws vary between states, but there are some things that are common to all of them.

-You have a duty to retreat, unless you are in your home. Your first choice is to walk away.

-Self defense only allows the same amount of force. A push does not warrant a punch.

-Self defense is an "affirmative defense". This means it is up to you to prove you had the right to use it.

If someone pushes you, do you punch them in the face (very hard)?

I would say it should depend mostly on the laws in your area for self defense, but in general I’d say its a terrible idea.(Usually) pushes are not considered deadly force. A punch is more likely to be considered deadly force, and can be lethal (which of course makes it absolutely deadly force). Even if a court rules it assault (so is a push), you’re going to have a tough time explaining how such an aggressive attack was in interest only of your self preservation.Its also a terrible idea because punching someone in the face is a terrible idea. Yeah it works in the movies, and the nose is a very good target, but you have to be VERY careful not to break the little bones in your hand on someones face in a fight. You can wind up doing more long term damage to yourself, but answer me this: if you had to choose a condition you would want to fight in, would you rather have two working hands and some broken teeth, or all your teeth and only one hand?More than one martial art (wing chun comes to mind) have a rule to NEVER strike the face with a closed fist for this reason. There are plenty of softer targets that will immobilize or damage an attacker with far less risk to you.

How do you react to someone constantly pushing you from behind in a queue?

Okay I love that answer by Arijit Banerjee, but if I were you the I would just turn around and stand facing them and just smile. Naturally this person will now have to face you and they now themselves will try to avoid pushing in to you.Worked for me once. But then I don’t like travelling in crowds.

Can someone help me identify these reaction forces?

the gravity pulls down on the car, and the normal force pushes it back up. The engine deliverse a force straight forward and (if traveling at constant speed) the wind will produce an equal force in the opposite direction.

In the vacuum of space there is no resistence so the spaceship will keep on excelerating untill it almost reaches the speed of light.

The table will probably not be 100% smooth and thus egserts a slowing force on the balls. The other forces are the air which also slows the balls. The gravity keeps the ball on the table and the normal force prevents the ball from falling through the table.

What would you do if someone pushed you in the bus/train and took your seat?

The only reason i am answering is becayse you took an effort to share and ask this question.Some may suggest, its a fairly ordinary situation and happens a lot to almost everyone and you should just forget about it and get over it...but i would like to dig a lil deeper.You know why you are feeling the way yoy are. Coz the other guy took away something that you thought belonged to you and by not being able to protect it, you find yourself miserable. Thats the core reason and this applies to every human being.The only way to get out of this feeling of being short changed is if you can somehow make him look like an idiot or to do something that gives u a moral upper hand which soothes ur bruised feelings.I will tell you what I would have done. I would have woken that guy and told him very politely...If you really wanted that seat so much, all you had to do was ask. Pushing people in front of you makes you look like a jackass...After making sure that I spoke so that everyone around him heard it, turn away from him and find another seat or look away.No need to waste any more time on that guy. Such people unfortunately exist and you can do nothing about it.And do not reply back if he starts abusing. Then your silence will give you an upper hand and he will make a fool out of himself in front of everyone and would make him think about his actions.And this way your human nature of having done a morally correct thing will make you feel better and the other guy will remain awkward throughout his journey....Anyway, it's a small incidence. You will get over it but don't let people take you for granted..

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