I miss seeing my crush. How do I get over this feeling?
I’ve had my fair share of crushes so I understand you.That throbbing feeling you feel in your chest…..That sheer craving to want to see that person……Trust me, the feeling you are feeling right now isn’t permanent. Just like how motivation fades away like normal emotions, so as this longing for your crush is. Heck, maybe even right now you’re over it already.
How do I cope with my feelings of my crush getting ready to marry?
What's all the fuss about, You two where never in a relationship, just two buddies who cried on each other, she even told you it wouldn't work between you and her, but you thought she wanted to kiss you. Move on buddy it's over no point crying over something, when there was nothing in the first... Next time you like a girl ( more than a friend ) grow a pair and tell her that from the start, you don't want another girl to cry on you again, and say just lets be friends.. Point here.. You want a girlfriend and you like a girl, tell her from the start what your intentions are, if she says no well bad luck for her, if she says yes well than everyone's happy... Good luck
How do you cope up with the feeling you get when you see your love everyday knowing that they dont like you?
There are two choicesYou accept your fate and like a branch of a tree just bend in the direction where the wind flows: that means you don’t get over her and learn to live with the present situation.Approach her as a friend . Try to develop intimacy and be with her at the time she needs you and then take it to the next level
I FEEL UGLY because of my teeth , im only 18?!?
Well i have teeth but theres no point cause when i talk or open my mouth nobody can see it.. its embrassing alot of people point it out to me they say "its weird how we cant ever see your teeth, do you even have any?" and its just humiliating. Plus my jaw is crooked which makes my face and features look crooked. My jaw clicks when i open it and sometimes i get headaches cause of it. I showed it to the doctor but she said its a hard joint to fix and would cost alot of money.. but really i want to be normal and have a nice smile and i want people to see my teeth. Its not like my teeth are small...they aren't but for some reason they just hide behind my lips. :( I have really low self esteem because of it
How do you cope with seeing your college friends make more money than you?
I think it's one of those things you can only really learn in hindsight. Like that whole having a kid then suddenly looking at your parents differently thing. So in the meantime take the word of the old folks. When you are 10 years out or so (of college, etc) you will absolutely not even slightly wish you'd taken their path. Some tiny percent, maybe, of them will have really gone on to be serious players in business or finance or whatever it is and be pretty happy to have made it. Maybe one or so. All the rest will feel trapped and caged by their velvet handcuffs and the permanent life choices they were in such a rush to make and absolutely wish they had taken your path. Until then just have to have faith. Unless you are truly passionate and driven by money then never make money the reason for the course you set in life. You need to eat of course, and might even feel a desire to have some of the freedom and things money gets you. But money's the side effect of being passionate about what you do. People who are smart and intellectually curious and focused enough to really just pound away on a problem nearly always end up with more money than they really need anyways. The fact that you're asking this question paradoxically makes me think you're on the right track. You're asking because you know what you think, you feel behind but don't actually want to be like your friends, and the question was asked because you were seeking some reinforcement. You got it. You'll do fine. (If my mind reading was a little off... sorry... just some armchair psychology ;-)
How do you deal with seeing your husband's ex-mistress?
I can only imagine how you feel. I hope you and your husband got some counseling after he cheated on you? You are going to be hurt and angry for a long long time and it did not do your heart any good to run into this woman that he cheated with. It threw you back and it would only be normal for you to respond this way......But just remember that you and your husband are working on things and don't let this other woman have any power over you......She was a loser and what goes around always comes around. She is nothing and no matter what you keep focused on your marriage and try to stay away from places that you may run into her! I would talk with my husband about your feelings and ask him to hug you and keep you strong. As long as your husband is truely sorry and has discussed his preventative measures on never repeating this again ...don't ever let her get to you again. She is not worth it ....the only thing that matters is you and your husband and that you keep it together. please talk with a proffesional if you can so you both can learn the proper skills in dealing with infidelity. Good luck sweetie.
How do I cope with stress during IIT-JEE preparations?
Find some way to release the stress.For me, it was Badminton. I used to play everyday for a couple of hours. I used to hit the shuttle very hard to vent out my frustration. In fact, I became known as the best smasher around.My friends used to wonder why I love smashing so much. I would just imagine the shuttle to be that tough JEE question that I wasn’t able to solve, wait for the right moment, build up my energy and hit it as hard as possible. SMACK.Sometimes, I would keep on smashing the shuttle again and again. SMACK. SMACK. SMACK.The poor opponent had no chance.
Do you go thru the day feeling worthless, useless, lifeless, and bound to fail?
Yeah I'm bipolar. I take it one day at a time. I keep a journal, go for long quite walks alone. I listen to music and I read. I talk to those very close to me about how I feel. I'm seeing a psychiatrist to help me. Fresh air always helps, sometimes you need the wind on your face to feel alive. I meditate, and I keep a small hobby to keep a sense of accomplishment.