I hate my stepmom so much i wanna kill her?
Your father is terribly at fault here. He has allowed this woman's bad behavior from the start. Why did your mother not come to your aid and take you with her? What kind of mother leaves her child behind so he has to live with this horrible situation. I am very angry with your parents! There was a little girl in Colorado whose own father allowed her step-mother to mistreat her until she finally killed the girl. Talk to your teacher and principal. Tell them you are in fear for your life. Contact your mother and tell her to come and get you! Don't give her a choice. Ask a neighbor or a friend to allow you to use their phone to call her and tell them why it is so important. You cannot call her at home and expect to be able to talk freely about what you are enduring. This must end.
I hate my stepmom so much!!! I need some help?
So it was 2 days ago and I got up and went to the fridge. I had bought 5 grapefruits for myself and no ones else. So I opened the fridge and they were gone! No ones was home at the time so I call my dad and he said that he will get me some more. He sad that my stepmom ate them all! I was soo mad and I didn't care if my dad was getting me more. So she cooked like 70 peices of meat for these people she knew so I ate 3 peices. Because she ate 3 grapefruits. I ate 2 grapefruits the night before. So she comes home and was all like did you eat my meat and im like yeah. But I had 3 peices. For each grapefruit. Then she's all like I didn't know! But she did know. So she tattled on me like she always does to my dad. And he said that he didn't eat any. So she's blaming my for eating 20pieces! So I go and take like a 2 hour shower and when I get out and get all primped up my dad screams my name and I imeadiatly go down stairs. She and my dad start screaming at me!!! And I couldn't do anything. So I go upstairss and a few hours later she screams name. So she hands me my grapefruits and says," you are the most selfish, ugliest, piece of **** I ever laid my eyes on." and my dad was right their and he didn't do anything!!! She also said not to ever talk to her ever again. So I went to my room and I started crying bcause no one has ever said that to me. And now my dad and my stepmom are against me. And my stepmom took away my 40$ so now I only have 10$ to my name. I tried to run away last night but I got caught. And I really want to move in with my mom but I'm not 16 yet and I have to be 16. I really don't know what to do? Should I call child services? And please don't tell me to sit them down and talk to them cause I won't. Should I try to get arrested? Cause my dad said that if he ever caught me smoking a cigarrette he would beat me with a stick( he's done it before) and then call the cops. So should I get arrested to my mom can get me? Or should I just wait till my16th birthday in October.
Why is my stepmom being so mean to me?
I am 16 and I have been having some trouble. Last night when I asked my stepmom to help me with an Algebra problem, she stood up, threw my paper down, and then shoved me into the wall and told me she doesn't have time for my petty problems. I have a bad habit of not making my bed in the morning, so today when I got home from school she grabbed me by the arm and dragged me into my bedroom and then she kept hitting me over and over. She has been doing these types of physical things lately. Why is she doing that? I try really hard to be nice to her. I can't tell my dad because he will say something to her and then she will probably kill me. My real mom lives in another state and I never talk to her. What should I do? I have bruises on my arms from today and I'm scared my teachers are going to ask how I got them. I can't wear a long sleeved shirt because it is very warm where I live. I know I'm 16 but she is a lot taller and bigger than me so I can't really fight back. What should I do???
My step mom calls me her daughter, but I don't like it when she does. Does that make me a bad person? How can I get her to stop without hurting her feelings (she's sensitive)?
In my second marriage, I gained three more daughters. I had two wonderful children, but wanted our children to blend and be like family to each other. I was only 15 years older than my oldest stepdaughter, but I called her mine, and she became mine within a short time. If she resented me calling her “my daughter” she didn’t show it. If she had not wanted it, I would have been fine if we had discussed it and had come to an understanding, and what she would want to be called. Introducing someone as “my stepdaughter” seems cold to me. I in no way wanted to replace her Mom. No one could. But, I wanted a warm, loving relationship with her.My daughter called her stepdad “dad” one day and his kids were furious. She wasn’t discounting her own dad, who was a wonderful father, but was feeling the warmth of family and it just popped out. After being scolded by his daughters, it never happened again.So, my advice to you would be to have a talk with your step mom, and if that’s too difficult, involve your dad. Understand your step mom isn’t trying to take anything away from your mom, but trying to show you that you are a part of her family, and she is proud of you. Ask dad to ask her to not call you her daughter and to introduce you to others as “Bobs daughter” or “my husbands kid,” or what ever you want to be called.Good luck. Blending families is a very hard thing. I hope you allow her to love you.
I hate my mom .... She is a ***** !!?
