How do I tell my parents that I have a boyfriend?
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How to tell your strict parents you have a boyfriend?
I recently started dating this guy from another high school across town. Hes so nice and I feel like the luckiest girl ever. Every time Im with him we have a great time and I want to be with him for along time. The problem is my extreemly strict parents. They dont let me do anything. Im one of the most responsible kids they could ever have, ive never done anything they havent wanted me to do. I dont get to do what my friends do because of them. My parents dont let me hangout with guys alone, and I dont understand why? Im almost 18? Im scared that if I tell them about my boyfriend they wont allow me to be with him any longer and possibly get mad at me for lying to them or I guess not telling them the truth about whats really going on between him and I. Ive never told my parents about any of the boyfriends Ive had in the past but this time its different, im more serious about him and I want to be able to spend alot of time with him without going behind my parents back and lie about where I am, when im really with him. I need help!!! I dont know what I should do about this, with strict parents?!! Please help me!!
How to tell your parents you have a boyfriend?
If you and your parents don't really talk about guys and dating, it can be pretty awkward to say, "I have a boyfriend" just out of the blue. It will be easier if you start preparing them, and gradually work your way up to it. Start talking about guys more often with them. If any of your friends have boyfriends, mention it in conversation: "Cindy and Jake went to the movies the other night" or "You should see the cute note that Lindsay got from her boyfriend." That will get them used to the idea that people your age are starting to date - and it will give you a chance to see what their reaction is. And start bringing up your boyfriend's name; casually mention that you sit with him at lunch, or that he was at the party you went to. Tell them about something funny or interesting he's said. They'll eventually figure out that you "like" this guy - so it won't be a total shock when it finally comes out that you're a couple. If you can get to the point where it's easy and natural to talk to your parents about dating in general - and it's comfortable to mention your boyfriend's name around them - it will be a lot easier to spill the big news. They might even figure it out and bring it up themselves, so you won't have to. Good luck!
How do I ask my parents if I can have a boyfriend?
In the world we live in now you can hardly be surprized at how your parents are reacting, far too many people are having sex at a younger and younger age and for them they probably dont want you throwing your life away by getting pregnant [whether you want to or not makes little difference at your age the chances of it happening are higher cos your more likely to give into pressure] then they will have to help you look after the child and your future will be over. However you should probably get him over to your house and have him meet your parents and have him talk to them the fact he's said he would is a good sign, going behind your parents back will only lead to trouble so dont risk it. Make sure you act mature, dont throw a fit or anything like that and if he means that much just say to them, "look rather than going behind your back we are both here to get your blessing rather than sneaking behind your back because thats what will happen if you say no" - at least they should see you respect them enough to talk to them face to face rather than just doing it behind their backs. Question is, would you stop seeing this person if they say no, in which case why are you asking? You've got to make sure they realize that you could have easily gone behind their backs on this but rather than do this you've consulted them about it first. They should respect you for that and may allow it to happen because you've done the mature thing. PS: WHATEVER YOU DO, dont tell them you love him. They will just think your a silly little girl, just tell them you really like this person and want to go out with him.
How to tell your strict parents you have a boyfriend?
I was in the same position sister!!!! U need to put all ur trust into them when u walk up to them. Act like it's nothing serious/major. Just say, hey mum, dad, I have something to tell u and I'm not gonna tell u if u make it a huge complication. Stay serious k? If u laugh or something, they'll know. Stay serious so they know ur taking it seriously, k? Just say I have a bf. That's the hardest part but once u let it out of ur system, u feel relieved!! Really:) tell them about him. Tell them he treats u good or that u've known him long enough to be going out with him. Tell them u won't do sex or anything inappropriate with him that'll make them feel uncomfortable but they need to trust u. Tell them that they can trust u and u know what ur doing:)) good luck and God bless you:)) Jackie
How do I convince my parents to let my boyfriend come over?
