How do i deal with an insecure boyfriend in need of constant reassurance?
Well your a grown women, so dont let him put restrictions on you,(your not his kid). He feels as if he is gonna lose you and find somebody else, so he trys to keep you with him as much as possible and away from other guys. he is like a mother, over protective and strict. You wont know how his moodyness is triggered but there is counseling for this sorta thing. So When you get the chance just say i was wondering if you would like to try counseling to help our relationship get better. if he says no and refuses , the behavior will continue to happen. if you say your gonna break up with him he is gonna try and kiss your buttox, he faking it to keep you, some stuff just doesnt last and is meant to be let go of. But it's your decision, good luck and i hope it works out for the two of you.
Does the mistakes we make ruin God's plan?
There talk about "finding God's best" and not missing out on "His perfect will or plan" It is a popular notion: God has "ordered our steps" for our entire life and we can screw up the whole thing at every fork in the road by making the wrong decision. Fortunately God is a God of infinite variables. God's will is revisable. He has a perfect will for you no matter where you are in life, even if you've taken a "wrong fork in the road." Through God's grace, He will even pick up the shattered pieces of your life and make something beautiful out of them. You can't ruin God's plan that easy, because it is not a fixed plan. God's more creative than that. He's hard to circumvent. Of course knowing, willful, intentional disobedience (like your murder example) has serious consequences. God still has a will for you -- And it is not "second best" either. (How could we ever call God's will "second best"?) We might lose out on one future--but God can recover us and create another future for us that still brings joy and meaning.
How to deal with a totally spoiled annoying friend?
It's one of those things. It's something that will happen. Try talking to her. Explain to her that it could be awkward for your parents. Just tell her she has been acting like that. My friend was vain and I told her. She isn't insecure but she doesn't constantly talk about herself like she did. It will be hard, I'm not gonna lie. Just try. Good luck. :3
Can My Mom Ruin My Spring Break Any More?
Does your mom (or your dad) get to have a spring break? Perhaps you are ruining theirs by your constant complaints and "need" for their money. Quit whining and see what you can do to make their lives better.
I feel alone and left out by my friends in a group; what should I do?
When I was in middle school, I felt the same way about one of my friend groups. I noticed that they always seemed to have an easier time talking amongst themselves. They had inside jokes I wasn’t weighing in on, their humor seemed to become more and more foreign to me, and they seemed to not care at all when I wasn’t there with them. I felt like an outsider looking through the glass.About a year later, I looked back on this, and realized that I simply didn’t fit in with them. I had different interests, different perspectives, different humor, different philosophy, different lifestyle, different everything. I wanted to be in a group that I wasn’t meant to be in.Going further into this, I also understood the group dynamics that caused me to drift from them.I’m an introvert. When I hang out with friends, I started noticing that I start burning out after around an hour. I simply got tired of socializing and went back to my awkward self. I always preferred doing things by myself rather than with other people. Now the group I was in seemed to care more about how well you can socialize to make each other happy. I obviously lost when it came to that factor.I matured. I also realized that I matured at a much faster rate than the friend group I was in at the time. I was going through a rough time, and I had a lot of time to contemplate morals, values, ethics, as well as my beliefs, desires, and insecurities. I gained multiple new perspectives, while my friend group stayed in their middle school teenager mindset.I had different friendship values. The friend group that I was in during middle school, had different friendship values than me. I valued acceptance, tolerance, listening to each other, and cherishing each other, while they valued having a good time together, enjoying the now, and relating to each others’ interests. So from those principles, we naturally drifted. To be honest, I don’t really think they truly cared about me as a human being.That was my experience with being pushed out of a friend group.I can’t speak for you, but my suggestion to you would be to simply see how things go. You’ll want to be more communicative with them, and maybe it’s due to other factors for why you felt more distant. Eventually, you’ll know whether or not to stick with them. At the same time, go out of your comfort zone. Be open-minded and make some friends with other people.
My friends are all overachievers. how do i deal with it?
Your doing fine. Next year, when you make your schedule, choose to take honors classes only in the subjects you are good at, so that you can dedicate more time to these subjects. As long as you are getting passing grades your okay. Be proud of your A's and B's and don't let your friends ruin that. Just try and talk to them about stuff other than grades. Also, your friends do seem pretty weirdly dedicated to getting into college. Maybe you should talk to them about it and find out why they are so crazy. My guess is that they are afraid of either disappointing someone, or afraid of being a failure and they think a good way to succeed is to go to a good college. My parents went to University of Delaware (who's ever heard of that?) and both of them are doctors. The college itself doesn't matter that much, its the grades you make, and the job you get afterwards.
How do I break up without ruining her life?
So, I've been with this girl for a year. This was my 1st relationship ever so I don't have lots of experience with dating, breaking up, etc. Anyway, she's a really sweet girl, sometimes. Other times she is crazy and depressed and a control freak who is jealous if I even speak to another girl about anything. She never lets me have any time to myself, and will ask me where I've been that I didn't call her immediately after getting off work. She is immature and frankly not ready to be in a relationship, and she has been begging me to propose to her for months now. I have been feeling sad and depressed inside for months, because I have no life anymore, just speaking to her and dealing with all her constant drama. She is obsessed with me, and is always going on about how sweet I am, how much she loves me, etc. Though she often says things like "I can't be with a guy who does such-and-such" if I was just doing such-and-such and she didn't like it. (Innocent things, like just wanting to watch the super bowl, for example.) I need to break up with her and get my life back -this has gone on for too long and I don't want to make it any harder on her or myself than it has to be. Problem is, she's so needy and insecure.... when her last boyfriend broke up with her she dropped out of college and laid in bed for a month crying her eyes out. So, anybody been in a situation like this before? Any tips or advice you could give me? She has no friends really (her insecurity and constant criticism drive them all away) and she doesn't get along with her mom, either. I'm about all she's got, but I just can't put up with this anymore, it's driving me crazy. Thx for reading and answering :)