You are so fxcking ungrateful! I'd slap the **** out of you! I can't believe this!
What to do about my kids stepmom trying to compete with me?
Girl, I could write a book about this issue! I absolutely agree with Violet Pearl - view it as insecurity and pity her. My ex-husband and I have an 11 year old son together. We have been divorced for almost 7 years. I have re-married and so has he, which means our 11 year old has a step-mom. It was alot worse in the beginning, but over time, it has gotten a little bit better. My ex and I each have 50% custody of our son, so he is with his Dad every other week-end, plus a couple of days during the week, which means that my ex and I are communicating on an almost daily basis, if not every other day or so, regarding our son. His step-mom hated this and was very jealous and insecure in the beginning. But like I said, it does get better with time. I just refused to compete with her, and when she saw that there was no competition (and when she finally got it through her head that I did NOT want my ex-husband back), she started to back off a bit. Also, hard as it might be (and believe me, I know from biting my tongue several times!), do not make any comments when your kids come home and say that their step-mom said or did this or that. If you do, it gives merit to what she is saying and doing. Best of luck to you, it is a very tough thing to deal with.
Why does my mom hit me?
Your sister needs to learn to kick the dog away from the door before she comes in. But you are also allowing yourself too much sympathy for yourself. Next time this kind of thing happens, put yourself in the dog's place and kick yourself out of the way. There are a lot of people in life that are going to want to find your tender spots and poke at them. It is called, "The Pecking Order". Right or wrong is irrelevant. You need the strength to withstand abuse, because it happens with increasing frequency as time moves on. Listen your mom is past tired, be proud that she feels you are strong enough to take it. Next time, tell her, "Thank You mom. I might have to face the boggy man some day and I am going to need all the endurance, that you have in supporting us all the time. I need help in not feeling sorry for myself." Then go to your room and cry your heart out as you love your mom. Rub that spot and say, "Thank you mom, I hope I can be as strong as you for my family some day." Realize this is needed to strengthen you for life's trials. Do not try to shut down your tears, let them flow and wash your heart. Yet like when you pee, close the door.
What do I do when my mom gets me mad and I want to hit her?
Are you a boy? Are you pre-teen or teen aged yet? If you are a boy, you need to read up on what is happening in your body.Medical science has done studies on what happens in teenaged boys bodies as they are going through this important time of change in their bodies. One thing that happens is that they get FLOODS, out of nowhere, RUSHES of testosterone, and if during an angry, conflictual time, it can directly contribute to a boy hauling off and hitting dad usually, or getting into a fight with a schoolmate.My own son, now 23, being the smart one in our home... he read up on all this stuff for some reason - then went and bought some second hand weights and channeled that testosterone into making some pretty good muscles. It saved our conflicts from turning bad. He never raised a hand to me, though there were plenty of times he wanted to.Today our relationship is still growing, and I have a lot to make up for, but he really accepted responsibility for this and got great results gradually working out and read up about working out and it has been a great release for him.He also says, OMG he would be so embarrassed if he saw this, but he doesn't have the same last name, ad he hasn't turned onto Quora yet, so I think I'm safe for a little while, anyway, he says men have periods like women; not exactly like women of course, but he says his body goes through a nearly monthly kind of thing.So, glad you asked about this, and if you can find out if hormones are contributing to this urge to hit your mom, share the info with your mother, and see what is good for you to work out your frustration in a different way. Just remember, growing up is a process, and depending on the options available to you, you may have to apply a lot of patience before you can be as independent as you want to be.Good luck, and come back with more questions if you need to!
Dont you hate it when people step on your foot and don't say sorry?
well, lol when I have walked a lot, I love it! It sometimes is great! and I don't care if the "___" doesn't say anything, but there are some other times when I hate those people...They're propably hurry but they should be careful... I send u a kiss, don't get mad ok? XD
I hate my father. I never want to see him again. How do I do that?
I never liked my father since he always say "I don't like you". There was once when I had a headache and I just couldn't bear the pain anymore, i knocked on the door (they were still awake anyway) and wanted to tell my mother. He said I was a wimp, said why I couldn't bear a little pain. He then proceeded to slap me, again and again until I was on my bed. (In total its was 5). I hated that my dad had a short temper, he scolded the operator just because the name of the food wasn't pronounced that way (one was mushroom soup the other was mushroom de bread or something like that) Coming from a Asian family I did not expect much from my dad but I certainly did not expect he would be the abusive type. He even used a bamboo stick to hit me (until there was bruises) when I didnt do well for a test. (I was 8). Every time he hits me I feel like going to the police to report MY OWN DAD! I feel like I couldn't take it anymore.