How can I avoid my parents?
Just remove the first line, and then the description won't look contradictory. I could also write something which is equally contradictory like "I am not judging you, but you are not a good son". But I won't. If you really feel that they are 'very nice' or 'they did a lot' then you wouldn't have posted this question. Moreover, if the fighting is concerned, you are not asking how to make them up or bring peace, your question is how to avoid them. Seriously?I am also a person from your generation, so don't think that some old man is giving you advice.The tendency to forget what your parents have done is natural. After getting a job, the world is more colorful and freedom is all you care about. Don't go after it, my friend. It is not worth it. You won't go much far before you realize what you are doing.I know the pain caused due to fighting parents. I have suffered throughout my life due to a drunkard father, harassing my mom. My mom says (after being the best person in my life) to ignore your father after I get a job (you can imagine how much she suffered. Oh sorry! You can't. You are not that empathetic kind of guy. Are you?). But I won't leave my father. Because if he were not there to spend for me, I wouldn't have learned anything.This is your choice. Don't avoid them. Find a solution. Make them live separately or do whatever you can. But don't avoid them.
How can I avoid being judged by my parents?
You can’t. People are ‘normally’ judgemental by virtue of being human.What you do have to do, is to learn to not let it bother you. Not easily done, I understand, but once you are happy with who you are, thing people say or think become easier to bat away.My parents judged me all the time. Their love was completely conditional, and so is my family’s. It took me years of trying to please them and being incredibly unhappy to realise that their judgement was actually THEIR problem - not mine.They just didn't want me to be different from them, or do things they would not do etc. Once I figured that out, I separated myself from them, and started living my life the way I wanted. I was so much happier.People judge you by their idea of ‘success’ - not yours. That’s basically the problem, it’s THEIR idea, you might be completely uninterested in what they like. So choose your life, live your life, and learn to be happy with who you are. They never will be.
How do you avoid a beating from your parents?
No child deserves to be beaten by their parents. You could report this to a school counselor, trusted family friend, the parent of one of your friends, or a religious advisor. Keep telling until things change. Depending on the severity of the beatings and your age, your parents will need to take parenting and discipline classes. You may be temporarily put in to foster care until a family member or a close family member can take you in. Blessings to you! You deserve far better!
Am I right in avoiding my parents?
When I was 15, I made mistakes and they were harsh, even cruel. Every teen makes mistakes and I was really sorry. They said they didn't trust me. Of course this cruelty broke my spirit. I got into a deep depression, but found people who trusted and helped me, so I got over. I made my parents proud but could never see them as loving parents again. I used to be respectful but distant, never forgot that day. Today I'm 23, graduated, have a good job, and nothing changed. For years they've tried to restablish our relationship, but I avoid them, can't forget. A relationship would be hurtful. I agreed to talk with them tomorrow, but I'll say I don't want them in my life. They didn't love and trust me when I needed them most. Now it's too late.
How can I avoid feeling that I miss my parents?
My darling ,if there was a cure to the love and the insane pain of missing parents ,give me some.I am away from them for 3years abroad,the pain is immense ,it gets unbearable to see their tears on skype,i feel you,if in the world there is a medication to forget love and tenderness ,i want it right now.The answer to your question is no matter how old you are,depending on the closeness with your family the pain of seperation is something you will learn to live with
How do i avoid getting yelled at by my parents?
You need to sit down and talk with them when they are not yelling at you. Tell them that you are miserable all the time, and you feel like you are walking on eggshells, like you can never do anything right, and that you need them to lighten up a bit. Tell them you understand that they want you to be a success, and want your grades to be better, but the constant yelling isn't helping. They will probably yell at you less if they feel as though you are making a systematic effort to do your work, so if you can make some kind of a schedule, or get help with the classes you are having a rough time in, it would help, too.
How do you avoid getting hit by your parents?
Stay. In your room but you will get hit eney way if thay want to you will get hit i get hit all the time but i just have my step dad and he liles to beat me up andi cant leave or do eney thing i get hit every day and serched. i stold my phone back from my step brother my step dad took it and gave it to my jackoff step brother i will get beat up for it mising and called a theff just exept it i am acrimnail a meth head a theff a punk a x conn i have a tatto 5hat says all of it and it is on my slevles jeen vest my collers i like it cool i am bad news and i like it
How to avoid your parent's when you still live with them?
Hi, I feel like you have attachment and or, abandonment issues. Do you think you can look way back in your past and see if you can remember anything that affected you regarding any abandonment issues. Like you fe, or were abandoned by your parents in some way. Usually a child that has your feeling are children that, somewhere in their past, have felt abandoned. This feeling will cause them to not be able to be close to other people, especially their family. It will result in relationship problems in the future. Maybe talk to you school counselor. They are a licensed therapist and I am sure they would be glad to work with you so you can resolve this issue. Independence has nothing to do with the fact that you don't want them to show you affection. Why didn't you get to bond... That's your problem right there, I would say. But, think it through and see if you can help yourself get around this problem. Closeness, hugs etc. are nurturing for anyone of any age!! GOOD LUCK!! JOSA
What if I stop doing what my parents tell me?
If you're a junior in high school (age 16 or 17), you still have a few years until your brain is fully developed. This significantly affects your decision-making ability. The Teen Brain: Still Under ConstructionIt's probably true that your parents can't physically stop you from doing whatever you want. But military school isn't the only possible consequence. Damaging your relationship with your parents can have long-lasting effects. Are you hoping to have somewhere to live when you turn 18? Any chance you're going to need help paying for college? Do you own your own car (paid for) and pay your own insurance?You mention that your parents "care to much" (sic; don't count on a college scholarship!) to send you off somewhere, but if you continue to damage your relationship with them that could change.And clearly, if you "just got grounded" you have not been "nothing but good." Perhaps take another look at things and try to see beyond just what your parents can force you to do. You'll be considered an adult soon. See if you can act like one.