How can i become cold hearted?
Okay, usually i type heaps of crap explaining why but i'm not in the mood so just tell me how i should become cold hearted and please... Don't say "You don't want that" or "You're better off having a warm and nice heart." then save it, because i DO want that, and that's why i'm asking. So how should i get one? I'm sick of people hurting me.
What makes a person become cold hearted?
Being hurt in the past. And therefore choosing to not properly cope with it and hurt others instead. We all get hurt. It's how we handle it that can radically change if more pain and suffering will come or if we can properly deal with the issues of life and move on to healthy choices and relationships. In short, hurt people hurt other people. When someone feels no pain, its because they have had too much pain.
Can someone become cold hearted about love?
I mean like if someone is not lucky with relationships, weather the person cheated or did something that caused the person become angry about love. The person gave up on love, the person became hard to get. What is the name to this? I hope you guys understand what im trying to say.
How can i become COLD HEARTED?
You don't have to change anything because of one idiot. That is, my dear, being very heartless and selfish. Love yourself and move on. Think about yourself everyday, how you're going to make your life the best it can be. Or how you're going to get yourself the cutest guy the world to amuse you. Some might find this answer quite self centered but I have been there and I do know how you're feeling, there's no need to take drastic action or be dwelling on the past it doesn't work that way. You must be patient and your dealing with you so do it with love, I hope this help.
How to become cold hearted and emotionless?
I wanted to become that way too, once. I called my friend asking her how to void myself of emotions, because I'd just gotten out of a toxic relationship and I was tired of being manipulated and controlled by emotions. She told me that that desire to not give a f*ck about anything was what drove her to be suicidal, and that's what landed her in a mental hospital. That conversation was what made me decide to give up that particular dream. I won't tell you that you should follow that same path, or that emotions are beautiful, etc. You probably realize that in being emotionless, you're giving up the ability to feel emotions like sadness and betrayal, but you're also giving up emotions like love and compassion. You won't get hurt as much, to be sure. But I guarantee you that by actively choosing to feel nothing about anything, your quality of life will decrease--regardless of how sh*tty it is currently. I would try to change my situation before resorting to rid yourself of emotion. But, if you feel like your only option is to stop feeling, then simply embrace apathy. When someone injures you, don't become angry. Feel nothing. When someone says they love you, tell them you don't feel the same. Anything that might possibly instill an emotion, whether that emotion is negative or positive, shrug off. This is a sure way to lose any friends, alienate any family members, and likely commit suicide before you reach 30. Consider seeking professional help before you enact this radical change in your life. I wish you all the best. You're welcome to email me if you just need someone to talk to: requiem4adream@rocketmail.com
How do you become cold hearted/compassion less as a man? (MALES ONLY)?
Im not a man, but I can tell you just think of all the wrong things that people have done to you. Accept the fact that you are in this world alone even if you have a million family members and "friends". No one sees anything from your point of view, they may understand your point at times and agree,but thats about it. You and you only stand in your shoes. The problem with the younger generation is you guys were fed some fairy tale version of the world. Mostly through tv where everything works itself out and everybody loves each other. In reality its a dog eat dog world. Where the good dont always win, matter of fact most of the time they loose. Money talks is so true.Look at people have gotten away with murder, literally because theyre rich and who cares? Nobody. People lie, steal, cheat, molest, abuse, kill and everything else all without remorse.This is reality.Basicly what Im saying is you can become heartless by just looking at the world we live in and telling yourself in order to survive and or stay on top you must be able to accept these things and basicly become numb to them.It will take more tactics than what Ive stated here to become desensitized.At this point youll become a person who can lie through your teeth etc..just to accomplish your goals. When you do youll realize thats what everybody else was doing all along. Well successful people that is.Your life will be way less stressfull when you dont have to worry about virtue, right and wrong, peoples feelings etc..
How can I become cold hearted and emotionless?
if you are that good why change it.
Why does one become a cold hearted person?
I would say they become cold hearted do to being through a traumatic event such as their most looked up too family member dying. Or by being sexually abused/ and especially worse when right after the dead that the sexual abuse happenes. This can cause a fractured personality with the strongest ego remaining in control most of the time. This ego will require something in return such as drugs and alcohol in order to maintain the duty of protection to the host. The only way to maintain protection is identification of the traumatic event and maintaining contact with the visualization until you are able to cast it away.i am very spiritual so if this does not make sense then don't only thumb down, do some of your own Research!
Are Leo women naturally cold hearted?
Long story short, I recently split with a Leo woman. We've been friends for the past 7 years and always had an interest in each other. We ended up in a relationship earlier last year, but due to a rocky start because of a harrassing ex of hers, and myself not being in a good place mentally recently, she ended it via a text message. We got together and talked about everything on a Monday and I opened up completely and let it all out. She knows how much I still love her and how badly Ive been struggling to keep everything together. And I know she still cares for me, her brother told me that a few days before our talk she broke down and wished that she didnt end it with me. 3 days after that talk, on Christmas eve, she rocked up at the pub with a bloke she met that week, they came and chatted with me and friends, then directly infront of me stood with their arms around each other, then on midnight she kissed him. This sent my head into utter rage and I took it as a massive insult. I didnt show it, but later that night when they left I completely lost the plot and broke 3 knuckles in a fit of rage. She knows how hard this has been for me, and shes always said she appreciates everything Ive ever done for her so much, that she considers me one of the only real people in her life. Is she actually that cold hearted by kissing him infront of me, or is she completely naive? To add to that, she is now going out with him. Met him a week and a half ago. Im a Libra sun, Sag Moon, Cancer Rising and Aries Mars. She's a Leo sun. Dont know other planets. Any insights would be very appreciated.
How do people become cold-hearted and emotionless?
You seem to be asking about how someone grows cold over time. I’ll further intuit that you’ve been hurt and you’re not getting the response from the person who hurt you that you crave. So, I’ll answer this from the perspective of, “how may I justify someone else’s actions by understanding their response to wounds and therefore make myself feel better?”I've long postulated that the worst emotion isn’t hate or sadness or fear, but rather disappointment. This is because of the distance one can travel, emotionally, in a short period of time. From happiness to dispair. (Conversely, the best emotion is relief.)In order for a person to experience disappointment and the resulting pain, they needed to allow themselves hope. If hope is repeatedly followed by disappointment, it can be hard to believe in a better outcome the next time around. This is one way a person may flatten.Another, seen in children and even babies, is repeated experience that pleas for help won’t be answered. If a baby cries with no comfort, they may eventually stop crying. If a person opens themselves and lets their needs be known but doesn’t get relief, they may stop opening.At first, perhaps, a person merely masks their emotions. They are protecting themselves and may feel shame at their vulnerability. If they continue to receive negative reinforcement, they may actually become unable to feel those emotions.If you’ve been hurt, I’m sorry. Your task now isn’t to figure out anyone else’s thought and motives or wonder how they could be so cruel. Your task is to take care of yourself. To be brave and accept your own pain as proof of your bravery and don’t let yourself become someone who can’t feel.