How To Deal With People Who Don

What can I do if I don't like dealing with people?

First try to find out why you don't like dealing with people and what prevents you from dealing with people. Man is a social being so you just can't run away from society and if you are trying to run away then just consider trying to face the society.After reading your question I feel that you have been mostly hurt or betrayed by people and due to this you are in a traumatised condition. But let me tell you that all people in this world are not bad. The world has a fair share of both good and bad people.Firstly you should try sharing your problems with your parents and close ones. They will certainly try to understand your problems and your fears and may come up with a solution also. You can also try seeking professional help. What I would like to suggest is that try to be social, you will end up meeting many people and you will find many people you will like and who are good hearted. If you are judgemental you should avoid being judgemental. Everyone has imperfections so don't try to find a perfect person. Just try to accept all the good points and bad points of people and I am sure after this you won't say that you don't like dealing with people. So inspite of all the negativity in your life look at life and people with a positive outlook and then you will start liking people.BEST OF LUCK.

How should I deal with people who don't reply to me?

If these folks don't advance your professional life or add pleasantly to your social life, why bother? I'm not being flippant, I'm asking honestly. I would not bother with anyone who ignores me on a consistent basis -- I'd just assume they're not especially interested in being friends with me. After all, the people I consistently ignore are the ones I am not interested in being friends with. To be honest, I think it's kind of socially unsophisticated to ask why one is being ignored. I've certainly been ignored and disliked it, but I took it for what it was: a brushoff. And that's okay -- you can't win 'em all. It's also pretty unproductive... you'll likely get a diplomatic response like, "I've just been soooo swamped. Hope all is well with you, let's grab drinks later. I'll let you know when my schedule clears." Of course, later never comes.Just leave it alone and don't worry too much about it. Not everyone you cross paths with will want to engage in a friendship -- often for reasons that have nothing to do with you. I would stop issuing invitations to anyone who ignored them two or three times in a row.

How do I deal with people who don’t listen?

Recognize and understand that they aren’t listening, and proceed accordingly. You can either stop talking to them, or talk and know you won’t be heard. You aren’t going to change them. So, you have to ask yourself why you bother talking to them? A teacher, for example, is obliged to give a clear explanation or clear instructions, and so must speak, even though some students don’t listen. The teacher can’t make the students listen, but when the students complain that they didn’t “know” or didn’t “understand,” something, the teacher can say “I explained that clearly in class,” and the students will pay the consequences of not having listened. I imagine it’s the same in a business environment. Someone who never listens to the boss will probably not last long at the company.

How do I deal with people who don't think before they speak?

Well,I used to be one of the people who did that! I used to speak out whatever came to my mind. Whatever! And trust me when I tell you,I absolutely hated it! (However it had its own perks. I never had to back-bitch. Whatever it was,straight at your face!)This habit of mine actually took away from me many of my well-wishers. Like you did,or anyone at his senses would have done,my friends,relatives started ignoring me. But hey,I didn't intend to hurt anyone. My friends,relatives were dear to me and I wanted them. But I couldn't help.And then there was this one fellow who made me realise my mistake. I once had a heated argument with her regarding an issue(she's one of my very good friends).She said nothing, while I said everything that came to my mind. The argument ended. I later felt sorry and the next day I apologised.She accepted my apology but she made me sit and told me that I had hurt her really bad. And as she spoke,I realised how intensely my words could hurt someone. How deep wounds they could make!I realised how many people I must have hurt till date.That moment made me want to dissappear, such was the extent of my guilt. From that day onwards,I think twice before I speak. And that's for the good I guess. I owe her for this thing. :*So here goes my adviceIf something said by someone bothers you,tell them. If you don't let them know,they might never know. Go on and help people realise their mistakes and be a better human being.This simple notion helped me. Hope it helps others too.:)

How do you deal with people who don't respect you?

How do you deal with people who don’t respect you?What is respect? There are 2 main types:The first one, is the admiration of someone for various reasons; including their skills and character etc.The second one is: ‘ Due regard for someone, their personal space, property, feelings, wishes and rights.When someone doesn't respect you, that's likely referring to the second type.Therefore, when someone disrespects you, they are not regarding you, and your feelings as valid.If someone disrespects you, they are saying that they couldn’t care less about you, and they don't care what you think or say.Should we be affected by this? No.Why? Because if we are, then we are saying that we require validation from others in order to maintain ourselves.Now, the main way in which people deal with those who disrespect them, is to just ignore them, and remain calm— whilst also maintaining your points/ arguments etc.Never cower in the face of blatant idiocy.

How do you deal with people who don't have or have lost their empathy?

The display of empathy varies with the individual. Some seem not to be moved by others. In all fairness (and it doesn’t make things any easier, sorry to say) it should be pointed out that these people do not display empathy. that doesn’t mean they lack empathy; it only means that they have difficulty displaying empathy.The best response is to assume that the person simply is not able to display empathy, and conduct yourself as if they are not unfeeling, but simply cannot show their feelings. This is more likely what is going on.You can determine from their actions whether or not they have empathy — to an extent. A person in a management position may believe, rightly or wrongly, that his supervisors will not approve of his displaying any sympathy for others. He thus may be scrupulous about not displaying emotion, nor showing any response to it in his actions.If you find that the person does not show signs of any response to anyone’s distress, your response should be to continue to behave as if they did. This is the best response because you can’t generally win if you confront such a situation, and you stand to lose, perhaps a lot if your confrontation backfires (if this is a supervisor, that’s extremely likely). You simply do not know what is going on with the other person. They may be responding to something that has nothing to do with you.I continue to read stories of a person who became just furious at another person because the other was extremely rude. The person would tell that despite the rudeness, they continued to react normally to the other, perhaps because they felt it was their job, perhaps because they just wanted to take the high road. In any case, the other person, at some point, came to them and apologized for their rudeness, explaining that such-and-such disaster had been unfolding at that time, etc. And because the person met rudeness with politeness, it was possible to salvage the relationship.It is difficult to keep your cool when someone is disrespectful or rude. No question. However, if you are rude in return, you may allow negative feelings to fester on both sides, and it will be difficult to come back from such a situation. Nobody wants to perpetuate toxic feelings.

How do you handle people you don't like?

This happened last week.A famous South Indian stand up comedian Aravind SA performed at a RV college of engineering, Bangalore.This is him.He being a Chennai based Stand up comedian, who mostly entertains his crowd with his Tamil-English slang, and I being a big fan of his show attended it.A few minutes into his show, he introduced himself to the audience.SA: “I am a Tamil based guy, straight out of Chennai….”Randomly, someone from the crowd started screaming “RRCCCBBBB”Well, every cricket fan knows what happens when its IPL time. CSK vs RCB is more or less like IND vs PAK cricket match.People around him joined the chant.SA : “What what? I can’t hear”In chorus…RCB! RCB! RCB!SA : “Dei, dei, you know what happened last week no!(Referring to Ee Sala Cup Namde chant during Bangalore FC vs Chennaiyin FC in ISL finals where BFC lost terribly). Now shut up, stop jinxing yourself and enjoy my show.”That presence of mind. All the CSK’ians cheered like hell.People tried trolling, they got roasted.Therefore, if you hate someone, hate them openly.P.S: Ee Sala Cup Namde means, “This time, the cup is ours” in Kannada.LOLWant to see him roast people, watch his most famous Madrasi da show on Youtube. You’ll love it.