What changed your outlook on life?
Old Self. My assumption about life was always predicated on, “If I only have this….then that will happen…”Basically. I created a conditional reality based on something that had to occur in order for my outlook to be justified.If that something did not occur, then I would maintain a certain outlook and did not accept any changes.New Self. Here is the change:I accept that I am not perfect. Perfection is illusive. I strive to become better every day. I realize to become better every day requires a sense of change.My old self used to believe that if my environment changed, then I would change. That was the impossible paradox I was trying to solve because the mindset would deduce to the money solves everything logic.We all know that is untrue. Change begins from within and then the environment conforms. Your attraction is about who you are, not what you want. Who you are is an inner-world experience. What you desperately want is an outer-world experience that actually makes the reality of things desperate.Therefore;I focus on the W.H.W. - Who, How, and What.I evaluate the “WHO,” my sense of self on a daily basis. I try to find the change from within which helps with the transformation of my sense of being.I separate the “HOW,” my daily actions, from the “WHO.” I accept that I am not responsible for my imperfections but I am held accountable for my actions.I Identify the “WHAT,” my daily interpretation of reality, from the “WHO” and from the “HOW.”I am aware just being myself is enough to acknowledge that “room for improvement” is an on-going process in the W.H.W.
Does sex change your outlook on..?
Sex will not change your outlook on life. Sex can aid in a new wave of openmindedness and confidence, though. Any kind of sexual activity releases tension, and relieves stress. For some people it does help them to be less uptight. But having sex will not cause some significant change in the way you see everything. You should always value your sexuality, it is, after all, a beautiful thing. You do it when you're ready, and when it feels right to you. Sex won't do anything for you if you're not happy with the situation. So wanting it, and being 110% prepared is a must. When done without shame, or regret, sex can be a moving experience. Learn to love and appreciate it as a gift. The effect it has on you and your outlook is only what you make it, dear.
How did becoming a vegan change your outlook on life?
Going vegan made me more of a “foodie”. There’s a sort of global culture around veganism. It’s an enthusiastic bunch, so there’s lots of celebration of new trends or restaurants on platforms like Instagram. I tend to follow those, and it’s even influenced my travel over the years. Living in London, it can feel like it’s hard to keep up with all the cool new foods coming online.Being a vegan also necessarily makes one an “other”. I’m certainly conscious that, at least in terms of diet, I don’t fit into the mainstream. There are many things in the everyday experience that just aren’t targeted at me and which over time become invisible. That can mean I lack common points of reference with people from time to time.
What movie has the line "... change my entire outlook on life"?
The Grinch. http://mrdeathsvictorygin.blogspot.com/ "Maybe I'm just an immature person, but some of the jokes did make me laugh. For instance, when Grinch says "This could change my entire outlook on life!" to which Cindy replies "Really?", and the Grinch says "No" and promply sends her through a tube that sends her into a garbage dump. "
Is it possible to change your entire outlook on life?
You can do this however, this will not be a quick process. Your outlook has been established through all of your years and experiences. You probably won’t be able to change everything.If you want to try: start with something small. In my second husband’s case; he started by trying to be cheerful. He had had a very negative attitude for at least the passed 10 years before we were married.I would annoy him being cheerful in the morning. My favorite question was “What is going to go right today?” He did manage to get a better attitude. He passed away on April 28th 2018. He actually had a cheerful attitude right to the end. He was diagnosed with stage four non small cell carcinoma on the 9th of April. His last days were as good as we could make them with help from hospice.I am comforted that he found joy and happiness.