Teacher yelled at me for no reason?
Ok so I was in my art class right? And we were painting today so we got our paint and sat down. My art teacher is usually very nice and kind and I have never gotten in trouble with her until today. I was talking to my friend and I was talking to her about how one of my other friends parents had told their daughter to go kill themselves. I said "I really hate her parents" and right away my teacher screamed "Darcy, You should REALLY be more quite EVERYONE can hear you and I heard how you hate someones parents" I mean what the hell!? I was talking very softly often teachers tell me to speak up when asking questions. I even asked other students around me if I was talking loudly and they all answered no. It really got to me today after all this teacher was one of my "favorite" ones but not anymore I guess. I just do not understand why she singled me out and yelled at me for no reason butting into my conversation and yelling out my entire privet conversation to the entire class. I thought about maybe going up to this teacher tomorrow or Monday and telling her how I felt about this and how I thought it was inappropriate behavior for a teacher. What are all your opinions on this? Thanks guys
My husband yelled at me in front of his friends. What should I do now?
I did not notice my kid was crying for some reason in the patio. He came and shouted at me and also addressed me as a "dumb dog". I would have shouted in return. But I dont want to behave the way he did in front of his friends. Now he is apologizing a lot and but feel like he is not a person who could respect me or defend me and make me feel secured. I am so worried and I dont feel like facing him. Someone tell me I am doing the right thing
My teacher yelled at me for no reason?
Ok i was in band...well i was playing with beginning band im n concert and jazz..anyways while were playing i was by the percussion area with my friend we were in groups and we had one percussionist so we decided to go buy percussion..so this kid pulls out a horn and press it..and my teacher say"NOOOO (my name)"and i said"it wasnt me"then i walk up to her anf i told her again it wasnt me..and she said"WHY ARE YOU BACK THERE" and when people are yelling at me i cant get my words out then i said"beacuse(friends name) is a percussionist so we are practicing over there with her" then she says just leave so the oy that got me introuble was just staring at me...i was holding back tears...sorry it was so long
How do I deal with a friend who is mad at me for a stupid reason and isn't willing to forgive?
Is this a valued good friend? Or one you can easily live without? That bases how you should respond here.Firstly, dig deep inside yourself to see this from their point of view. Empathize with your friend..explain to them and paraphrase the situation to them as if you were saying from their point of view to show you understand.Say “I know you feel xxx, and are xxx..however..then state your side kindly and diplomatically. Think through what you are going to say first and the potential impact. If they are unreasonable, then Set your boundaries. Tell your friend ‘I am sorry you feel this way and I am here for you ‘ then if needed, be willing to take a step back to allow them to think it through or perhaps ask them if you can agree to disagree . Ask them if your friendship is worth more to them than this incident and that you'd like to take steps together to be the great friends you've always been. That your friendship means alot and not worth risking over this.If they are truly your friend and value the friendship more than the incident, then they will come around. Remember though, to your friend this incident is not stupid, but a very valid reason to them. Give them that respect even if you don't agree or it may turn into an argument. The discussion should be solution focused. A friends opinion while it may be misguided, is never stupid. You are there to support each other. If they need more facts or correction of facts, provide what they need. If they are truly unreasonable, consider if this is where you want your energy, time and focus going forward or not. How close you are and how they make you feel majority of the time are critical factors to your decsion as well. Good luck !
My boyfriend has recently started yelling at me for no reason. What would you advise me to do?
Yelling is a sign of internal pain and unrest. You yell if you feel powerless and in despair. Maybe he has become too co-dependant on you and have a feeling that he has no control over his life. If there has been abuse in his childhood that would materialise as yelling when feeling co-dependant and losing control. Maybe he has a problem that makes him afraid - could be losing his job or a boss that humiliates him.People with serenity and with good psychological stamina don’t yell - period. So he needs help. I know yelling will make you become more distant and just spur more yelling - it spirals into leaving each other. You are not to blame for this, but you can help him, if he wants to admit it is a problem.Those are the two options you have, leave or help, the condition is that he recognizes the problem - he doesn’t need to go to a professional - but perhaps it is good to speak to someone that have had the same problem and share experience. If he feels guilty he will shut down and not progress, if you handle this with love not projecting guilt about how you feel then you are on the right path.A normal reaction will be to explain how you feel when he yells at you. Instead of talking you can act - move your butt to another room or take a walk to calm your feelings, or phone a friend, so something you like to do for yourself. Talking to a yelling person only spurs more yelling - wait till reason kicks in.
My friend yelled at me today and I’m really upset about it. But at the same time I feel like I’m being overly sensitive. What should I do?
I lost my husband in 2013. A girl pal offered to take me to Vegas as I had never been. Day #2 of the trip she comes in our hotel room st 6:00 am YELLING at me. You see she had just won $5,000 dollars in the casino that night “and all I wanted to do was sleep.” I got up and immediately started packing my suitcase. She’s screaming, “What are you doing? You’re going to leave?!? I brought you here!” I continued to calmly pack & I walked out of that room before 7:00 am - called the airline, got my return flight moved up and by 10:00 am was on a plane headed back home where I would not be yelled at by a “friend.”Personal experience and I know it sounds cliche’ but……If they did it once, they will do it again.Go and make new & better friends. They are out there - trust me.
I yelled at a guy for no reason at all. Will he hate me for this even after I apologized? Is he ever going to forgive me?
Someone yells at you for no reason at all.You think, “What the hell is wrong with him”.And then, you forget that. After sometime, the other guy comes in and apologises for his rash behaviour.You wonder, ‘What’s wrong with this guy’.You wouldn’t have hated him in the first place, it would have been more of ‘Is this guy crazy or what’.When you think someone else’s actions as crazy, it better remain crazy, as hell.Forgiving, well you don’t remember any of it. So………SCM.
Will capricorn apologize? how long will it take them?
female caps, if they acted cold towards you, yell at you, and basically say they don't care about you. that's what this cap did. i think it was out of anger. although she said it wasn't. i haven't got a clue what i did. now she is actin kinda nice, but idk if she will talk to me about it, or i should just forget it all. however, now im angry.........
My boyfriend yelled at me for the first time..?
How long have you been together? If you haven't been with him for longer than 6 months then get out now. Something as minor as this could turn into a full blown abusive relationship.The fact that he yelled at you was disrespectful and no apology means he doesn't really care that he upset you. He probably doesn't even think that he was in the wrong. You could try talking to him and explaining to him how he made you feel but if he shrugs it off then waste no time. Leave him. However, if you have been with this man for more than 6 months then you must know him well. Is he controlling? Does he tell you what to do, what to wear and who you can socialise with? Does he get jealous of you talking to other men? Does he get sulky if he doesn't get his own way? If the answer is yes to any of those then please don't hang around. This could escalate into verbal and physical abuse. If the answer is no then perhaps it was just a one off incident but I would still expect an apology from him!