How To Find The Perfect Wife Or Husband

What would the perfect husband or wife look like to you?

Oh thats very easyBody like Arnold Shwarzneggermoney like BezosGood looks like Tom Cruiseintelligent to be in EinsteinAnd witty and sweet natured like me.

How can I be a perfect wife?

Be yourself. The person you married you because of who you are, not because of who you could or should be.Work out expectations before getting married. This one stumped us for a while. I did the dishes and laundry for the first 25 years but I realized one day I hadn’t agreed to that. I taught the kids to do their own laundry and started just doing my own. So I taught everyone to just do their own dishes and I would load the dishwasher. It never occurred to me to expect my husband to do any of those things and he was critical when I didn’t get them done.One day my husband was cooking and he got so angry he said, “I can’t live like this - all this clutter on the counters! None of this junk belongs in the kitchen and should all go in the trash!” I said, “Then don’t live like this. Clean up the counter. You’re a big boy - if something bothers you, do something about it. Put things where they belong.” He was so angry he stormed out the door. After he left, I took all the clutter off the counter and found most of it was his - tools he used to repair the garbage disposal and hang hooks on walls, mail he had been reading and just set on the counter, dirty dishes he just set down. So I took everything off the counter, washed the dirty dishes, put the mail in a box, and put all his tools in a box in the basement. When he came back he said, “Where’s my drill?” I said, “Probably in the tool box where it belongs, right?” He said, “It was on the counter.” I said, “It couldn’t be - drills don’t belong in the kitchen and I was told to throw out anything that didn’t belong in the kitchen.” He said, “You threw away my drill?!” I said, “No, but the next time you tell me everything needs to be thrown in the trash, better check first to make sure it isn’t something of yours you want to keep.” After that, he started cleaning up after himself, doing his own laundry, even occasionally washing dishes. No more getting angry about a mess - if there is a mess, he is part of the reason and he cleans up his part of the mess.I think if you understand who is expected to do each job, it is easier to be a good wife or husband. Expecting one person to do all the work is unrealistic unless that person expects to and wants to do it.

Is there such a thing as perfect wife?

Ha! Yes. But it’s all perspective. We are all imperfect people living in a fallen world. We all make mistakes. If you are blessed with a wife that understands and accepts this and is willing to forgive imperfect you for the no doubt many mistakes you have made, then you have found the perfect wife. And, if you are willing to treat her with the dignity and respect she deserves, and to forgive her for her shortcomings and love her unconditionally, then she has found the perfect husband. Does that make either of you perfect people? No, but it would make you the perfect spouse to each other.

What's your idea of the perfect wife?

(So many others have already mentioned that “perfect isn't possible” so I'm not going to repeat the usual.)A (great) partner-in-life is someone who makes you want to be a better man than you thought you could ever be.Someone who's willing to point out your mistakes without embarrassing you in front of others.Someone who watches out for your wellbeing as you watch out for hers.Someone to cry with, whether it's the death of a child, a relative, a friend, a pet, your sports team lost, or even just watching a sappy movie.Someone who lovingly reminds you to take your morning medication.Someone who knows exactly how to flavor your coffee in exactly the right proportions.Someone who you would battle the Hounds of Hell for to your last dying breath, when you’ve haven't been in a fight since grade school.Someone who you can come home to after the worst day ever in the history of man… and after just kissing her hello… you totally forgot what the worst was… so you kiss her again just to see if it wasn’t a fluke… and she invites you to triple-check!!!Someone who knows you had an especially hard day and you can't wait to lie in bed with and just being happy snuggling with each other.Someone who you can have a heated political debate with and even when it's not settled, you still want to snuggle with together in bed.…and someone you go way beyond just snuggling……*…?…!Sorry, what were we talking about?

Is it possible to find the perfect wife? If yes, how?

It depends what your idea of perfect is. Plus even if you find her you might not be able to keep her if you are also not a good husband.If there is such a person she is very rare. Women like these are in high demand.You need to stay away from experienced women. This has nothing to do with morality. Experienced women have had many bad relationships and will project those expectations on you. This can prove troublesome, especially if their previous lovers can't let go. This is not to say that they can not be perfectly good wives, but you asked for perfect. To find an inexperienced woman, you need to look for a younger woman who may not have ever been the center of attraction and has religious parents who taught her right and wrong, while also building her confidence enough not to fall to guys who pressure her. Their rarity and self-esteem means that not any man can sweep her off her feet. First, you need to be stable. If you don't have a good work ethic and a steady job don't bother. These women might work as well, but they will not suffer lazy stay at home men. Second, you need to make her feel safe. You don't have to be Jason Statham, but cowards never get the girl. If you can not stand up for her or yourself don't bother. Third, she must find you funny. Everyone else can think you are boring or morbid, but she needs to find you funny. This is not something you can work on unfortunately. If she finds your other aspects attractive you might have an easier time, but this is where you have to be yourself and hope for the best. Now you may be wondering why I didn't add any other aspects of a perfect wife. It is simply because an inexperienced strong woman will adapt to your needs as long as you do the same. She will strive to please you proportionally to how much you please her. Also, what she believes is pleasing to you will not be colored by previous men in her life. So finding the perfect wife requires you to be the perfect husband.