The details in your comment helps A LOT.It’s all about her. She did all of those things, so she thinks you will do all of those things. Don’t say as much to her, though. You don’t want to draw attention to it.You can propose to her that you two are working on a school assigment, and when you finish that, you’ll watch a movie. Here’s the key - set your own deadline, say 10pm and that night, at 10pm, you make a point to say to your mom that he’s headed home, and thank you for letting us hang out tonight.Repeat. Do the same thing, as often as it takes, until she trusts you and him to keep your word.Repeat. Keep your word. (if you lie to her, it’s all for nothing)Over time, if neither of you give her a reason to see him as a threat, then she will trust him. If she doesn’t, then there are more deep-seated issues that you can’t change and it’s not your issue. Move out and live your life on our own terms.
How do you convince your parents to let you go to your boyfriend's house?
Couple of options... First, sneaky or legit? Sneaky... say your going to the movies, but head over to his place. Say you are going to the library. meet up, go to his place. Rent a motel, meet there. Legit... let her know the parents will be there. open up lines of communication between them, aka get his parents to talk to your mom. then she will not be worried. Have him over first. she can get to know him, and may trust him. either way, you could always invite him over while mom is gone. just be careful Try a kid swap. you live with his parents for a week, he lives with yours. longer, but the parents will get a chance to clear him. Bedding- your parents roll you both up really tightly in sheets, put you on the bed next to each other, and you talk. boring, but it works! Go there with some kind of device that will set off an alarm if it gets to close to another one, and have one strapped to you, the other to him. Otherwise... threaten to strip for all the boys in the neighborhood if the won't let you. if they still won't, threaten to masturbate publicly. you will get arrested, but your point will be made. Or they will never let you out of your room again. So probably don't use this... even as a last resort. Begging might work. Offering to do extra chores. Set up a punishment if sex happens. Hope that helps!
How can you convince your parents to let you have a boyfriend in class 8?
In class 8 you are a bit young and still under the care of your parents. For this reason, they are a bit cautious with whom you relate with and what you do generally. Why? Because they will take any consequences fully and they will have to be responsible.Once you show your parents that you can be responsible enough, you will have an easy time convincing them to let you do more just having a boyfriend.Having light moments with your parents can easily open them up. Participating in home chores and even playing games like snooker or doing a hobby like singing together will give you all the time with them and you will have an easy time convincing them about anything.Having a boyfriend is a good thing at any age both for the boy and the girl. Just make sure you have similar interests and do things that make both of you happy without putting yourselves into risks and compromising situations.All the best
How can I tell my super strict parents that I have a boyfriend?
Why in the nine cat hells, do you want to submit yourself to living a potentially hellish life by telling your parents something that they will most likely reject with the might of a flaming flamingo high on gasoline fumes? Hmm? WHY?!o__oThe only time, I would implore someone to tell their super ultra strict parents about their own romantic endeavours, where you must resort to asking strangers for advice on the internet, knowing it will be very difficult for your parents to accept, is that you are in a position of authority. In other words: when you’re making money, have enough savings to potentially move out tomorrow and live off of what you have. Why? So you don’t have to live under the roof of very extremely obnoxiously overprotective inconsiderate parents that will try to control every aspect of your life, until you relent to their own terms.In short, you tell them when you are able to take care of yourself.
How can I convince my parents to let me have a boyfriend?
I'm not doing this because of peer pressure. I put in that everyone else has a boyfriend because the usual response is 'you're too young', yet every girl in my grade has a boyfriend. It feels weird to see couples everywhere and your parents won't let you have a boyfriend. Also, I want a boyfriend to kiss and cuddle with, sorry if that didn't come across that way in my question. I want someone to care for me. My parents are super over protective, they barely let me hang out with my friends because they think I'll get into trouble. So bringing a guy around the house would be even worse. I'm already great at school, I'm well behaved, barely get into trouble, do all my homework, and do all my chores without being asked. I don't get why they don't trust me.