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How To Approach My Wife About Her Situation With My Brother-in-law

What should I do about my brother in law's wife?

I think she is jealous of you and she is doing everything that you have mentioned out of jealousy. The best way to deal with her is to ignore her and avoid meeting or talking to her as much as possible. She will not change her attitude towards you.

My wife cheated with my brother-in-law?

You should tell your sister about the situation. Even if she doesn't leave her cheating husband, at least she'll have her eyes open and know what kind of persons your wife (her friend?) and her husband really are.

Stay moved out and don't sit there waiting by the phone for her to call, don't call her to say hello every day, and don't run to her rescue when she has some minor emergency at home (Those are things that a husband would do in a trusting loving relationship - not in one where the wife betrayed that trust.)

Give it some time and see if you have any reason to remain in the relationship, Get to know her for the person you see her to be now. If you decide to get back together, have her (with you in tow) go to your sister (in front of the brother-in-law) and admit her sins and request forgiveness. If she refuses to do so then she will only cheat again because there has been no real penalty for her behavior and she'll know that she can get away with cheating on you whenever she likes.

Brother in Law is Cheating?

I have no idea how to handle this delicate situation. My brother in law is cheating on his fiancee. I want to tell her bc i do love her and see her as a part of our family but I don't want my brother in law to be mad at me for telling her and be resentful. He's had sex with three people while with her, one of which was only 17. He is 24. He said he hasn't had "relations" with his fiancee for the past month bc of an odor she has at a certain private area. But instead of approaching her and having her see a doctor hes just been sleeping around on her. Anyone else ever have to go through something like this? What did you do and how did they react?

How do you approach your brother-in-law?

Approach him as a you approach a normal man. Don't pretend to be someone you are not.If he is your sister's husband, you should know that your sister is going to live with him for a lifetime . Nothing from your side should break their relationship. Think of your sister's happiness and future. Respect him in the way you wish him to respect you.If he is your wife's brother, you should know that he is the one who cared and protected your wife before you came into her life and he too wants your wife to be happy. Don't be possessive about your wife. He is still your wife's brother . Respect the relationship between them.It's said “ give respect and take respect”. If you remember this you will face no problems in approaching anybody.

My sister in law is cheating on my brother!!? What should i do??!?

At least you DID print out what you saw, so you DO have your proof! Given ALL you've posted, I wouldn't be a bit surprised if this is just what she's doing or going to do. What a total shame, & I CAN just imagine how you feel for your brother. She really does have it "made" to even be living with your mother no doubt rent free & doing all this against your brother no less. How utterly sad! You've also stated she's noticed a change in the way you are acting towards her, but who can blame you! IF IF you did have the nerve, you could approach her, ask her if she's noticed a change in the way you're treating her lately. Look her rite in her eyes when you ask her. You could then bring it up to her it's ALL due to her actions lately involving another man other than your brother & it's hurting you badly. She doesn't know if you're aware she's sneaking him into the house or not. You could call her bluff on it & bring it up. A person who is guilty shows it in some way or another & I'm SURE you'd be able to "read" her body language. Let her know you don't know what to do as you hate to have your brother hurt & betrayed by her. Come rite out & ask her what kind of "games" is she thinking she's getting away with. What does she want to do about your brother finding out OR should you inform him knowing it's going to hurt him. Put it ALLL on her to give you her answers. You don't even have to mention the "proof" you have, just that you're aware of him actually coming to your own mom's house against your brother. That's how I would handle it IF you could do it. This way you'll possibly get some answers but also let her know what you're aware of. To me that would be the way to approach it IF you can. I trust things will work out for the best, but if she's going to continue to cheat on your brother, he does have every rite to know...I SO wish you the best, Honey...:)

How can i seduce the wife of my brother in law?

I am 36 years old married living in a house in sharing with my brother in law (Wife's brother). My brother in law is in abroad and her wife is school teacher and mother of 2. She is of my age. I am too much attractive towards her. She has not good terms with my wife and her husband as well. But she has good relation with me. We often talk on phone for long calls but never any thing unethical. This is totally secret thing between me and her. No one else knows about our telephonic communication. I always use to say her that she is my ideal wife and her husband is stupid who does not care her and he is ill fate person. She always thanks me on my comments and compliments. Please tell me how can i advance and how can i develop extramarital (sexual) relations with her? I am very much desperate for her and want to sleep with her once at least by any mean. Hope you will help me and not discourage me.

Brother in law's wife is called as what?

Lisa B has it right.

Here's the reference: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Family

"The term 'sister-in-law' refers to three essentially different relationships, either the wife of one's sibling, or the sister of one's spouse, or, in some uses, the wife of one's spouse's sibling. 'Brother-in-law' expresses a similar ambiguity. No special terms exist for the rest of one's spouse's family."

Paula P almost had it, as did several other responders, but they omitted the hyphens. The hyphens belong. Mr. P also was close, but the words are not capitalized, except in the case where the relationship appears as the first word of the sentence. Then the first word only would be capitalized. An example appears in the citation above.

This usage is standard in the West. There are other systems for other parts of the world.

What is the best thing to if brother in law beating his wife?

Yeah, you could try reporting him to the cops, but, unfortunately, many abused wives will refuse to testify against their “poor misunderstood” lover. Besides, they frequently think they did something that caused the beating.Backup option if reporting didn’t work. Take him out for a few drinks and explain that I understand that he can get stressed at times, and maybe my sister was “asking for it”, but that this will not happen again. I would just explain to him that I would rather my sister be a widow than an abused wife. Let him draw any conclusions he wants from that statement.

Brother in law tag along; vacation help.?

I am I wrong to be tense and annoyed by this issue? For the last three years my brother in law and his wife and kids have seemed to tag along on every vacation my husband and I take. Two years ago I wanted to go to Bush Gardens one last time as a couple before we had children, they came. Last year we went to the mountains for a few days, they came. This year it's my Mom's 50th Birthday and she wanted us to go with her and my Dad for a few days getaway. My husband just called and said my brother in law and his wife and kids may be coming too. This is driving me crazy. It's not that I don't like them it's just that I would like to see what a vacation without them would be like. Especially since the focus this year is on my Mom and not his family for once. They tag along and then try to make every decision and change our plans. Of course my husband sides with his brother and we end up doing his thing again. How would you approach your spouse about this sensitive issue?

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