How can I feel more attractive?
Start practicing self-love.Focus on your strengths, but work in your weaknessesInteract with people who make you feel alive and happy.Avoid talks related to any kinds of stressesTurn a deaf ear to the standards of beauty set by the societyDon't care about body shaming.That'll do you a lot of good. The path ahead of this will have to be determined by you, based on your circumstances and ideologies. All the best!
I don't feel attractive?
I'm 17 years and I don't feel attractive at all. I've never had a boyfriend or even had any guy that I'm attracted to approach me or even look my way. I don't know what to do with my hair and it's not very long which makes me feel less attractive especially since the short hair cuts I want won't work in my hair because my hair is extremely fine and I don't really know how to style my hair and work with it. On top that, when I put on make up I don't feel I look any better especially when I hear people laugh when I pass by even though I know it doesn't look bad because people have complimented me on it before. I just feel like I'm not an attractive individual nor will be one soon. I tried something different with my hair and it looks absolutely terrible and I just get really self conscious when people look at me and I feel people are telling me it looks nice because I clearly look uncomfortable. I just want to feel pretty and look pretty for college so that I can start over and maybe find a guy who's actually attractive to like me. I know that college isn't for that but I'm scared that I'm gonna have to settle for someone or bribe someone into wanting to be with me or marry. I have goals and I'm dead set on achieving my goals but I don't think I'll be happy unless I can find someone to share my life with that I actually like and until I feel that I'm an attractive individual. I need some serious advice
How can I feel attractive if I know Im ugly?
Im female and at college we did this activity where everyone in the class (18 and 19 year olds) had to rate each others facial attractiveness anonymously. Our scores were then averaged and written on the board. It sounds bizarre but the lecturer was bizarre lol he got rated too. Anyway after agreeing to take part I got an average score of 4.8 out of 10 which was the lowest in the class (the lecturer got 5.2!) most people gave me 4 out of 10 one person gave me 6 thats the highest I got. Anyway I always thought I was alright looking so it came as a shock. Im 20 now but looking back I will always know the real truth that people see me as ugly, its not even as though Im putting myself down..decent friendly people were being honest. I just can't see how I can wear nice clothes, feel attractive/sexy and be confident if I know that Im facially ugly :/ I don't know what the best way to deal with it is Im having difficulty accepting that Im ugly yet I can't pretend that Im not cause I know the truth about how others see me. How would you have dealt with the situation?
I don't feel attractive. How do I feel prettier?
Yes.. First of all,Work on your Self Esteem.It doesn't matter whether you are unattractive, average,mildly attractive,moderately attractive,highly attractive or whatever else .Don't try to judge yourself.Make peace with the way you look.Accept yourself.Cause if you don't,Nobody else will.What benefit do you derive from your looks personally?Your looks matter only to other people?So why are you worrying where you stand?Other people are enough for judging you,Don't do it to yourself Realize that there are far more important things in the world,than Superficial beauty.Even the most beautiful woman in the world isnt flawless.Celebrate your flaws.They make you human Don't feel disappointed when someone judge you negatively,Even heroines get judged.So why crib about that?Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholderYou can't be everybody's swan.And more importantly,You don't need to be everybody's swan.Also,Try to make the best with what you have.Get a good hairstyle.Get a hair spa done if you aren't content with your hair texture .Eat healthy,.to maintain your figure and good skin.Exercise daily.Be happy Think positive.Good luck!!
What Does It Feel Like to Know You're Attractive?
I know most of the time you don't really think of it, but when you do, does it make you happy or what? Also, do you ever wonder what it's like to not be attractive or be unattractive? If you're not that attractive, how do you think things would be different for you if you were? How do you feel about your appearance? LOL I know this might sound like I'm angry at people who are attractive, but I'm not. I'm just wondering.
How can I feel very physically attractive?
Yes. Internal pep talk, actually even external motivation, can help.Wake up daily, look at yourself in the mirror, and truly believe when you tell yourself you are beautiful. Because you are. If you do not see that, you will reflect that untrue notion onto others.Remove all forms of media that distract from that notion. If you are shorter, follow celebrities and figures who are on the shorter side. If you are darker, look at darker people. The media we consume really does affect us. Some people used to straighten their hair because they thought they had to in order to be acceptable to society and look "presentable." Some people bleach their skin in hopes for a lighter complexion only to gain chemical burns from the concoctions. We humans are perfect the way we were made. If for some reason we would feel better altering that by using acceptable measures like hair changes, then sure. If that's what makes you happy. As long as you are happy. But if it's hurting or harming you, know that it is unnecessary and those who love you will love you regardless.It's time you learned to do the same yourself. We spend time learning to treat others right, but we often forget to treat ourselves with the same respect we deserve. Our inner voice, our inner monologue should not be toxic. It should be encouraging, full of light.Good luck on your journey. I wish you all the best.
What are the best ways to make yourself feel more attractive after a breakup?
I say, Reinvent yourself! Imagine your BEST version of you and do an internal, external upgrade! Go from .4 to .5S as in sexy! Wait, I agree with you! DO NOT become "slut ex of the year", keep it classy, be yourself! But 1st things 1st, if you don't work out already; hit the gym baby!! You will need to balance your frustrations internally and keep leveled. You will be a roller coaster for a while, this is normal. Physical work like cardio is also therapeutic to mind and body.Also, consider trying a new hair style, improve it or try a new color. Whiten your teeth, yeeees, yeeeess - keep smiling! You want to feel your best? Practice your best smile and improving what you have. (See Orbit commercial) Seriously, a nice smile impresses many. You have one - share it with the world!Next phase: Find a few inspirational quotes that speak deeply to you and memorize them... Print and tape them to your mirror, your fridge, your desk - you name it. Surround yourself with positive reinforcement.Find some feel good music. What ever musician you can listen to that makes you feel ALIVE - BUY IT!!! Music is salve for the Soul. Then, SING IT - in the shower, in the car, while doing laundry, when grocery shopping! Sing it - and don't forget to smile. ;-)Last, remember that these steps although minimal; are the very things and ways in which you should have treated yourself all along. Hunny, Keep a pep in your step and don't stop believing in the BEST of you!!! This is an opportunity to move to the next level of YOU! Look forward with focus and mark my word, you will be discovered by someone who appreciates ALL you have to offer...Key word: UPGRADE. :-))
My boyfriend doesn't make me feel attractive anymore. Any suggestions?
Be certain of yourself and your attractiveness. Never rely on someone else to enhance your viewpoint. At the end of the day and the end of this life, you are with (and are) yourself and you will never be anyone else but yourself.