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How To Convince My Parents To Pursue My Dream To Be Singer

How to convince my parents to pursue my dream to be singer?

I have a hobby which is singing from when i was little. Probably because my mom has a beautiful voice, i have it too..
Problem is, this hobby of mine has turned into a big deal.. It is my dream now to be a singer..especially a Kpop singer. Being in idol group or soloist is okay to me as long as I am singing. It's not an obsession of Kpop. When i first watch Kpop MVs or LIVEs, i thought wow they're so cool..how could they dance n sing so beautifully?

So my mom is so strict and i dont have courage to tell her or to mu family bout my dream. Its not that i'm afraid she'll yell at me or what. I just dont like her rude words mocking at me. Well she mocked a lot. I bet she'll laugh at me, look down on me.. And she'll mock more. I'm so confused now.. It's like for her my future has arranged by her: help my parents' work. I dont want to do what i dont like. I have my own dream and it seems that no one supports me.

How do I convince my parents to let me pursue a career in music production and DJing?

you should tell them you want to get involved into music technology, make sure you try to find a good university. Tell them this is what you want to be happy. Make your own desicions, and try give arguments to convince that you will not be happy with different carreer. Must tell you tho, the music industry is really tough, there is no easy way on making money. Good luck!

How do I convince my parents to allow me to pursue my dream event management as a career?

Well it's not really easy !! I am sure you are from India my friend cuz event after grabbing a job in india’s largest dental chain my dad humorously calls me tent Wala. You cannot convince your parents and let me remind you that they r your parents and they only think about a brighter future for you.. the kind of a industry you are fascinated with looks really fascinating but require everything intense, be it your strength, knowledge, or your ideas you got to be extremely good to succeed. For instance : every year in New Delhi itself more then 5000 event agencies are opening and only .7% survives for the first year itself!!Reason : it's not a profession, it's a passion towards survival.The best you can do is grab few event jobs let your parents come and see what you do and why u will be doing in future, may be then they might let u do this. But won't join a institute to pursue this career instead join a co. As an intern

How can I convince my parents to allow me to pursue singing as a career?

I would suggest that you earn your right to your interests.It's sad that they don't let you pursue your interest. Right now, since you are under their care, do what they want you to do on the condition they let you pursue your interest. It's a fair game. Certain sacrifices like spending time on the internet or going out with friends have to be made. There is only 24 hrs so you need to set your priorities and manage your time. Every thing depends on your ability to communicate very firmly bereft of anger and disrespect. Hope this helps. Thanks.

How do I genuinely convince my parents that I want to pursue my passion & make a career out of it?

It would help a little if I could understand what your passion is.  I hate to ever say that something is unattainable, but we also have to be realistic.  My son wants to play professional hockey.  A very small fraction of a fraction of a percent ever realize this dream.  It's not impossible, but he should have a plan B ready just in case.  I will support him, but also be the first to bring him to earth if the window of opportunity has closed.  Look at the show American Idol.  Every contestant actually believes that they have a chance, but there is only ever 1 winner.  This paragraph was just to make sure that it's not YOU with the blinders on.Now back to convincing your parents.  My first suggestion is to rent the movie "Billy Elliot".  It's an inspiring movie about passion being stronger than family pressure.  In the end a parent that was impossible to convince was able to see the light.Use this as a starting point and then lay out a presentation to demonstrate how serious you are.  If you want to be a rock star, you better be able to demonstrate that you can sing or play an instrument beyond their expectations.  If it's possible to have them see you in this environment, let them see how happy it makes you feel.  You can be successful doing anything as long as you have the passion and the DRIVE.  Don't forget the drive.  If you can't clean your room, but you want them to believe that you can start your own business...you may have some work to do.I tell my kids:If you want to become a hair dresser, aim to be Vidal Sassoon.If you want to become a chef, aim to be Gordon RamseyIf you want to become and actor, aim to be (insert your favorite actor)Let them know that you love them and that you need their support.  Ask them to trust you and let you attempt to realize your dream.  Maybe be prepared to compromise.  Let me do this for 2 years and if I haven't achieved X, then I will consider other options closer to your desires.Nobody wants to see their child suffer.  They just want what is best for you and they have more life experience (so at least consider their side).  You have to convince them that the suffering will not come from the risk, but rather not taking the risk.Love should prevail!Good luck with your dreams.

How do I convince my parents to pursue my passion?

there is very little that we can do when our parents are that orthodox (including my own).but we have to remember one thing -we can be whatever we want to be.eg: a tea seller becomes the PM of india, an orator that an Indian will be proud of.it was just a casual eg.what i am trying to say is that, the things what are feasible today and in todays time and generation would not have been possible in the times of our parents.as such they are strictly averse to anything that they feel is something that they didn't personally experience so that they can advice you against it or prevent you from doing it.getting a degree and a government job was the trend the society followed during their times and so they are still stuck in that ancient mentality that they are completely oblivious to their current happenings.but we - u and me and all of us facing the same situation have to realise that times have changed. its no longer necessary to have a degree to be successful(though it may help in some scenarios) or have a permanent job.now is the time when people who have dared to think different have changed their lives positively by going against the traditional social and family norms and being successful and happy doing so.eg: chetan bhagat, dhanush, modi, etc etcPSthere is a sentence from a video that i once saw- imagine that you are lying on your death bed and standing around your bed are the ghosts of your pasts. these ghosts represent the book you didnt write, the love that you didnt persue, the passion that you didnt nurture, the dreams that you killed...and they are all asking one single question : WHY DID YOU LET US DIE???

How can I convince my parents that I'm serious about singing?

Music has always been a part of me. I think everybody has that one thing that they love so much it hurts. My parents don't think I'm serious about making music my career.
Now, don't misunderstand. I don't want to be famous. I mean, if that happen, sure, great, awesome. But I don't care, I just want to sing for the rest of my life. And I want to get a vocal instructor so I can be the best I can be. But my parents don't even believe I'm passionate about music in general, and they laughed when I mentioned the vocal instructor. How can I convince my parents that this is something I love and want to do forever- along with the vocal instructor?

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